Why is life so entangled, why are people so entangled?

There are too many forks in the road in life, and we always hesitate to go left or right at every critical point. Most of the time is wasted before and not after choosing, and between left and right, we always toss and turn for a while. After many layers of thinking, we can still only choose one or the other, and we can't be perfect after all.

In fact, since we all know that it is an unsolvable problem, and since we all know that we may gain different scenery from left to right, why do we hesitate to make a decision?

1 Both are too important.

When I was a child watching TV dramas, when I encountered the heroine's dystocia, the midwife would always ask the male protagonist: "Protect the big or the small?" In this case, the answer can be given in a second.

So the male protagonist usually frowns, or has a nervous breakdown for a while before making a choice. This is still in an emergency situation, and you force yourself to make a choice, and you don't even give yourself time to dwell on it.

There are also those played in Langya Bang, Sect Master Mei was poisoned by the fire and cold, and there are usually two plans. One is that after detoxification, the appearance returns to normal, which is a little different from before, and can speak normally, but ......It doesn't live long and is easy to hang up. The other is that the white hair on the whole body cannot be removed, and the speech may not be clear.

However, if the physical strength returns to normal, you can live a long life.

To say, how can a decision be made without pondering the above situations for two or three days, of course, many people may say that this is too far from our reality, so it will be realistic.

For example, if you accidentally get seriously ill in the hospital, the doctor will give you two **plans, one may lose part of the function of the human body, and the other may be**but**, and there are endless**...I believe that those who have a serious illness at home or a relative understand that sometimes some ** solutions are not perfect.

2. Life cannot be repeated.

If we didn't encounter the above life events, we were lucky, at least we were only entangled in small feelings. For example, graduate school or work, break up or reconcile, go abroad or stay, divorce or not, jump ship...Many people are correcting the major events of life, in fact, it is understandable, after all, there is only one road in life, and they are worried that they will regret their lives if they choose the wrong one.

3. Not having the courage to bear the consequences.

Sometimes we struggle because we don't have the confidence and the courage to make decisions. For example, sometimes the problem of being entangled in the graduate school entrance examination is not whether to take the exam, but whether it can be named on the gold list. We accept that we lack confidence, and we are afraid that we will not get anything after working hard, and we will not be effective after investing.

Without results, everything seems meaningless, and when I grow up, I am too careful and calculating, but I gradually lose the courage to be desperate in my childhood.

4. Too many choices.

If this happens, I don't know whether to say lucky or distressed. Being able to have a variety of choices in life is hard to come by. The average person encounters the choice of making a difficult choice within the scope of the options.

But if you are rich and do not worry about your livelihood, you may also be entangled in a life of gluten and multiplicity.

There is nothing wrong with dwelling on life's major events, and there is no careful thinking about how to make a reasonable choice. But before each choice, I need a lot of courage to bear the unknown results, and after weighing A and B, I will go on unswervingly and not regret my original intention.

True love is acceptance, not endurance; It is support, not domination; It's a condolence, not a question.

True love, to thank but also apologize; Be considerate and considerate; We must admit our mistakes and correct them.

True love is not to stare at each other, but to look in the same direction together.

Perhaps, love, is not the search for a perfect person; Rather, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye.

If you hold hands, don't do it, just say break up.

Perhaps, love is to give willingly and share joys and sorrows.

Don't wait until you lose it to know how valuable it is; Don't wait until you're hurt to beg for forgiveness; Something is lost and will never come back.

If a person confesses to you, please cherish his love for you no matter what, even if it can only be an ordinary friend; Perhaps there will not be a second time for a person's innocent confession.

Because of kindness, so cute; Because it's cute, it's beautiful; Because of beauty, so yearning; Because of yearning, so in love.

It's not because you're lonely that you love each other, it's about making those who love each other not feel lonely.

It's love, not time, that is able to ** all the trauma.

In a person's life, there will always be a large period of blandness, interrupting unsatisfactory encounters, it is love that makes us think of beauty, and there is still hope.

