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1. Pick up the law of **
Dealing with domestic violence. Men must not be soft-hearted, do not want the other party - admit mistakes and compromise, forgive, after all, many times people have to inch in, maybe your forgiveness this time will lay the root of the next domestic violence, so in the face of domestic violence, you must know how to use the law to protect your whole body from being violated.
2. Collect evidence and report to the police
Of course, the wisest way is to use the evidence of the mobile phone number, call the police to deal with it, after all, domestic violence is illegal, such a person is disgusting, in order to make his life better, but also for the sake of the child, it must not be silently endured, must call the police, and solve it as soon as possible to get out of the sea of suffering.
3. Divorce decisively
Violent tendencies.
People can't control themselves when they quarrel or are angry, and they can apologize and admit their mistakes after being reasonable, but once they are irrational, you can only be hurt when they become irrational, so you must be strong and not soft-hearted in the face of such a situation.
Underlying characteristics of a man who is domestic violence.
1. A man who is dissatisfied with society is in married life.
There may be domestic violence, maybe his income is not objective, so that the two people will have conflicts, and this kind of person has a strong sense of inferiority, so he will choose to use domestic violence to treat his relatives.
2. Jiabao is sometimes affected by his family, maybe he has lived in a family of domestic violence since he was a child, and he is usually used to being beaten and scolded by his parents, so when he has his own wife, he will not treat it rationally. And this kind of person, if he is clumsy, will be treated by force.
3. Some women are relatively strong in the family, and they will attack verbally after a few quarrels. Under normal circumstances, after a man suffers a loss, he will feel faceless for a stronger man, so he will use his fists to get it back at this time.
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Summary. 1.Seek an umbrella.
Some people are afraid of their parents and elders, some people are afraid of leaders, and some people are afraid of facing their children, these can be used as a woman's protective umbrella, as long as he wants to do it, he should not be afraid of family ugliness.
2.Refuse. Divorced due to domestic violence, left home alone, only took the children, did not pay child support, did not let the children see, just to be clean with him, and did not associate with old age.
3.Prosecution in court.
Collect evidence of violence, the more detailed the better, the hospital where the beating was made, the neighbors in the neighborhood, the witnesses of the police, and the fight for custody of the child is also more advantageous. Some men with domestic violence tendencies will have a rather gentle period called the honeymoon period after the violence, which is very short, and once this period has passed, the man will be violent again.
Ruthless tricks to deal with domestic violence men.
1.You must not compromise on how to resist 2Call the police and have the police sanction him and appeal3Break up and leave him, so that not only Yinhui will not be hurt again, but also make his psychological depression unable to release, and make his behavior to you public.
1.Leave it alone and run away from home. In general, there are two situations for a woman who does this kind of thing:
One is a young woman, after encountering setbacks or quarrels, she is childish and threatens men; One is that they have been married for many years, can't stand it, are disappointed in men, and finally run away from home. If it is the second type, it is difficult to deal with, and men should review it well. 2.
Let the man be ruined. Frankly speaking, women can also hurt themselves if they use this trick. Therefore, if a woman uses this trick, it means that the woman either has no way out to be cautious, or she is very angry and ready to break the net, or the woman looks down on face.
This type of woman knows more about men and knows the importance of face to men. 3.Spend money without rhythm.
A woman who adopts this method can be said to be very wise, because whether it is a quarrel or other hard confrontation, there is no benefit, spending men's money, enjoying themselves, and it is men who suffer, why not? Some women have a poisonous heart and will spend money until they bankrupt the man and make the man miserable, and the envy is an ingenious way to retaliate against the man's domestic violence.
1.Seek an umbrella. Some people are afraid of their parents and elders, some people are afraid of leaders, and some people are afraid of facing their children, these can be used as a woman's protective umbrella, as long as he wants to do it, he should not be afraid of family ugliness.
2.Refuse. Because of domestic violence, he divorced, left home alone, only took the children, did not pay child support, and did not let the children watch, just to be clean with him, and did not associate with him.
3.The court pleaded and pleaded. Collect evidence of violence, the more detailed the better, the hospital where the beating was made, the neighbors in the neighborhood, the witnesses of the police, and the fight for custody of the child is also more advantageous.
Some men with a tendency to domestic violence will have a fairly gentle period called the honeymoon period after the violence, this period is very short, and once this period is over, the man will be violent again.
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Some men do not have violent tendencies before marriage, but they manifest themselves after marriage. Many women are victims of domestic violence against men, and today we will talk about how to deal with men with violent tendencies.
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Calling the police can solve everything.
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Clever ways to deal with domestic violence men are: running away from home, ruining the man's reputation, and spending money without rhythm.
