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A man with a particularly bad personality, or a man who is particularly irritable in life. Such a man is very easy to beat a single.
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Boys with average economic conditions, ordinary appearance, no self-motivation, special selfishness, no sense of responsibility, and no stable job are very easy to beat singles.
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Men who are easy to "beat up singles" usually have these characteristics. 1.The giant of thought, the dwarf of action, 2No skills, no hard work to make money, 3Short-tempered personality and bad temper.
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Compared with the previous society, modern women are more independent, and now women are very much pursuing equality between men and women, and they can also contribute to society.
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No sense of responsibility, no responsibility, no self-motivation, special laziness, no ability to earn money, and a very bad temper, such a man is easy to beat a single.
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The famous educator Lenin once said: "Don't be an ape giant in thought and a dwarf in action." In other words, one cannot just plan things very well and then put things on the back burner.
In reality, there are many such people, especially those men who have not started a family for a long time, why they are "left", the main reason is that they "only say but don't do". If a man only daydreams all day long, can only talk loudly in words, and his execution ability is relatively weak, the woman is likely to end up with only a beautiful "blank check".
Liu Yuxi has a classic sentence that is, "Thousands of sails pass by the side of the sinking boat, and ten thousand trees spring in front of the sick tree." "On the side of the sinking boat, hundreds of boats compete for the current; In front of the sick tree, ten thousand trees become spring. In other words, the alternation of the old and the new, metabolism is a very normal thing, with the development of society, the later generation is indeed more suitable for the fast-paced development trend of the times, but the later generation has no reason to look down on the old-timers.
Many times, we also see men who are arrogant and talk to their parents because they are not easy to use new technology. Holding his young capital in his hands, he shows pride in front of his parents.
Everyone is completely resistant to such people, so such people will not only be very easy to be "single", but also easy to have no friends. According to the continuous observation of psychological experts, these men who have the characteristics of "nesting in the nest" after marriage are generally these men who "look down" on their parents.
Their most important characteristic is that they present their most extreme mentality in front of the people closest to them, but in front of the people who must maintain relationships outside, they are afraid of the head and tail, and they are two-faced.
If there will be such a man around you, I hope you will avoid it as soon as possible, if the object has this hidden characteristic, I advise you to keep your eyes open as soon as possible, if you are such a person and you don't know why you can't find a love partner from beginning to end, then please be strict with yourself and reflect on it.
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Singles are used to describe which older unmarried men, in the eyes of some people, the reason why a man is called a single, it probably means that the man will live alone in this life. The reason why there are so many singles in China is not only due to the imbalance between men and women, but also related to the reasons for the singles themselves. After a long period of research and practice, it has been proved that the three types of men who are most likely to become "singles" are the second reason for the heart.
The first type: a man with a high hand and a low hand.
Some men just like to be abused, that is, they like which women they can't be fooled with, and which women who are worse than themselves or similar to themselves don't look down on them. They would rather be abused or single by women who can't climb higher than compromise. It is a valuable quality not to use it in other parts of the relationship, but it is ignorant to use it in which eyes are high and low men, as you get older, not to mention which excellent women, even those women you once looked down on will dislike you, and in the end you can only die alone.
The second type: a man with a heavy inferiority complex.
Low self-esteem hurts a person too much, and men with low self-esteem, on the one hand, will feel that they are not worthy of this and that. And such men are often extremely sensitive, women will feel a lot of pressure when they get along with them, for fear that they will inadvertently hurt you, and such men are often prone to do some extreme or incredible things, I believe that if you are a woman, you will not choose such a man.
The third type: too poor.
No matter what a man does to you, as long as you have enough money, there will be women coming to you. But when you are poor to a certain extent, not only is it difficult for women to like you, but even if there are women who really like you, they will choose to leave you because of your poverty. A man can not speak, he may not be handsome, or he may not have a position of power.
But you must not have no money at all, money will not lead you to the other side of happiness, but without it you will not be there.