With love, you don't feel that hardship is a burden.

It is far more important to cherish what you have now than to pursue what you don't have.

People who are easily entangled usually don't have too many opinions and can't make up their minds.

If you want to overcome this problem, you need to clear your mind and have a clear attitude towards things, things, and people.

You have to figure out what things should be done and how they should be done, where the principles are, and so on.

Then, you won't be like a headless fly when you're doing things, and you'll be able to make decisions smoothly when you have a choice.

To put it bluntly, it is necessary to form one's own subjective consciousness, and then it is fine.

Best wishes <>

Because people are moving and still; Presence and non-existence; Gains and losses ,...There will be contradictions in the choice, so entangled. You can't have both fish and bear's paws, and if people can weigh the pros and cons between the two and make a choice at the right time, they won't be so entangled. In fact, we live between contradictions, not contradictions, the former is a circular choice, and the latter is forced to be entangled.

If you live in contradictions, not between contradictions, and end up being squashed by spears and shields, what choice is there left? One should live between movement and stillness; between the presence and the absence of; Between gains and losses....and so on, so that when we reach the state of nothing entering into nothingness, there will be no entanglement.

Of course, people have to improve, and I think you should choose the job that can make your skills go to the next level, so that you can do better and develop better in the future.

Sometimes you have to learn to let go, you have to have some time to enjoy life, and not to work too hard.

Why are people so entangled? The main thing is that I don't know which one has good job prospects and the salary is about the same, so I don't know where to go? If there is a huge difference, then it is better to choose in this case, that is, by fate, choose a company, and your heart will be steady, and then you will not be entangled.

This depends on your own choice, if you are a little tired, if you can make yourself grow, I think you still choose to be tired, after all, young people still have to work hard, make yourself better, and the future will be better and better.

I think it's normal to get tangled. But I think it's a little bit hard now, and when you have mastered the technology, won't you be able to allocate your time well? So I think it should be hard and tiring while you're young.

If you have fully mastered this technique, then you still choose a more relaxed job, which may be less stressful in all aspects, and then the person's mood will be better.

Look at the individual's personality and planning. location. If you plan to learn the technology and change jobs, choose the tired.

It's just too much to think about.

Well, life is actually very simple.

Sometimes we just think of simple life as complicated.

Eat well, sleep well, work hard when you work, don't worry about unnecessary things, be with the right people, with the right friends, our lives will be happy.

It may be that I haven't found a better job yet, so I have such a struggle, if there is a better choice, I will not be so entangled, so in the final analysis, it should be that I am not strong enough.

To do technology, we must strengthen our business level, strive for promotion and salary increase, and obtain better development.

This means that you are immature and lack of exercise, you can't tell right from wrong when you encounter things, and you won't find a way to deal with it, so you are entangled.

The reason why people are so entangled is that there is no way to think through this work and life, so there will always be something to give up and something to gain.

Under normal circumstances, people will have entanglements, which are impossible for people to avoid, that is to say, people can't avoid birth, old age, sickness and death.

Life is like this, you have to face a lot of choices, and you will struggle with these choices.

Because you can't get an idea, think about the results, and weigh your best results.

It is an instinctive reaction of human nature and seven emotions.

It can't be helped, because that's life.

Why do people encounter so many different troubles in their lives? It's inevitable, isn't it?

Why do you think a new life cries when it is born? Because he is here to accept the ordeal, otherwise there would be no human beings, and they would all be immortals, wouldn't they? In fact, no matter what setbacks you encounter, if you want to drive some, it will be okay for a long time, come on!!

Friend, in fact, life is very simple, as long as you do two things well, your life will be meaningful and perfect: I think the most important and must exist in these two things is "responsibility" and "faith"! We live in this world, not for ourselves, but for the responsibility of our families, and it is our greatest responsibility to do our best for them (her) to make them happy and happy; In order to realize our dreams, so as to show our self-worth, and never be discouraged in the face of difficulties, never give up, is our never-ending belief.