How to deal with chatter !? 20

If you don't like to talk, too many people, when he is nagging you, you don't want his questions, you just listen, don't say anything to him, he will be boring to talk to himself, and he won't keep talking, because you haven't listened to him, you just think about your own things as if you didn't hear them.

First of all, the chatter king is indeed very annoying, in fact, chatting with interesting people or like-minded people will not feel impatient at all, and you define it as the chatter king, it should be that this person is very boring in itself, and has been outputting useless information.

It's not annoying enough, the point is that you're already acting impatient, and he has to keep saying it, which means that this person's emotional intelligence is very low and he can't sense the emotions of others.

When you encounter this kind of person, you still have to treat them differently.

1.If this person is your relative (many times relatives are so unscrupulous and don't care whether you live or die). So even if you are impatient, as long as you don't reach your physical limit, you still need to be patient, you just need to turn your attention away, occasionally play with your phone, wait until he finishes, remember not to interject to cause a new topic, and then you can give him a polite but graceful smile.

2. If this person is your friend (oh my God, how can I have such a friend, maybe I'm also a chattering king). So it depends on what he's telling you, whether he's just venting or trying to get you to solve the problem? If it's pure venting, then let him vent, you can respond once in a while, if you want to solve the problem, then you can join in and solve the problem with him.

Or maybe you just find an opportunity to reopen a topic and then end it yourself.

3.If this person is your colleague or leader (the leader has nagged me, I guess he wants to promote me), most of my colleagues are actually chatting about some gossip in the unit, which is actually the last thing I want to participate in.

Ignore him, her, let him she say: That's how I talk, over time, I ignore him and her, and he and she don't talk to me much!

It's okay not to speak.

For example, looking at your phone all the time.

He stops automatically when he sees that you don't speak.

Ignore him, ignore him and don't talk to him, and if you ignore him badly, perfunctory him and let him know that he is verbose.

You can also nag at him, answer what he asked, say east, you say west, the bull's head is not the horse's mouth, and if you go back and forth, you can't go on.

Hello, the best way to deal with "chatter" is to talk more than him, so that he can see the power of chatter.

The most effective way to deal with chatter is not to talk to him.

Ignore the worship and let him say whatever he wants.

Chatter, as the name suggests, is a lot of talk, and the conversation is very nagging, but it is also used to describe a person who is attentive to things and has a wide range of contacts. How to become a chatter that everyone likes, you can refer to the following points:

1) Be a caring person. Pay attention to details, remember the casual words of others, and praise others at the right time.

2) Fluent expression. Express your meaning clearly so that others can immediately understand your intentions. Starting a conversation easily is the first step in starting a conversation.

3) Rich knowledge. Read more books to understand astronomy and geography; Collect more information, real-time financial politics, current fashion, and ...... humanities and customsThe more you know about the world, the easier it is to discuss topics.

4) A tolerant mindset. A tolerant mind is more able to accept various points of view peacefully, and will not easily quarrel with others, and it is easy to mingle with all kinds of people.

Chatter gives people the feeling that they can't finish talking, they can talk about any topic, and they can't stop as soon as they open their mouths, but from another point of view, chatterbox is actually sharing life with you, and having a chatter around you is actually very good.

1. The parts of speech are different.

Chatter is a name that refers to the act of talking a lot and talking very naggingly.

Chatter is an adjective, that is, there are a lot of words, and the speech is very nagging, just like the cough of a tuberculosis patient, grinding and chirping, endlessly.

2. The pronunciation is different.

The pronunciation of 藨 is huà láo.

The pronunciation of 言唠 is huà lào.

3. Pointing is different.

Chatterbox refers to people who talk endlessly all day long.

Chatter refers to the act of talking very nagging.

Talking refers to people who talk a lotTalking refers to people who talk a lotTalking and nagging are two different things, nagging is a bad behavior, and it refers to talking endlessly. Chatter is a character trait. Chatter is a characteristic of mentality.

Nagging is a behavioral trait. Chatter is a habitual trait. Chatterium is a pathological trait.

Chatter is a psychological trait. Chatter is a characteristic of thinking. Chatter is a performance characteristic.

Chatter is a linguistic habit.

"Chatter" and "chatter" are both words to describe a person who loves to talk, and there are some differences: "chatter" refers to a person who loves to talk and talks a lot, but it is not necessarily a derogatory term, it can be used to describe an active and enthusiastic person, and it can also be used to indicate that a person who has no bad intentions loves to chat and communicate with everyone. On the other hand, "chatter" is often used to refer to people who talk too much, chatter and are bored, usually in a derogatory sense, a little unpopular, and their behavior can make people feel helpless or irritable.

In short, the two Pei people have different connotations, one is a positive description, and the other is a derogatory term<>

In what situations do we want the other person to shut up? I took myself as a sample and thought of a few scenarios.

1.The words are reasonable, but the attitude is bad.

Don't you think you're fierce right now? I like your gentle look. ”

2.It's unreasonable to mess around.

Oh" (I might say before I go oh, read more books to improve my comprehension skills, and then come back to the front.) ）

3.It is good to have a reasoned and well-founded attitude, but the views are not consistent.

Views and positions depend on the perception of things, cognition is the sum of all human experiences, I can't help but experience your life in an instant, so I reserve my attitude, respect your point of view, let's talk about something else first, these will come back to new insights later**. Let's change the subject

4.Pole essence sophistry.

What do you want at this moment, with the speed of your tongue? Then you won" "Are you happy at the moment?" The world is so beautiful, I wish you to discover it soon. ”

5.Divert attention.

When he or she keeps babbling and talking, drop something and then turn his attention away and pick it up, completely taking his or her attention away. I think people who are interested will shut up.

There is no way to defeat the enemy, the scene may not be figured out, an element is different, the atmosphere will change, and it is necessary to rethink the response, I personally think that the contradiction table is "emotion", if you want interpersonal relationships, you should first put aside the content, start from the emotion, slowly dilute, until quiet; The bottom of the contradiction is "ideology", but if there is agreement, there will be no argument, and if there is inconsistency, don't worry, turn on the compatibility mode, after all, the world is so big, our cognition is just a mote, respect and reserve, and do not intensify the contradiction.