Wukong's conclusion: The above three reasons are the true portrayal of most singles, and most of the men around me who are singles belong to men with a heavy inferiority complex, they are unwilling to get along with others, and they are also veritable paranoia. Living in your own world for a long time and not extricating yourself.
Today's topic: What do you think about this?
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In my opinion, a man who has no money, looks ugly, has no ability, has no ambition, but still picks this and that all day long, deserves to be the most single. Although there are very few such men, there are, because I have seen such people. The human appearance is extremely ugly.
It may be an exaggeration, but it's a feeling that makes you want to laugh at a glance. The eyes are myopia, and it is estimated that there are more than 800 degrees. It's quite tall, probably about 1.8 meters.
But hunchbacked. It's not really a hunchback, it's the kind of tall people who have the problem of walking up straight. But he's a bit more serious.
And walking is still the kind of situation outside the figure. The situation at home is also average, not so poor that they can't afford to eat, but they are not considered well-off. And he doesn't have a job yet, he stays at home all day to gnaw at the old, play mahjong, and occasionally go to the field with his father to do some farm work.
The worst-case scenario is that the temper is particularly bad. At home, his parents didn't dare to talk about him, and as soon as he said it, he became angry. I am estimated to be thirty-five or sixteen years old this year.
But no one wanted to marry him, and his reputation was so bad in the neighbor's house that no one wanted to give him Timon. Before he was thirty years old, he still picked other girls, but now he doesn't choose, and no one gives him a chance to choose.
See for yourselves if such a man deserves to be a bachelor. Anyway, I know that if I were a girl, I would definitely not marry someone like this. Although it looks quite pitiful. But there will be something hateful about the wretched, and it is all iniquity of his own making.
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In fact, no one deserves to be single, everyone in Ingvi has their own love, even if a bad man has someone he loves, and there are people who are willing to keep his duty for him, but some men are really hateful, especially women hate them.
First of all, it should be a scumbag, the so-called scumbag is the kind of man who specializes in hurting girls' hearts, they approach women sweetly, slowly make women fall in love with themselves, and confuse women with clever words, so that they lose their minds, are infatuated with this kind of man, and die to the ground. And once the man gets tired of playing, he withdraws away, disappears from it, and after a while, he begins to approach another woman. After being deceived, a woman feels very hurt by the loss, loses confidence in love, has no good impression of men, and ruins a woman's life.
And this kind of scumbag is at ease, and deceives another woman, this kind of man makes women hate it to the bone, so many women also curse this kind of scumbag forever, and even more vicious curses, it is really difficult to eliminate the hatred in people's hearts.
The second is the kind of man who has no sense of responsibility and doesn't care about his family. This kind of man may want to live a good life, but he has no sense of responsibility, he only thinks about his own comfort, never thinks about his family, is very selfish, very indifferent, and indifferent to his wife and children, and only thinks about his own enjoyment. I know that I have a family, but I don't take on the responsibilities of a man, I am afraid of suffering, I am afraid of being tired, I will always be a mess, I will not think about my future life, and I have no plan for life.
There are also men who have a home, but they are still fooling around outside, not caring about the family, only thinking about indulging in women, and in the end they can only end up with their wives separated and left alone.
A man should have the appearance of a man, be upright, be able to take on the responsibilities of the family, give a woman a solid support, and let women feel at ease. Those men who deserve to be singles really don't fulfill the duties of a man, don't do what a man should do, just think about enjoyment, opportunism, and will never be looked down upon.
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This question, the first thing I want to laugh at is when I see it, haha. First of all, there is a big environmental condition, that is, the imbalance between men and women in our country. The director of the Center for Population and Development Studies of the Chinese University of China once said:
It is conservatively estimated that about 30 million men in China will not be able to marry a wife in the next 30 years." From this, it can be seen that it is now a society with more monks and less porridge, which has produced a lot of singles. And what kind of man is easy to become a single?
First of all, the first point is that because the family conditions and economic foundation are very low, because there is no money and the family environment is not good, no one in the woman's family can take a fancy to this kind of man, which has caused the situation that this part of the men has become singles.
