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Your boyfriend doesn't like your girlfriend, I think you can minimize the chance of your girlfriend and your boyfriend meeting, avoid the embarrassment of both parties meeting, and reconcile both parties at the appropriate time to minimize your boyfriend's misunderstanding of your girlfriend.
First of all, clarify the reason why your boyfriend doesn't like your girlfriend, whether it's because of your boyfriend's subjective reasons, or whether your boyfriend thinks your girlfriend's character is problematic. If your boyfriend simply doesn't like your girlfriend's appearance or personality, then you can continue to date your boyfriend, after all, it's you who gets along with him, and you just like each other.
But if the reason why your boyfriend doesn't like it is because your girlfriend has a problem with her character, such as finding that your girlfriend is selfish, loves to take advantage of a small advantage, is not responsible, and is distracted, etc., then you have to be careful, the eyes of the masses are bright, if your girlfriend really has a character problem, then you should follow the man's advice, stop loss in time, and don't make mistakes again and again.
Secondly, is it because you always stay with your girlfriend and snub your boyfriend that your boyfriend will point the finger at your girlfriend. Men in love are very likely to be jealous, even if they are of the same sex, at this time, give enough care to your boyfriend, often chat with your boyfriend, go shopping, and don't lose love because of friendship. Of course, one thing is very thankful, your boyfriend doesn't like your girlfriend, at least you don't have to guard against your girlfriend.
And some boys are more single-minded, except for their girlfriends, they basically don't look at other girls very rightly, so it is necessary to distinguish which reason the boyfriend doesn't like his girlfriend.
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Of course not, why would you want to put your boyfriend's preferences on yourself? Many people will say that your boyfriend is the one who wants to spend your life with you, and your girlfriend can spend very few days with you, so it must be that your boyfriend is more important, but when you start comparing your boyfriend to your girlfriend, you are already very wrong.
There is no conflict between love and friendship in itself. Love and friendship are two parallel straight lines, and there is no conflict point in itself, let alone the act of giving up the other for the sake of one. If this kind of contradiction or choice really arises, I need to reflect on whether I have not balanced the relationship between love and friendship, and not be overly biased towards the other party and make one party feel ignored.
I have a guy who has a very eccentric personality and "doesn't like to get along with other people, so he will tell his girlfriend from time to time that "couples are xenophobic and need space to be alone". His girlfriend gradually chose to distance herself from her friend under his words. At that time, I felt very angry and incomprehensible, since when did love and friendship begin to conflict, is it only your friends who are emotionally xenophobic?
You shouldn't put your boyfriend's likes and dislikes on yourself. If your boyfriend genuinely likes you, he won't let you be caught between love and friendship, and he won't alienate you from your girlfriend because he doesn't like it. It's similar to if your boyfriend likes cilantro and you don't like it, but you don't force your boyfriend to eat cilantro.
Even couples don't have to be completely identical.
If your boyfriend and girlfriend are really difficult to get along with, you can completely reduce their relationship, but there is no need to reduce your contact with your girlfriend. Is there a rule that says that girlfriends and boyfriends must get along very well?
Girlfriends and boyfriends are also our hand-picked family members, and it is also a kind of fate to be able to meet a girlfriend who has nothing to talk about and has a common heart, and we should also cherish it.
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Under normal circumstances, if your boyfriend particularly dislikes your girlfriend, he will reduce his association with his girlfriend.
Most boys are very rational and will soon discover the shortcomings in their girlfriends, and you will not see them when you are often with your girlfriends. Being in it, you can't know it.
If your best friend is too jealous, too narrow-minded, too hypocritical, and too cautious, this kind of person is very good to others on the surface, but in fact he is very vicious towards others in his heart, and it is easy to hurt you. Sometimes you don't find out, but your boyfriend finds out, and in order to protect you, I hope you can stay away from this kind of person.
Because there are some things that your boyfriend can't tell you clearly, and it's easy for you to misunderstand if you say too much, so I can only say that I hope you will reduce your contact with your girlfriends.
If you trust your boyfriend, you should keep your distance from him so that you don't get yourself to be subjected to many unjustified disasters.
In fact, the person who has the deepest relationship with himself is his boyfriend, and it is his boyfriend who can always be by his side, so his boyfriend doesn't like this girlfriend, and even dislikes it, so he should reduce his contact with his girlfriend.
