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I have this problem with you, too.
Personally, I think about it like this: having a child once in a lifetime, the time to have a child only takes up a small part of your working time, but the quality of the child (forgive me for using this word) is related to the life of your child, you, and your lover. If it weren't for some iron job, you could have found a job again after giving birth.
My advice is to have children wholeheartedly, after all, that's the most important thing, isn't it?
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If you can't afford it, don't have children first.
Otherwise, it is not good for children or adults.
You can't have children with uncertain thoughts.
It's so irresponsible.
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Hey, I wish I had thought about it earlier. I think it's better to discuss your worries with your husband. Don't worry too much, don't there be many families with poor conditions who also raise children.
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Let's talk about me 21 first, I have no experience, but I want to say that the future, not as photographable as imagined, will pass. The point is, don't regret it.
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I think it's better to have children while working. You have been worried about the pressure of your husband's life now, and you don't want to think about how your age is increasing year by year. In the first place, the problem of advanced maternal age is great. Come on, there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain.
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To be honest, it's time to have a child at the age of 30, don't treat the child as a burden. Children are also the crystallization of the love between you and your husband, although having children says that your work has been affected to a certain extent, but life has to go on. As long as you have the ability to work, you will always find the right one.
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At this age, you should have children, and children are the most menstruating. Let your husband think about the rest! Things work themselves out.
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Don't quit. Continue to do it, and there will be insurance after the baby is conceived, and the cost will be big after having a baby.
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There is pressure to be motivated, and difficulties will always pass.
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Heart knots? The knot is in your own heart, how is it, and no one helps you untie the knot? Not to mention that heart disease still needs heart medicine, it is you who really untie the knot in your heart, and one day, when you really figure it out, it is the day you are free. Happy, friend.
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Hello answer, I am inquiring for you here, please wait a moment Hello, I am happy to answer for you. People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.
Life is very tiring and hard Because society is very unfair, life is very helpless Sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring Because life is like this No one's life is smooth sailing As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful! Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just keep in mind:
Don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait Be brave to look up The sun is always after the wind and rain! I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.
Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.
Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.
5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.
Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.
7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.
Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.
Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it!
Finally, I wish you a happy life!
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Make a list of things that are troublesome.
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Talk to a friend, family or psychiatrist.
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Time, can only be time. Or just face it. Don't wait, wait too hard.
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First of all, we must find the knot in the heart, and then prescribe the right medicine.
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Enlightenment can help people untie their hearts, yes, most of them have common experiences, so it makes sense.
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That's what you're good at.
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