The second point is that men who have conditions but have their own defects are also more likely to become singles, because in this way, when a girl marries, she has to take on the responsibility of taking care of the man, so it is not easy to find a daughter-in-law.
The above two points are about objective conditions, and are not the innate basis for oneself to decide. But the innate foundation can be changed through their own efforts, so this kind of man must not give up, there is still hope.
Regarding the men themselves, there are the following:
First, men are sloppy and unhygienic. Women are basically sensory animals, first of all, a man's appearance is sloppy and dirty, which will instantly make a woman feel no sense of him, and will only want to stay away from him.
The second is that men are useless and do not seek to be motivated. The vast majority of women will want to have a man who can give her a sense of security, if a man is useless and not motivated, then this man will not bring women anything she wants, needs. Nor can they protect her and give her a warm arm.
In the long run, women will be disappointed in this kind of man, so that there will be fewer and fewer women around this kind of man.
The third is that men are short-tempered, have a bad temper, and have violent tendencies. This kind of man is a dangerous existence in the first place, he will not only threaten the safety of women, but even the safety of this society. So women must be afraid of such men and stay away from them.
Fourth, men are stingy, stingy, and have a small belly. This kind of man doesn't give, can't give women what they want, calculates all day long, and doesn't have much to offer. After marriage, this is the trigger for unhappy families, so such men are not popular with women.
Fifth, men have no connotation and are too pompous. In short, it's loaded. And it's a bottomless outfit. Women basically do not have a good impression of this kind of man, thinking that they are not practical enough, too impetuous, and cannot give them a reliable home. Wait a minute.
It is not easy for a man to become a single, as long as you can have some shining points, you will find your other half, after all, there are still a lot of women, work hard, you will be stronger than some men in China, only the strong will have the right to distribute. Therefore, boys should hurry up to improve their quality and ability, to find your beautiful other half, and create a better future!
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Now in this era when there are more men and fewer women, more and more people feel that they have to fight singles, so what kind of men are easier to beat singles?
The first is the lazy type. This is also the most bad one, usually don't do anything, study and don't learn well, don't do things seriously, there is no real ink in the stomach, and others as long as you talk to you can see the bottom of this kind of person, there is no city, let alone deal with people, naturally there will be no girls favored, unless you can correct your attitude when you work in the future, otherwise it is difficult to have girls like it, and the probability of being single is relatively large.
The second type is not good at communicating. There are also a lot of men of this type, and many people who are unwilling to communicate can also find their love, but often when girls are angry or coquettish, boys don't know how to parry, so that girls suspect that boys don't love her enough, can't tolerate her and give up this love, such boys won't coax girlfriends, let alone say some sweet words, there will be girls who like such boys, but in many cases girls will give up.
The third type has no connotation, likes to talk big and brags. This kind of person is also a majority, many people like to talk big, brag about their skills, but when it's really time to show, they can't show it, they usually like to brag about themselves with their boyfriend and girlfriend, and there will be girls who like his character, but many times they can't stand his boasting and give up this love.
The fourth type is the man with a heart of flowers. A man with a heart is not single-minded, he likes to step on several boats, and when he is discovered by a woman, he can find thousands of reasons to make a woman happy, such a man can find a girlfriend, but it is difficult to talk about it for a long time, once it is discovered, it is difficult to get rid of it.
The fifth type is a man who is good for nothing. This kind of man is relatively rare, he wants money and no money, no one wants people, he wants knowledge and no knowledge, and there is no place for others to appreciate and learn from all over the body, even if a man like this is in the women's pile every day, it is difficult for women to attract unless they can work hard to change themselves, otherwise it is easy to become a single.
The sixth type is the man who doesn't like women. This kind of man is also very rare, because the original theory of relativity has the doctrine of opposites attracting, so there are very few men who don't like to get along with women, if someone is one of them, it must be a person to go down.
There are also a few things that are duplicated with the above, such as the kind of people who are unwilling to share themselves, that is, they have their own little secrets, and they talk about it all day long, which will also make love collapse.
There are probably so many things I can summarize, but as long as you are willing to work hard, there must be something bright in yourself, and it is difficult to fight a single.
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