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I think this situation is still quite easy to solve, don't let your boyfriend and girlfriend often appear in the same place, this is much better than your boyfriend being too close to your girlfriend. Don't worry, the contradiction between these two people is not in you, and you don't have to be too anxious yourself, I have a few suggestions.
The first is to arrange the number of meetings between two people reasonably, try not to see each other, and don't say things about your girlfriend in front of your boyfriend to isolate the two people.
Second, measure what the reason for your boyfriend's dislike, there is a reason to understand, and it can be adjusted, if it is unreasonable, your boyfriend can get out, because he will affect your circle of friends, if you break up, you will find that there is no one around you.
Girlfriends estimate that some behaviors boyfriends feel unbearable, so they will be so bored, you don't have to worry too much, between girlfriends and your boyfriend, one is love and one friendship does not have to be unfavorable to you for the sake of the two dislikes, since the boyfriend doesn't like it, then it's gone, girlfriends don't know that their boyfriend hates her, don't say it, just how to live as before.
But you have to tell your boyfriend that she is a friend, even if you don't like it, she is still your friend, and you still have to get by, don't make you embarrassed, don't be willful! You also declare in front of your boyfriend that you will not behave like your girlfriend, and it is okay to be misunderstood and annoying.
In fact, no matter what, it depends on whether he or she is vexatious and really at fault. If there is a small mistake, it will be adjusted, and if there is a big mistake, the communication between the two will be blocked, and you can only please both ends, and play a round in time when necessary, I believe that whether it is a girlfriend or a boyfriend, it will not embarrass you too much.
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Yes, because my boyfriend doesn't like my girlfriend, I will reduce my relationship with my girlfriend, because my boyfriend is the one who is likely to live with me for the rest of my life, and I can't lose a big deal because of a small thing!
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No! A girlfriend is a person who can get along with him for a lifetime, and a boyfriend is not necessarily missing. If the boyfriend doesn't like the girlfriend, it may be that the boyfriend has a conflict with the girlfriend, if it has nothing to do with him, don't adjust it, try to minimize the number of times they meet, and if it is related to himself, try to ease their relationship.
Because they have their own ideas, it's useless for you to adjust them. If you persuade your girlfriend, she will definitely think that you care more about your boyfriend and are a bit heavy on friends.
If you go to reason with your boyfriend. Some men will think that you are more on the side of your girlfriend. There will be some discomfort in the heart.
Girlfriends should talk about everything, especially the topic of boyfriends, when boyfriends and girlfriends have conflicts, you should first ask your girlfriends what they think. If the other party thinks that this scumbag should not be approached, then let the other party explain her reasons clearly.
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Personally, I think that we should reduce contacts, first of all, I should think clearly, why my boyfriend doesn't like my girlfriend, whether some of my girlfriend's behaviors make my boyfriend unacceptable, whether his behavior is too much, if so, I will definitely stay away from my girlfriend, if my boyfriend doesn't like his girlfriend, then I should have less contact with my girlfriend, after all, girlfriend is sometimes a compliment, love boyfriend is better away from him.
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Resolutely not, you can't keep your distance from your friends because he doesn't like it.
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I don't think there's any need to reduce the interaction with my girlfriends, I can communicate with my girlfriends normally, if my boyfriend doesn't like my girlfriends, then my boyfriend and my girlfriends can communicate less, just meet and say hello.
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Hello. This one won't. Even if he doesn't like your girlfriend anymore, but he is your bosom friend, you can't distance yourself from him just because your boyfriend doesn't like it, this will make your girlfriend cold, you won't make a bosom friend in the future, you can only turn for your boyfriend.
You shouldn't do that, you should have your own way of life and your own space.
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It is not advisable to reduce socialization because your boyfriend doesn't like your friends. Start by understanding why your boyfriend doesn't like your girlfriend and make judgments based on what you know about her. Secondly, a boyfriend is an intimate relationship, but you can't just have a boyfriend and not make other friends, you have to have your own social circle.
Finally, reduce the chances that your boyfriend and your girlfriend will spend time together, and try not to mention each other in front of each other. Whether it's a friend or a boyfriend, you don't want to get to know a person from other people's mouths, but believe in your ability to see people.
