Some couples say it s love at first sight, but they break up quickly, does love at first sight reall

It is undeniable that liking someone starts with "temporary favoritism". But "temporary favor" is only the favor of the time, and cannot directly determine love. With the "temporary goodwill", we went deeper and deeper and determined our love for each other.

When the time comes, if you fall in love, it will be relatively reliable. If you just fall in love with "temporary favor", that kind of love will not end well! "A moment of goodwill" is not always followed by a goodwill.

After a lot of "instant goodwill", they actually get along, and they find that many places between the two people are not suitable.

The next reader's love is a "temporary favorite", and only after falling in love do you know that two people are not suitable. I broke up with my girlfriend and she agreed. Just like when I confessed to her, she agreed very simply.

The reason we broke up was that the two of us were so incompatible. Because not only do the three views do not match, but also many habits and hobbies do not match. Our love dates back to two months ago, when I went to visit a client, and because the client was in a meeting, she had the responsibility to receive me.

It turned out that she was a beautiful girl, so she was very fond of her. Sitting idle and bored, I chatted with her. As we chatted, I became more and more fond of her.

That feeling is that she thinks it's all good.

I kept chatting with her after I came back that day, and she was also very cooperative and kept chatting with me. The next day I promised to eat with her, and she could agree. I think there's drama between us.

I confessed to her, gave her gifts, told her my sincerity, said that I liked her too much and wanted to fall in love with her. She simply agreed. It's only been three days of falling in love.

It was a quick decision, but I think it was fate. You can't escape when you meet. Since it can't be avoided, it's better to catch it in time.

She's younger than me.

She is very obedient and gentle when she is in love, which makes me like her more. But this good state only lasted for a month, and from the second month onwards, problems gradually arose between us. Love at first sight. A shortcut to love, but this kind of love is easy to break up!

No wonder this reader loves to say he doesn't know ** is wrong. Because he only focuses on the process of love, not the beginning of love. The biggest problem with his love is that he falls in love with "temporary favor".

The two of them could be said to have a "temporary affection" for each other at the time. I thought it was love at first sight, I thought it was the fate of God, but in fact it was just impulsive love. Looking back on their love, when they decided to fall in love, they only had a "temporary affection" for each other, without any understanding, completely unaware of what kind of person each other was, and did not consider whether the two people were suitable for each other.

Of course, love at first sight really exists, but after two people get along for a long time, they will find that the other party is not suitable for them, so they will break up soon, and such things are very common.

Love at first sight is real, but the likelihood of it lasting is very small. Because it is love at first sight that looks at the face rather than the nature of the person, you will discover the essence of this person after slowly getting along.

It simply doesn't exist. Love at first sight is just a matter of lust, so this kind of relationship is not reliable at all.

Many love at first sight has nothing to say, not because the three views are inconsistent, but because they failed to get through the burnout period in the relationship, so how to break the burnout? Personally, I think the following aspects should be dealt with:

1. Communication. The premise of making a change is that both parties have the will to change, and the first step is to communicate and express their expectations of each other.

Try to communicate with the other party and express the responsibilities you want them to be able to take, or what they can change, so that the other party can know what to do, and you can reduce a lot of conflicts and contradictions caused by not understanding.

2. Expect from each other within the right range.

You must know that in all stages of life, the focus of life is different, when you are a student and when you are young, there is no pressure in life, you can put more energy on love, but when there is pressure in life, you will definitely take away some of your energy.

At this time, both people in the relationship should be aware of the change in their identities and adjust their expectations of each other.

What is common in marriage relationships is that I want you to love me and spoil me, but you want me to be sensible.

If you can't manage your expectations, your relationship will only wander through unrealistic fantasies and disappointments.

3. Determine the scope of your compromise.

Both people have to make sure that they are willing to make those changes, compromises, and whether they can find a balance that makes both people comfortable.

For example, if a girl wants a boy to spend more time with her, and a boy wants her to understand that her job requires overtime, if both people are willing to make a compromise, the boy will spend one day a week with the girl, and the other time the girl can accept the boy working overtime without bothering him.

4. Find a preservation method that suits your feelings.

For the burnout period that lacks novelty, you can try to find some ways to keep your feelings fresh, such as increasing the sense of ritual, doing something new together, and so on.

Creating a shared experience can increase the common topic of conversation between each other, and it can also help two people to explore each other's new reputation chain freshness and increase curiosity about each other.

The relationship is a matter of two people, and it is far from enough for only one person to work hard, or two people have made all the efforts they can do, but the relationship still makes both parties feel tired and painful, so choosing to separate is also a choice, at least once had a good love.

As a graduating college student, I don't think it's easy to tell at a glance whether you love or not. Although we often hear noisy or romantic stories, and some people may be attracted to the feeling of love at first sight, true love is something that takes time and experience before it can be revealed. Therefore, we cannot judge whether there is love based on the first impression or the feeling at first sight alone.

In my experience, I have observed that love is a process that develops slowly, and it requires both parties to get to know each other slowly, and to build trust and shared values in order to be able to be spiritually interdependent. This requires constant communication and exploration on both sides, as well as sharing the good moments and lows in life. Therefore, we should try to understand each other's preferences, interests, backgrounds and life experiences, and get to know each other deeply through communication.

