My parents were about to go to New Zealand, but my girlfriend refused to go with me. No matter how m

Updated on tourism 2024-07-28
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Ask him why he is reluctant to come with you to New Zealand. Calmly analyze your strengths, current situation, future life and direction of development. Depending on your life preferences, choosing where is more suitable for you.

    I have been in love for three years and have a certain understanding of each other. Analyze the problem will be realistic and calm. If you can't just talk about going abroad, you can make a fortune.

    It mainly depends on your living environment and the degree of pursuit of quality, which is suitable for living in the best place. To put it simply, New Zealand has a beautiful environment, a leisurely life, sound laws and regulations, a clean environment, a free business environment, and easy to start a business. Sadness doesn't solve the problem, let's talk about it.

    I wish you all the best of luck.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    , give up love for money, what kind of gentleman are you pretending!

    You don't love her at all, you love your future, go ahead!

    You don't love her, naturally someone loves her. 88 It's inside you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Are you still together now, I'm in the same situation as you now, my boyfriend is very nice to me, very good, so to speak. But my family didn't agree with us being together, because they were poor, my parents were still divorced, and his father didn't care about his business, I lived with him for a month, behind my parents' back, at first my parents said that if you really like it, I agreed, but I didn't expect the man's family to be so bad, my family didn't accept it, and now they took me away, I don't know what to do, but I love each other! It's not my parents' fault, it's their family is really poor, his dad still owes a lot of money, grandma is still paralyzed and can't move, his mother is good but already married, and it is impossible to care about how much he does, at most help him, he is angry with his father, I beat his dad with him, left home, his mother rented us a house, and it was only a month to live, but now my parents firmly disagree, saying that if you really want to be with him, don't interact with the family, I am so uncomfortable now, I don't know what to do.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    After reading your theme, you understand what it means! My last relationship was like this, the woman's parents disagreed, I didn't want the woman to see me、、、 I chased her for almost a year to catch up, her parents' reason is that they feel that we are too far away to be suitable, in fact, I have thought about these problems, and I also told the woman, now we work hard, distance is not a problem, in the future in the woman's house, after the development of society, we may not be at home! The woman thinks it's right、、、 but then she still listens to her parents, and she feels that it's too far away to be inappropriate, and she doesn't have an opinion、、、 and when she thinks about it carefully, the relationship is a matter of two people, and the woman also listens to her parents!

    I can't help it, so I have to let her go, what's the use of forcing it, she really wants to die with you, and she will discuss with you how to solve this matter! Don't be distressed, it's okay after that, it can only mean that the woman missed it! Give it up!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you are mature enough, maybe her family can accept you more easily, but unfortunately you are too immature to elope? Originally, if the man's conditions were okay, their family might not be willing to marry their daughter far away, not to mention that you don't have many conditions yet, and you have to elope, so their family's reaction is so strong. If you really decide to stick to it, then work hard.

    It's useless for you to hate anyone, if it's your parents, do you want to run away so irresponsibly at the risk of the whole family's unrest? Don't be naïve enough to think that when raw rice becomes cooked rice, you take everything for granted, it's really not. In the past, one point was paid, and one point was gained.

    Now, if you pay 10 points, you don't necessarily get half a point. The key depends on your own choice, after choosing, work hard, and you're good to go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The two of us are in the same situation now, my girlfriend's mother just said that the bride price was 500,000, I agreed to him without hesitation, his mother looked at me and promised 500,000 and immediately changed to 1 million, I didn't say anything at the time, his mother didn't agree to let him be with me, because the distance was too far, I promised to buy a house in his hometown He still didn't agree, now I found a hotel near his hometown to live, I want to see him now, I think I give him a hard time together,

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Marriage is very real, many parents make excuses that marriage is not suitable, mainly because they are worried that the other party will marry you and she will not be happy; So now you have to fight for your girlfriend to take the initiative to help you speak, and have the ability to show it as much as possible, so that your girlfriend can influence her parents; Even your girlfriend doesn't have the confidence to confirm this family business with you, maybe fate is over, so let it be!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Admire, admire, hehe, go and work hard to make money, it is difficult to mix in society now without money. Her mother is a very dead-hearted person, you can't do this, your girlfriend is not assertive, and she listens to the family.