1. Running away from home.
Generally speaking, there are two situations for women who do such things: one is a young woman, after encountering a setback or quarrel, she is childish and threatens the man; One is that he has been married for many years, can't bear it, is very disappointed in the man, and finally runs away from home. If it is the second type, it is very difficult to deal with, and men should review it carefully.
2. Let the man be ruined.
Frankly, when a woman uses this kind of trick, she can also hurt herself. Therefore, if a woman uses this trick, it means that the woman either has no way out, or is extremely angry and ready to break the net, or the woman takes face very lightly. This kind of woman knows more about men and knows the importance of face to men.
3. Spending money without rhythm.
It can be said that women who adopt this method are very wise, because no matter whether they quarrel or other hard confrontations, they can't get benefits, spend men's money, enjoy themselves, and it is men who suffer, why not do it, some women are poisonous, they will make trouble and spend money until they make the man bankrupt, which bend to make the man miserable.
Personality traits of a man who is domestic violence
1. It is difficult to control emotions.
The most direct manifestation of domestic violence men is that it is difficult to control their emotions, as soon as Li Xiang encounters something that is slightly unpleasant to him, and when he hears something unsatisfactory, they will instantly ** and get angry.
2. Revengeful and easy to regret.
The second distinguishing characteristic of domestic violence men is that they are prone to regret, most of them have a strong sense of revenge, always regret what they have done, and therefore often be unhappy. Those who cry bitterly after domestic violence and kneel down to apologize are all manifestations of their regret. Therefore, they are particularly sincere when they apologize, and it is especially easy for women to soften their hearts.
But when they are forgiven, they revert to their temper-tempered nature and continue to be violent.
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Summary. The most direct way to deal with domestic violence men is to stay away from violence, and if you are still boyfriend and girlfriend, it is recommended to break up. If it is a husband and wife, the woman can first separate from the man, and then if she is still unable to live together, she can choose to divorce, and if the man does not agree to the divorce, the woman can divorce through litigation.
In case of repeated beatings, it is necessary to report to the police and inspect the injury as soon as possible on the premise of ensuring one's own safety, which is all evidence, and even if there is no evidence, you can prosecute.
The most direct way to deal with domestic violence men is to stay away from violence, such as Xiang Zhenguo is still a boyfriend and girlfriend, it is recommended to break up. If it is a husband and wife relationship, the woman can first separate from the man, and then if she is still unable to live together, she can choose to divorce, if the husband does not agree to the divorce, the woman can divorce through litigation. In case of repeated beatings, it is necessary to report to the police and inspect the injury as soon as possible on the premise of ensuring one's own safety, which is all evidence, and even if there is no evidence, you can prosecute.
Say no to domestic violence. If you are connived at the smell of buried beams, it will only make the other party worse. When domestic violence occurs, you can choose to leave, and there are some things that can only be forgiven once.
Drinking and children are not an excuse for domestic violence, no matter what the reason is, it is not right for a man to hit a woman.
Be tough. If there is domestic violence, you can choose to have a good talk with him first, tell him, hit you, it hurts you deeply, and if there is still domestic violence, then separate. Women remember to go when it's time to go.
As a source of psychological uplift, many domestic violence men are psychologically fragile. As a woman, you must have your own bottom line.
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First, ask him to apologize and write a letter of guarantee. Writing a letter of guarantee is not only for him to guarantee, but also for the purpose of guaranteeing that the letter is legally recognized evidence of domestic violence. In case he repeatedly refuses to change, you can use this as evidence to file for divorce.
Third, you must communicate well with your husband to find out his psychology of domestic violence, whether he has a mental illness or a misunderstanding that is difficult to solve for you? If there is a misunderstanding, communicate well, and if you have a mental illness, you may have to see a psychiatrist.
Fourth, from now on, in addition to fulfilling your responsibilities as a wife, you must not give up on self-growth. A man who can do something to his wife has a question mark about his character.
He can do something to you, in addition to being worrying, it also shows that he doesn't respect you and doesn't value you. You should constantly enrich yourself, make yourself independent, and let him understand that if it is not good for you, you can leave him.
Fifth, you have to change the way you get along with him, be gentle when you should be gentle in the future, stand firm when you should be firm, and have a dignity that is not angry but powerful. Let him not dare to make a mistake!
Explain to him that if he commits domestic violence again, he will definitely not be able to eat and walk around! As for how to punish him, it depends on your specific situation. In short, you need to have a magic weapon that can deter him.
For example, if he is a person who is working in a proper manner, you can threaten him, and if he dares to do anything to you again, you will ask him to lead his colleagues to judge him, so that everyone knows what kind of person he is.
Sixth, in the face of domestic violence, don't have the old psychology that family ugliness should not be publicized.
Since he dares to do it, you have to show the courage to go out and lose face and die. Let him know that you are by no means a soft persimmon to be pinched!
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