Only in this way can we truly understand whether the other person is worthy of our love and whether it is worthy of our giving.

In addition, I also believe that love is based on mutual respect and support. When we see the growth and progress of our other half, we may feel encouraged and happy, and this feeling is also part of love. Therefore, we should support and encourage each other so that they can be the best version of themselves.

To sum up, love and dislove are not something that can be seen at a glance. We need to understand each other through communication and exchange, so as to build mutual trust and dependence, in order to feel true love.

There will be a feeling of heartbeat.

But we still need to know more about the follow-up.

Let's talk about getting married together.

1.If you don't believe in love at first sight, then I just fell in love with you at first sight and fell in love with you at second sight.

2.The eyes are raining for her, but the heart is holding an umbrella for her.

3.What you may not know is that when we first met, the parting gesture was emphasized.

4.Meet you at the time when a flower blooms, in my best years, with my best attitude.

5.The first time you see someone, it's called love at first sight.

6.When you meet, you seem to be familiar, and you are lovesick if you don't know each other. I don't complain about you, I love you, and that's what I love: fiery feelings, forgetfulness by nature, love at first sight, love is unfaithful.

7.For feelings that have not been brought to the state, it is most beautiful to stop at the most beautiful time, but few people know this secret, and the result will only destroy the most beautiful memories. A glimpse that will never be forgotten ever since.

8.I met you, I met you at the beginning, I met you, and finally I fell in love.

9.When I first met you, I didn't expect to love you so much, if I had known that I loved you so much, I would definitely fall in love with you at first sight.

10.There is a kind of first sight, called love at first sight. I divide it into two types, one is the possessiveness caused by the momentary pleasing to the eye, and the other is the affection of seeing each other late. As we always say, meet the right person at the right time.

11.The moment I saw him smiling, I knew I had to work hard to get close to him.

12.The strongest wine I've ever drunk is the gentleness with you looking down and smiling.

13.I believe that love at first sight is the moment I meet you. But I didn't tell you that I like you so much.

I like you, from what you didn't know before to what you didn't know after. Really, really like you. I like to say good morning, good afternoon, and good night to you every day.

14.You don't understand, I love you to the point of despair.

15.fell in love with you at first sight, folded a red rose with longing, and pinned it to his chest; With a warm and reserved glance, look at it affectionately; Cast a clear sky with trust, and happiness has no key stool limit; Make an oath with green silk and remember it in your heart. Valentine's Day is here, and I just want to tell you that I love you forever.

16.People who are attracted at first sight should be friends!

17.The story starts from the beginning, it is still the same, starting with the heartbeat and ending in white. You have to grasp this minute, compress your feelings for your sister in this draft, and tell her with your eyes that you love her very much!

18.The food that people are accustomed to and have feelings for you at first sight is always what you ate when you were a child.

19.The world is full of chances for us to meet, but I have never been able to meet you.

20.If life is like the first time we met, how beautiful it would be, then there would be no current pain of parting and lovesickness.

Love is not something that can be seen at a glance", this sentence has been circulated for a long time, but it is untenable in the hearts of many people. Is it true? I have to admit that I have always believed that there is such a thing as love at first sight.

However, after experiencing a few things, I changed my perspective.

In my opinion, love is a long and complicated process. Many times, it takes us a long time to get to know each other before we can decide if we are really in love with this person. Even if we have a crush on someone at first, over time, we will find that we don't really get along as smoothly as we expected, or we find a lot of shortcomings in the other person.

At this time, we need to rethink whether we still have feelings for the other person.

Of course, I do not deny the possibility of love at first sight. People may suddenly feel their hearts racing and fall in love with someone at certain moments, circumstances, and atmospheres. However, it is easy for this feeling to go away, or over time to find that what you like is not really who that person really is.

So, how to tell if a person is worthy of love and whether there is the possibility of love? I think the most important thing is to be patient and make a decision after a period of time together. During this time, we need to spend time trying to understand each other's true personalities, hobbies, ideas, etc., to see if we are compatible with each other.

At the same time, we must tolerate each other, don't be too demanding of everything the other person does, and don't be too ourselves. Only then can we truly find that person who is worthy of our love.

In short, love is not something that can be seen at a glance, but a long process that requires a lot of twists and turns. We need to be in the precipitation and accumulation, slowly understand and contact, to be able to find out whether you really like this person, if you judge everything at a glance, then you don't know the true face of this person, let alone know whether you can bear the advantages and flaws of this person, and I don't know if this is a person who can live with a lifetime.

Hello to the cave, I'm honored to answer for you, in response to your questions, my is love in a special person will be love at first sight. But fate will make some people. Marry yourself to another him the day before the wedding.

Love at first sight exists. Heng Xueyan, her words are still right. The first impression is very important, but I believe it was love at first sight.

But it takes time to prove. I hope it can help you rent it, if you think I can remember and comment on it, I wish you a happy life.

It is an impulsive love that is relatively shallow and generally cannot withstand the test.