    I suggest that you find a way to go out and do something out there and come back triumphantly.

    Hopefully, your relationship will last forever and she will be able to wait until the day you return.

    There is another possibility, maybe the girl will find a way to come out to you, but don't have great hopes to go with you, if the two of you are together, your parents will not be happy.

    Don't talk anything stupid about elopement.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Up to now, it's impossible for you, 200,000 yuan, even if you make money for 200,000 yuan in the future, during this period, your girlfriend and her mother may have married her off early! Let it go, you bless her and hope she is happy! I hope she can marry 200,000 or even more!

    I hope you take a step back and open the sky! Time will dilute everything! Don't be sad!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hey, brother, you did it wrong from elopement in the first place.

    Love and marriage are.

    Two different things, love can be said to be two people, but marriage has to consider the family, it is difficult to be happy without the support of the family, her mother's meaning is very clear that it is not far from home, it is money buddy.

    If you really love each other, the woman should also persuade her parents that it doesn't matter if you don't have money now, you can get married slowly, or make up for it later, but you must let his parents see your potential.

    Brother said nothing can help you, but recently a friend of mine has something similar to you, good luck.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yikes''''You've done what you're supposed to do'Work hard to earn money and come back to her in the future'If only my boyfriend were like you'He flinched before he could see my parents'I said I didn't give him confidence'Your girlfriend is okay enough'After all, her parents have raised her for so many years'I definitely hope that my parents agree'How can a man nowadays ask a woman to follow him without hesitation when he encounters the opposition of the other party's parents'

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is the landlord still with his girlfriend now?

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1 All this kind of thing on the surface, but there are many Chinese in Auckland who don't work, do you know what? Illegal for a few dollars an hour, you know? 100,000 yuan, do not eat or drink enough savings, because.

    In addition, the class, the entry check of this, in attendance once is not certain will not be renewed, and repatriation, and money in the country, is also enough to get you through.

    20,000nz you get it out, I advise you to forget it. Since your fiancée's brother is doing quite well and lending you some money, reading a book, and preparing for immigration will be done. On the contrary, do you listen to this kind of relationship and wonder if it is reliable for yourself?

    The fiancée's younger brother is an ordinary friend. If you really get married in the future, you can be regarded as an eldest brother, but his sister is willing to leave the family behind, so what does it make you get closer and closer? 24 year old, you want too much stuff, do you think you can make money RBI illegal workers turned in New Zealand?

    Who's talking and who's.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can let your wife and brother pay a part of the expenses for you first, and when you work there, can't you pay him back every month? If a job is so easy to find, what do you care about? The point is, you have to know that it is going to work in the dark!

    You can be caught working at any time, and if you are repatriated or fined, you will lose more than you gain!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This kind of thing is okay on the surface, but do you know how many Chinese people in Auckland haven't worked yet? Do you know how many dollars an hour to work in the dark? 100,000 RMB is enough for you to save for a while without eating or drinking.

    Besides, if you should go to class or not, the immigration bureau will check this now, and once the attendance rate is not good, you will definitely not renew the visa, and then repatriate, and repay the money in China, which is more bearable for you.

    You can't take out 20,000 New Zealand dollars, so I advise you to forget it. Since your fiancée's brother is doing quite well according to you, I will lend you some money to study and prepare for immigration in a down-to-earth manner. On the other hand, your relationship doesn't sound reliable, and you think about it yourself?

    The fiancée's brother is an ordinary friend. If you really get married in the future, you can be regarded as an uncle, but when the time comes, will people want you to throw his own sister into the country and let you defect? A 24-year-old child, you want to be more comprehensive, and when you come to New Zealand, do you think you can make a fortune by working as a black worker?