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My boyfriend doesn't like my girlfriends, and I won't cut back on my relationship with them. Because you can be your best friend, then your relationship must be very good, and it also means that your way of doing things is very similar, and you have the same views on things, if your boyfriend doesn't like your best friend, he won't like your type of person. If your boyfriend doesn't like your girlfriend, it may be that your girlfriend doesn't understand the situation at some times, but blindly tries to be frank with you, so that he feels unfair, he will have a bad opinion of your girlfriend, if so, I will mention less things about your girlfriend in front of him, give him a cooling-off period, communicate with him more, and he will slowly accept his girlfriend.
I'm not going to cut back on my girlfriends.
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No! 1.Boyfriend is your boyfriend, not your girlfriend's boyfriend, if your boyfriend likes girlfriends, there may be unnecessary disputes and differences, affecting your girlfriends and love, friendship and love have different weights in life, the two can exist at the same time, boyfriends don't like girlfriends, you can reduce the chance of both parties to meet, communication is not only to meet, you can chat online, etc., your life is not only boyfriend.
2.Girlfriends are in a good relationship, but it does not mean that all preferences are the same, there are some topics that can only be discussed between the same sex, then girlfriends are a good communication object, and your preferences do not represent your boyfriend's preferences, the preferences of the two need to run in with each other, it is best to coexist, rather than strangling one party to become the other.
3.If it is a female girlfriend, the previous two points are true, if it is a male girlfriend, if the subject really believes that there are male girlfriends, then it is best to reduce contacts or break up with your boyfriend.
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Since your boyfriend doesn't like your best friend. You should have less contact with your girlfriends, your boyfriend will live with you for a lifetime in the future, and it's not a good thing to get too close to your girlfriends.
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Your boyfriend doesn't like your girlfriend and won't reduce his relationship with him. When your boyfriend likes your girlfriend, you will hate your girlfriend, and in this case, you will reduce your relationship with your girlfriend.
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1. There are many kinds of girlfriends, some of the same gender and those of the opposite sex, so they must be treated differently.
So for those girlfriends of the same sex, does it also mean that they will be estranged? At this point, I personally think that it varies from person to person, and it depends on what kind of girlfriend the relationship between the two is? 1. Companion girlfriends; 2. Accompany eating and drinking girlfriends; 3. Soul exchange girlfriends; Whether it's estranged or as good as ever, I don't think it matters, as long as it's handled properly.
Second, it is understandable that human feelings have an exclusive aspect, and we must learn to understand it correctly.
Anyone who has ever brought a child knows that when two children play together, they can usually play for a long time, but if a third child joins, it is easy to have conflicts with each other. This is the case between children, and adults are no exception, which has nothing to do with whether love and friendship can exist at the same time.
3. Love and friendship can be at the same time, but they can not happen at the same time, and they can be staggered at their respective times.
How so? Just like a person eats and loves to sing, eating and sleeping is a person's basic need, singing and dancing is a person's personal hobby, which is no problem, but both need to use the mouth, which means that at the same time, you can't sing and eat at the same time, that is to say, you can't eat when you sing, and you can't sing when you eat. In the same way, we can do one thing at the same time, don't pull your boyfriend when you're playing with your girlfriend, and don't pull your girlfriend when you're with your boyfriend.
Normal friendship and love can exist at the same time, on the one hand, enjoy love, on the other hand, you can also have two girlfriends, talk about your heart, especially the girlfriends who have played since childhood.
Most people may not feel it, but if people have love, it can't be hidden, always hope to be together every day, inseparable, they don't feel it, but for the girlfriends who were together before, they feel it, you don't care too much about the people and things of your girlfriends, it turns out that this and that kind of sharing together, now you just want to share with your boyfriend, even if you are with your girlfriend, but also talk about your boyfriend, good and bad, in your mouth are all advantages, eyes are full of light, girlfriends will be jealous. With a boyfriend, time is a little tight, I don't have time to play with my girlfriends, most of the time I spend with my boyfriend, I feel a little estranged, and I won't be estranged because of these after I stabilize with my boyfriend.
Appropriately expressing that you are jealous can also enhance your relationship. The premise is that your relationship is really to the extent that you are jealous and justified. Everyone will meet different people at different times, former good friends are not necessarily good friends now, people should learn to look forward, stop immersing themselves in the happiness of your past, and meet new friends!
I guess I'm going to have a hard time accepting it.
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