What do you think of the quarrel between Cheng Lisa and Ying Caier in the eighth issue of Wife s Ro

After watching the clip, I felt that both of them had problems, but because my habits were the same as Ying Caier's, I ......I think Lisa tore it inappropriately. First of all, after Ying Caier said not to tear it, Lisa tore it. This act seems to me to be a declaration of war.

Either you can talk a little more, or you can leave it alone. It is disrespectful for others to express a different opinion, to tear up. The most important thing between people is respect.

When Ying Cai'er feels that he is not respected, he will inevitably get angry. Secondly, after tearing it up, Ying Caier said that there was no reconciliation, and I couldn't answer what you asked me to buy. Lisa:

I didn't ask you! That's what I hate talking back the most. Ying Caier said that if there was a need for reconciliation, she would be sorry not to bring the ticket.

But Lisa defended: I didn't ask you, I didn't let you check the account! This often happens in everyday quarrels, where two people have different priorities, as if they are on the wrong track.

But arguing is not on the same track, it's tiring.

In the show, Cheng Lisha is in charge of money. After learning that Cheng Lisha had torn up the unrecorded bill, Ying Caier became unhappy and asked why she had torn it up. Cheng Lisha said that he was used to it, and then the two of them began to talk to themselves about their remarks.

Ying Caier's insistence on tearing up the bill is wrong and irresponsible, and even taking the money to say it, while Cheng Lisha also insists that tearing up the bill is a personal habit, worried about privacy leakage and other issues.

In terms of a single incident, both have their own causes. After all, it's not a big deal, but when it comes to personal principles, it can be big or small. Ying Caier's screen image has always been a straightforward silly big sister who speaks straightforwardly, but this is particularly easy to offend people.

Take Ying Caier's "Wife's Romantic Trip" as an example. Netizens believe that since the beginning of the show, she has arranged a lot of complaints about her, such as her complaining about Cheng Lisha's old-fashioned pajamas, ridiculing Cheng Lisha for not being able to laugh, and so on. Before the quarrel happened, netizens felt that it was too much, but after the quarrel happened, these points were taken out by netizens as the flame of the quarrel, because Cheng Lisha's grievances during the trip suddenly broke out at this moment and began to quarrel.

That's why Ying Caier hates to quarrel.

Objectively speaking, whether it is Ying Caier or Cheng Lisha, their quarrels are different lifestyles in the eyes of others. Ying Caier is meticulous and realistic. For example, she asked Ying'er to abide by the rule of "eat as much as you can", and Cheng Lisha is a typical housewife.

When communicating with the outside world, she is still accustomed to asserting herself and putting herself at the core. Others seem a bit selfish.

I think it's just a normal communication between sisters, and there is no real quarrel, and the relationship between the two of them is quite good, and there will be no real quarrels.

I think the quarrel between the two of them is very similar to the quarrel between us and our own relatives, all because of some small things, as long as we talk about it.

I think the quarrel between the two of them is very likely to be a script, because the two of them are very good friends in private, and it is impossible to quarrel at all.

If you assign a position to everyone in "Wife's Romantic Trip", Ying Caier is a host who is very good at controlling the rhythm and adjusting the atmosphere. Her existence is the key factor for the show to be loved by the audience, of course, I'm not saying that the other guests are bad, they are all equally good, but everyone's "personality" positioning is different.

Xie Na's confusion, Cheng Lisha's virtuousness, and Ying'er's perseverance are all attractive, but as a variety show, you need a person who can constantly throw out the burden and make laughs, so that it can be enjoyable, after all, everyone watches variety shows to relax.

Ying Caier's arrogant and poisonous personality has taken on this part very well, if it weren't for her, Xie Na should be able to take on this responsibility, but in this way, she is no different from being a show host, and the fresh view given to the audience must be more Ying Caier. Ying Caier appropriately complained about her husband and other guests with poisonous tongues, making the atmosphere more pleasant and having a "laughing" effect.

When people talk about love, they always say that there is never anything worth it in love, only love is not love. Similarly, Cheng Lisha's view of love is not good or bad, the standard answer to this proposition is whether Guo Xiaodong likes her to choose such love, obviously, the answer is yes, then she is right.

Cheng Lisha is traditional compared to the vast majority of people in this era, husband and children, retreat to the second line, and her daily life revolves around the family. She is happy because she does not feel inferior because she is a full-time housewife, and she is not blindly given and is disgusted by her husband.

