I did a stupid thing because I didn t want my husband to hate my sister and two in laws anymore

In fact, you say so much, the front can still understand a little bit of the back is a little confused, in short, your brother-in-law is more picky, right, in fact, I think relatives, these little things don't need to worry too much, you don't want him to pay back to you sooner or later, life is so long, who can say who can't use who in the future, if they don't talk too much, you can use his things next time don't mean it, let him also taste this taste, if he really throws down his face to tell you something ugly, then you say that you are justified in the past, And it is a blessing to suffer a small loss, and he will be embarrassed after a long time, not too much money, so there is no need to worry too much. It will always come back, but for the sake of the long term, it's best not to be cheeky until the last resort. To be honest, it's really not good for you to give money to your sister and then let your sister give your husband, although you have good intentions.

I now know that my relatives will do the same calculations! I think you're all at fault, you have to have a reunion dinner and divide it evenly, so what's the point of sitting together! The two sisters were supposed to care for each other and support each other, and the two sisters are also the best to communicate, you give money to your sister and then let your sister take money to your husband, although you are kind, but to give each other the feeling is hurt self-esteem, and the behavior is a little naïve, and now it has become like this, just to give both sides some appropriate distance, family affection is like water is continuous, you don't have to care about all kinds of unpleasant things that happened in front of you, remember that if they need help in the future, try to stretch out their hands and pass on warmthIf you want to relieve the embarrassment now, then sincerely invite them to come to the house for a meal, sit together at the dinner table and have a good chat.

It's all a family, it doesn't matter if you suffer a little loss, you should generously admit your mistakes to your sister and tell her that you don't have bad intentions, but you're afraid that your husband will be angry. It's not right for you to give money to your sister and then to your husband like this, it's not like a family.

Tell this kind of relative to out The most annoying thing is to such a close person Although family harmony is more important, but with this kind of relative, keep a distance and leave space for each other.

You're right, directly sarcastic about these bullshit relatives.

Summary. Hello, your situation makes me feel that you are living in a very bad and oppressive environment, it is painful, it is a very uncomfortable feeling, it makes people want to escape from such an environment.

I especially hate my parents-in-law, parents-in-law and husband, I also hate what to do, every time the hungry model faces my mother-in-law, I am careful to please her, afraid that she will be angry, my mother always loves to find fault with me, my mother-in-law too, my mother-in-law still loves to fix me, my father and father-in-law also beat me, I really hate them, and I don't know what to do.

Hello, your situation makes me feel that you are living in a very bad and oppressive environment, which makes you feel very painful, it is a very uncomfortable feeling, and it makes people want to escape from such an environment.

Your father and your father-in-law have beaten you, this is already a suspected illegal act, it belongs to the violence of Jia Song Dong Biting, and all of them can be sued to ** and punished accordingly for their behavior.

Your father and your father-in-law have beaten you, which has already involved the change of state and is suspected of being illegal, which is domestic violence, and it is completely possible to sue ** and punish their Pei Jianfeng behavior accordingly. However, the premise is that you need to keep relevant evidence, such as the identification of the hospital injuries after the beating, and the videos or photos you took of your injuries, etc.

If you can be grand, I suggest that you leave this environment for a while so that you can be alone and live your life according to your own lifestyle.

I especially hate my parents-in-law, parents-in-law and husband, I also hate what to do, every time the hungry model faces my mother-in-law, I am careful to please her, afraid that she will be angry, my mother always loves to find fault with me, my mother-in-law too, my mother-in-law still loves to fix me, my father and father-in-law also beat me, I really hate them, and I don't know what to do.

Your situation is not easy and you have to think about your safety and emotional well-being. In this case, I recommend that you actively seek help and support, including but not limited to the following:1

Find help: First, you can seek medical and psychological counseling help that will help you manage your emotional and emotional well-being. 2.

Find people you trust: You can look for people you trust, such as good friends, close partners, and professionals (such as social workers, lawyers, psychologists, etc.), to help solve your problems. 3.

Strengthen your ability to protect yourself: In order to protect yourself, you need to be more aware of your rights and laws, and strengthen your ability to protect yourself. Consider moving out of your current living environment and ending contact with these people.

4.Seek a peaceful solution: If possible, you can also try to negotiate or communicate with these people about a peaceful solution, point out each other's problems, and find a solution.

In any case, remember that you have a right to protect your safety and emotional well-being. Don't let anyone hurt you or control your life.

A single woman, like you said, is not married at the age of 30, and she may not have a good taste in her own heart. So it's normal to complain or something, because he's different from ordinary people, who hasn't gotten married at the age of 30?

In fact, it's not easy for her to be 30 years old and not get married, and she should be very uncomfortable to see her younger brothers getting married, which you should understand.

It'll be fine after a long time, your husband is protecting her because it's her sister, not an outsider. If your husband is going to work against your sister, have you ever thought about how his sister feels? If that's the case, I think you're a bit selfish.

I believe that his sister just doesn't want to go with herself, it's not that she hates you, it's all because she's lonely!

Are you thinking too much? Maybe his sister let you in the house out of kindness.

If you're wrong, blame someone else, it's rare.

You're a little paranoid, and his sister didn't do anything too much to you, so is it necessary to quarrel?

Don't think too much, if a family member doesn't get along well, life is very sad.

To endure, this kind of person just doesn't care about him, anyway, it's good that he is wholeheartedly.

I'm disgusted with that, too.

Is it because they are sisters?

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

When this big problem is solved, your husband's sister will be easy for you to get along with her.

Your husband doesn't hate you, it's fine.