Is there pure emotion in the adult world?

The adult world is not all about deceit, but under certain circumstances, there are pure feelings, and there are the following situations:

First, feelings based on shared values.

In the past, many people felt that they hated the poor and loved the rich on the material basis, but in fact, in most cases, it was not completely linked to family interests, economic interests, etc., but the equal strength was easier for the two to have common values, which could not be forced, after all, a child who grew up in the countryside and a child who was raised in a rich family since childhood, their values are different.

In this case, the feelings are real, because there is no need to use the other party to ascend, and there is no need to use the other party's sparrow to become a phoenix. Therefore, in the case of strong alliances, there is no need to be hypocritical.

Feelings based on shared values.

Second, feelings based on a common goal.

Feelings without purpose only exist in ** and romantic love TV series, but feelings with a purpose do not mean that they are not pure feelings, but feelings with a common goal are the purest feelings.

For example, the revolutionary friendship and revolutionary couples during the war years had a common goal and fought for the liberation of the people all their lives, so their feelings were pure and free from distractions. Modern society also has this kind of relationship for a common goal, such as figure skating partners, their common goal is to show the most beautiful moment, so they will trust each other in competitions and training, and usually encourage each other. For example, the village officials and their husbands who work together to improve the poverty alleviation of poor villages, they will work hard to bring in funds and improve the environment in the village, and there are many similar people, these are pure feelings.

Third, the feelings of mutual achievement, mutual protection and support.

Pure feelings are not brainless and unconditional you love me, I love you and the like, but each other's achievement, mutual protection, mutual support, this kind of relationship between lovers, there are close friends, the ancients died for their confidants, and women were not nonsense.

Achieve each other and support each other.

These three situations do not exist alone, and many times they are mixed together, such as the members of the POI team in the suspect tracking in the popular American drama back then, which belong to the pure feelings of supporting and achieving each other under the common goal of saving the number, beyond ordinary people's feelings.

There are many such examples in reality, such as a university teacher of mine, she and her husband are the deans of a certain academy of sciences, and the other is a doctoral supervisor.

All in all, this pure affection between adults is the feelings of appreciation, affection, admiration, dependence, etc., based on common values, a certain background, and a certain goal.

Personally, I think that adults must have special pure feelings when they fall in love, but there are relatively few of them, and in the eyes of many people, adults are generally more profitable, but in fact, there are still pure feelings. Nowadays, people always feel that pure love is so precious! Is there any true love in the world?

In such an era when material resources are extremely important, people's worldview and values are constantly being challenged. And the topic of love is naturally not a few. Pure love is always the most beautiful pursuit of our human beings, but when it is the turn of each of us, it may be really difficult to meet pure love, and all love must be built on a certain foundation.

According to me, love is pure, and it is not pure. Or rather, love is a time period, or even just a moment. So, love is pure, but the premise is that when you love, it is pure, but when you don't love, this non-love is also pure.

It's just that pure love also has the possibility of changing, as for whether it will become shallow, or become completely unloved, you have to look at the sky and the earth. So, no matter what the situation is, don't be overly attached.

In real life, we can often see some such pictures, because the other party's family conditions are not good and are disliked by their parents, and most of the unhappy married life is due to economic problems, so we can see how important the role of money is in a love. So can we easily conclude that all love in this world is centered on interests?

In fact, pure love is also discussed on this basis. Love is like a seed, and all foundations, including money, and interests are the soil of this seed, and the two lovers are like clear water, which is the key to nourishing the seed to thrive. Over time, the seed grows into a towering tree, and love will be deeply rooted in the soil and will never be easily shaken.

Love is an irreplaceable emotion, and you can't feel the happiness of love except with the person you love. There are many things worth pursuing in the world, but only love can only taste it if you really love each other, maybe it is both sweet and sour. True love does not need a threshold, love is a natural combination of two feelings.

Believe in love, but not superstitious about it. Believing that true love exists forever, but expecting it to transcend everything is unrealistic. Love can change over time, and its demise does not necessarily mean the loss of all of life.

Such an understanding of love can make us not superstitious about love, and we will not be easily hurt and hopeless.

Love is beautiful, I hope we can bring a lot of strength to the person we love, when he fails, you may be the best motivation in his heart, and the strength of his perseverance. In love, don't ask who is better, and who loves whom more, we are more in this love, how much we give, we don't ask for anything in return, we have no way to care.

Of course, there are pure feelings in this world, and when we don't limit the word feelings to love alone, it is a new vision. Your parents' affection for you is long-lasting and does not ask for anything in return; Your friend's affection for you is sincere and touching, and she is always with you; Of course, there is also a part of love that is pure affection.

Pure affection may not be romantic or eager, but it is the most fulfilling and long-term.