Subjectively speaking, I don't approve of this kind of love, probably because of my lack of self-confidence. In the show, Cheng Lisa and other sisters talked about how she took the initiative to pursue Guo Xiaodong back then, and my next-door neighbor had such an example, the male owner didn't really like the hostess from the bottom of his heart, and he got married under pressure from the woman, and he heard that he quarreled and cried three days after marriage, and the child had completely divorced his original partner before graduating from elementary school and took a woman with two children. took the initiative to ask to go to Chen Xiaodong's rural hometown for a wedding, I don't think there's anything wrong with it, if you love someone, you have to love all of him, as long as you are with this person, no matter where you are, you are happy, but human nature, things that are often easy to get are not very cherished.

That's why I said that Cheng Lisha is happy, and I am not confident.

In addition, after graduating from my bachelor's degree, one of my classmates said that her dream was to open a small supermarket, and she wanted to know what kind of hard work her parents in rural areas had to put in to help her finish college, and this is how she repaid her parents? After graduation, I worked as a waiter at a gas station or a restaurant, and then my classmate got married and had children, but I never went out to work, and I don't plan to work in the future. Similarly, Cheng Lisha is also an actor with a professional background, and she really feels that it is a waste of social resources to transform into such a role.

I don't know what kind of magic Guo Xiaodong has to make a woman forget herself like this, but fortunately, he likes her dedication, it's enough, and I still feel a little sorry for this beautiful and real girl, but bless her.

In "Wife's Romantic Trip", Cheng Lisha's view of love is difficult for modern women to accept, the first time I heard Cheng Lisha talk about her and Guo Xiaodong's marital status in "Wife's Romantic Trip", at first Cheng Lisha's love concept of losing herself in marriage was rejected, most people think that modern women want to remain independent and cannot rely entirely on love.

But with the in-depth understanding, his view of love has gradually changed. As Ying Caier said, it is the first time to see this kind of woman, but at the same time I am surprised and admire her self-confidence, bravely pursue her own love, live in her own world, people should live in the present, who knows which will come first tomorrow or the accident.

I admire Cheng Lisha's bold dedication to love, but at the same time she is also a little woman, guarding her lover, her own family, and paying for her family wholeheartedly, although many people have controversy about Cheng Lisha's concept of love, and even ridicule her upside down, but I think it is not ashamed to pay bravely for love, and it should not be ridiculed. I hope that modern women can be inspired by Cheng Lisha's concept of love, and be brave in pursuit of love when they meet the right person and know how to cherish your man. Pay for love like Cheng Lisha, and finally reap the perfect love.

A woman like Cheng Lisha is probably the most perfect wife in the hearts of straight men, but in the eyes of women, they can't wait to get into the screen and beat her every minute, which can be seen from the expression of Ying Caier, who is also a guest on the show.

On the other hand, Guo Xiaodong represents the psychology of most Chinese men, who like their wives to be at home at ease, to work hard outside the home, to have delicious meals, well-behaved children, and virtuous wives waiting for him when they come home.

However, what Guo Xiaodong does better than most people is that he truly loves his wife and is reluctant to let his wife suffer any grievances. His wife beat him **, even if he was filming, he had to take it quickly, even if the director would scold him, he would not hesitate to do so.

Many men hope that their wives will be virtuous and that their wives will come and go when they are recruited, and they will use too busy work as an excuse to reject their wives' petty emotions - they hope that their wives will fulfill their obligations, and they also require that there should be no negative emotions as collateral.

The marriage between Guo Xiaodong and Cheng Lisha, in my opinion, is very similar to the old Japanese family model, very traditional and warm. Men have a lot of face, and women enjoy it.

If this is Cheng Lisha's love mode and she feels satisfied, then why not?

Cheng Lisha is not without regrets, she refuted other guests on the show, saying why women can't take the initiative to chase men, but then, she feels that Guo Xiaodong still owes her an active sense of ritual. She still wanted to enjoy the feeling of being chased once.

After marrying Guo Xiaodong, she hasn't come out for many years, and this is the first time.

In the relationship with other guests, she should feel that her view of love is incompatible with other people, although she argues with reason every time, but after a long time, she will still be influenced by other people, and she may reflect on herself, why can't she live more self-consciously.

