8 Briefly talk about the way of trade offs, what is the significance of advancing and retreating for

The way to choose is very meaningful. The right choice is better than a thousand times the effort.

Too much", from the Analects of Advanced, in short, that is, to do more or not enough, it is inappropriate. The way of life of "too much" lies in paying attention to the word "degree", which not only penetrates into the relationship between people, but also lies in personal cultivation. Whether it is talking or doing things, learning and enjoying yourself, if you can't achieve a degree of advance and retreat, and a degree of trade-offs, you are likely to fall into the shackles of the extremes of things.

Speak in moderation.

Some people feel that they have to be truthful, so they should speak straight. Not really.

When we write the word "true", it is the following two points of "straight". In other words, some truths and straight words should also be retained. To tell the truth is true, but to tell the truth is to be stupid.

A gentleman does not lose his footing in others, does not lose his color in others, and does not lose his mouth in others, "Understand others, you are wise; It's clever to know yourself. When you gradually exercise restraint, simplicity, and do not complain, do not ask, and do not remember, you can experience the grandeur of life.

I don't know if you're a junior high school student, a high school student, or a college student, but I want to say that I also came from a student, and I had this mentality at that time, and I learned to do some things I liked to do, such as writing a diary, making some handicrafts, or going to ice cream with my friends, and ......sharing my unhappy thoughts with my friendsBefore you know it, you've graduated. Looking back now, although studying was sometimes annoying, I still miss those school days!

Maybe I'm just writing about my own feelings, but I think it's better to adjust your mentality, nothing is difficult, friends, believe in yourself, firmly believe that you are the best, in fact, most of the unhappiness is caused by yourself, so you have to open your heart, the sky will be bluer!

When you're upset, it's hard to calm you down when someone says anything. It's up to you, find a time to indulge yourself: climb to the top of the mountain and shout, travel with friends, and exercise for a long, long time.

It's about letting yourself relax with all your heart. Then tell yourself that once these things are over, you will stop thinking about anything and ignore it, and you will really get serious. Everyone gets upset at times, but it's hard to really calm down, and it's all up to you!

Recognize the direction and clarify the goal. To know what is the most important thing for you now, since you are a student, you have to put your studies first, as for some emotional problems encountered in life, those are all episodes, don't get too entangled in some small things, study hard!

People's moods always have ups and downs, go with the flow. When you are annoyed, jump out of your current circle and find a quiet place to rest and relax. Or watch a movie is also good. It will be better after some time. Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

When you read a book and see irritability, you can try to listen to ** learning. Or just listen to ** and relax. You'll feel better that way.

At the same time, don't push yourself too hard, because even if you read books all the time, but you don't ...... effect wellEveryone will have a bad mood, sometimes you have to learn more empathy! In fact, many things can be taken lightly! ......

Adjust your mood Listen** Communicate with others, especially friends, and figure out what you're worried about.

People who have no long-term concerns must have near-term worries, and they must cultivate at least one hobby, and they will naturally not be entangled in trivial matters when they have a long-term vision.

Think more about your goals, always be firm in your beliefs, and walk on that path.

Adjust your mentality and find something meaningful to enrich yourself every day I often encounter this situation I will stop what I am doing and listen to the song I turn up the headset to the maximum The song fills me slowly It will be good Good luck to you.

This kind of situation happens when you are a student, maybe because of the pressure, you have to learn to relax your mind and go out and play more. In addition, even if you can't calm down now, you still need to be clear about why you are doing this, communicate more with your friends, and let them give you more advice.

It's hard to say that it's hard to let go Go out for a walk when you're upset Listen to ** or something Friends be kind to yourself I wish you a happy day.

Find other things to do, hang out with friends, be close to nature, and forget about other things.

There are some things, just want to open, to believe that there is nothing that can't be solved... Learn to enlighten yourself ...

Listen**, play basketball,

Sleep in the dormitory for two days and don't think about anything (o).