    Whoever says that is nonsense ......

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Come to the school and have a look, there will be the most intuitive answer.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your family doesn't necessarily like what you like, if your family introduces you to your girlfriend and may not necessarily like it, you can like it, feelings can't be forced, both like love is love, everyone has their own shortcomings, just change it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If your brother likes it, don't mess it up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't you care if it's not your girlfriend! You didn't give it to her.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello, it may be affected to some extent. It is best to follow the policies issued by the Immigration Department for immigration. Zhaolong Immigration wishes you a happy life!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Destiny is in your own hands.

    Believe in science: there is absolutely no necessary causal relationship between the date of birth and the content of "divination". Divination cannot be trusted. Believe in divination, and in the end, it is yourself who suffers.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Look at it according to the man's life.

    Dignified, steady, strong-willed, and self-esteem.

    In 05, there was peach blossom luck, which was unlucky. Something unpleasant happens.

    In 06, there was a tongue or something unsatisfactory to relatives at home.

    This year, thinking twice about everything, the pressure is greater. Beware of villains.

    Please understand if there is any error.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Believe in yourself, put an end to superstition, believe in yourself that you can do it, instead of divination, it is better to solve it yourself, anyway!!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What I said upstairs is too general and doesn't need so many notarial deeds.

    I did it for myself last year, and I know better than anyone else what the rules are.

    Something hi me.

    General Visitor Visa Tourist Visa (Visitor'S Visa) if the couple or parents are travelling with a child under the age of 20 can apply and pay one application fee in the same application**.

    The application fee is 590 RMB, plus 40 RMB postage, which will be remitted together.

    This is a must-see.

    Because you're a friend, not a relative.

    Are you an adult? If you are under the age of 16, go and have a birth notarization with your parents.

    All of your documents will need to be signed by both parents.

    I'm just like you.

    When I went last year, I prepared some materials.

    1.One or two letters of explanation in English, it is best to have your school unit and your mother's unit each write a letter, and you can translate it yourself and stamp it. The content is roughly, what kind of work do you do in the unit, how well you do it, go abroad to broaden your horizons, enhance your experience, you must explain that you will definitely return to China to continue to work, and you can also write that you have things that you can't let go of in China, and you will definitely return to China.

    The main thing is to make people think that you have no immigration tendencies.

    2.Deposits in China, short-term, just deposited, the two of you have at least 100,000, the more the better. Let the bank issue a certificate of deposit, and the money should be frozen for more than 3 months.

    3.Since it's a friend, it's best to provide your correspondence, you can put QQ msn... Print out the chat material on it.

    4.It is best to also have a salary income certificate issued by your employer.

    That's what I think was last year.

    I will definitely get a visa (3 months), and even if I can't get a travel visa, I can get a limited purpose tourist visa for 2 and a half months. Definitely no problem.

    To give you an approximate timeline:

    If I start applying on a day.

    The number will give you a letter.

    Then the official visa came down around December 20th.

    This is my personal experience and will be useful.

    ——**--- print it out and fill it in, and hand it in with the application materials.

    1.Tourist visa application**.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It shouldn't be a big problem. But do you want to apply on your own? Because you are not professional, you will have a lot of problems and your visa will be denied.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I'm sorry, we've done this in your case, but he generally doesn't blacklist you, but uses you as a restricted visa applicant, and the explanation of the Australian Immigration Bureau is that you are likely not to submit the same materials again at least half a year, and the submission is also directly killed, and there is a little bit of them ** and email pro, this is really not.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I have encountered many cases of visa refusal, but your so-called blacklisting is impossible. Your first refusal is obviously because they think that your purpose of study is not clear enough, and the second time you submit, you still feel that the documents you prove do not clear the problems that appeared the first time. You will not have only one reason for the rejection of the visa by the Australian Immigration Department, please verify what is said on the rejection letter, and then resubmit it for the problem.

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