Once you have doubts about your beliefs, the blow to your emotions is very great, and it is estimated that Guo Xiaodong will receive more complaints from Cheng Lisha in the days to come**, and he may not be able to bear it anymore.

She thinks that this is the best way to love, all her efforts have basically been reciprocated by love, so I bless her, continue to weave dreams, it is much stronger than those marriages that are dissatisfied and complain all their lives, this is not a kind of happiness! What's even happier is that Guo Xiaodong also realized his own shortcomings through this show, and he took it for granted that his wife had paid a lot to him, but now he understands and cherishes his wife even more.

There are thousands of forms of love, such as people who drink water and know themselves.

In "Wife's Romantic Trip", Cheng Lisha's view of love is: husband is always first, I can give everything for love, she is really a girl with a traditional Chinese woman's model, to be honest, such a girl is too compatible with a boy like Guo Xiaodong who grew up in a more traditional family atmosphere and is more conservative and a little machismo. If you change someone, it will be a grudge couple, and this couple really has to cherish each other when they meet each other.

For this view of love, I can only say that I respect her view of love and support her to continue to adhere to the way she likes to live, after all, we are all outsiders who can't understand the feelings of the parties, she loves this way, she needs this life, it's enough. Including the audience, in fact, at the beginning, they had a lot of opinions on the way the couple got along with each other and Cheng Lisha's view of love, but after a few issues, they found that Cheng Lisha had always been in a happy state, and it gradually turned into encouragement and support. As long as the person concerned is happy, we have no reason to judge each view of love.

But to be honest, for ordinary people, it is better not to learn such a concept of love, after all, it is too risky to pay like Cheng Lisha. Ordinary people can't have their family's economic conditions, and their husbands don't have any public image to care about, and more importantly, ordinary people are not necessarily two people like Guo Xiaodong and Cheng Lisha, who are very good in themselves and have strong professional ability, and they may not be able to take the risk of failure.

The love story of Cheng Lisa and Guo Xiaodong in "Wife's Romantic Trip" has many highlights, but it has also caused a lot of controversy among the audience. In the show, Cheng Lisha's concept of love is also worth a while. Cheng Lisha admitted frankly on the show that after she married Guo Xiaodong, she has been a full-time wife for the past 11 years, and she has no career of her own, just to better take care of her family.

And she also said that her husband always comes first in her mind and her children come second.

In addition, when watching the show, you will find that it seems that Cheng Lisha loves her husband more than her husband loves herself. Cheng Lisha gave birth to a second child for her husband and had more than 100 injections, which caused her endocrine disorder and some depression tendencies. If her husband needs Cheng Lisha, Cheng Lisha will always appear in front of her husband as soon as possible, no matter how hard the process is.

These various things made the other female guests on the show both admired and distressed.

As the emotional guests in the show said, Cheng Lisha's current situation is on the one hand the traditional "male protagonist outside the female protagonist" left to her thoughts, and on the other hand, there is modern female independence, and the idea of "equality between men and women" pushes her forward, causing her to be very conflicted. In the show, it can also be seen that Cheng Lisha's envy for other female guests to have their own careers, and her trip this time is also the first time she has come out alone in 11 years after marriage.

In fact, Cheng Lisha will always be like a girl in front of Guo Xiaodong, she wants her husband to only see her, spoil her and love her. Cheng Lisha will be sad every time she picks up the plane without getting a hug or kiss from her husband, Guo Xiaodong can't chat with her for too long while filming, she will cry bitterly.

For her husband Guo Xiaodong, a "straight man", these may not be a thing, but they have made Cheng Lisha's heart more sensitive and insecure again and again, and even Cheng Lisha would rather choose to "pretend to be stupid" and "pretend to be vulnerable", just to win Guo Xiaodong's love.

Many people think that Cheng Lisha's love is too heavy and she blindly gives, and some netizens even think that she is a bit "doing" like this, and men don't know how to love it. Actually, I think Cheng Lisha's openness and bravery for love are worthy of appreciation, she doesn't live for anyone, Guo Xiaodong is her world and universe, and she enjoys being in Guo Xiaodong's arms. This is also the greatest thing about a woman's family life, she is willing to sacrifice herself to achieve the person she loves.

And Guo Xiaodong is also slowly changing according to his wife's wishes, which is also very good, I hope they love sweetly and cherish the person in front of them. What do you say?