Dong Zijian said that good memories are extinguished when they are touched, what kind of experience

The experience of being close to home is actually that you don't go home for a long time, and you have a good memory of your hometown, but the closer you get to home, the more afraid you will be to face your hometown in your own memories, because you are afraid that something bad will happen here and break your good memories.

In fact, many people are full of sympathy, especially those who work away from home. I have a deep experience myself, because I went to study far away when I was in college, so I usually go on winter vacation and come back once during the summer vacation, which is a long time in itself, but one year I had to do an internship, so I didn't go home that year.

When I was outside, I was very homesick, and I felt that everything in my home was beautiful, and what I used to think was bad has become a beautiful thing. So, every time I feel homesick outside, I keep crying, I miss the happy times at home, and I always pray that I can come home sooner.

Later, I slowly adapted to the life of my internship, and slowly began to have my own life, I left here and returned to my hometown, I thought that I would be happy to return to my hometown, but as the car kept approaching my home, I felt that the mood began to slowly change, no longer joy but fear.

Why be afraid? Actually, there are many reasonsFirst of all, I think one reason is that when I got closer to this hometown, I realized that this hometown was not as beautiful as I rememberedIn my memory, everyone in this hometown is very warm, but the closer I get to this home, the more I realize that everyone is not so warm, and these people are still these people, but in my memories I helped them beautify.

So, as much as affection goes, in fact, everyone has this feeling, and as Dong Zijian said, good memories are extinguished when they are touched. Once a memory is deep, it is beautiful, and it tends to glorify some person or thing you recognize.

Personally, I think the so-called homesickness should be a very frightening feeling, feeling that I haven't mixed well in the past few years, and I will make myself feel a little inferior.

In fact, it is a very sad experience, because sometimes everyone has to leave their hometown to develop in other cities.

Although I miss my hometown and my parents when I am outside, I am very scared when I actually return to my hometown, and I feel strange, and I feel out of place with my hometown.

I think it's a very uncomfortable and frustrating experience, and a lot of things have been lost for so long and don't know how to regain them.