My boyfriend s family is not good but he keeps urging him to get married, should I agree to him?

Hello, thanks for the invite. My boyfriend's family is very poor, should I get married? It depends on how poor the boyfriend's family becomes.

Why is the boyfriend's family poor and how poor is this, this is very important.

If there are no serious illnesses in the family, and the family is still very poor, it is recommended that you break up quickly.

There are some people who like to consume ahead of time, and they don't have so much ability, but they like to spend money beyond their ability, resulting in poverty, and it is also recommended that you break up.

Today's society is a beautiful society, as long as a person is not lazy, has no bad hobbies, and does not have to worry about food and clothing.

Don't bully the poor teenager, is your boyfriend hard-working, motivated, diligent, has a good personality, and how about the three views? What is the three views of parents and their personalities? All of this should be taken into account.

No one will know what tomorrow will bring? A responsible man, even if his family is poor, his future life will not be bad.

A man who has no sense of responsibility, swims all day long, spends money lavishly, has no ability to earn money, and no matter how rich the family is, it will be ruined one day.

This question depends on your boyfriend's character and quality education in all aspects, not that children from poor families will be worse than others, and they can't be generalized. If you consider it from many aspects, there is also a basis for the right people in ancient times. When your family conditions are comparable, you will be relatively similar in terms of living habits and study directions.

This will play a certain role in your future married lifestyle, after all, you grew up in a similar environment, and there will be fewer differences in decision-making on many things, so that conflicts will naturally be reduced.

If you and your boyfriend have the same views and have not seen much of a difference in life, then you may want to consider continuing. In fact, sometimes it is not about whether he has a good economy, marriage is originally two people from the original family to form a small family, and the future life is created by the joint efforts of the two of you, so what you should consider is your boyfriend's personality problems, and whether the two of you have the same plans for all aspects of your future life, these problems can be solved, before you can decide whether you are suitable for marriage.

Your boyfriend's family is not good, if you can't accept his conditions, you shouldn't agree to him, if you can accept his family's conditions, you should agree to him.

He should not agree, because what is needed after marriage is material conditions, and he should not agree to his marriage proposal if the material conditions are not met.

You shouldn't say yes, you should still test your boyfriend more, don't be so hasty, or you will regret it.

It is more likely that the boyfriend does not want to get married yet, or does not have the financial ability to get married at the moment, so he does not want to get married yet. After all, getting married is really stressful for boys, because after getting married, they have to take on the responsibilities of the family, and even have to buy a car and a house. But if your boyfriend will explain the situation to you after his mom gets married, it shows that he is still very responsible.

In fact, people nowadays are really afraid of getting married, because the pressure in the process of marriage is really great. If your salary is not high, marriage will indeed cause a lot of trouble to yourself, and most people will prepare a certain amount of savings before choosing to get married, so that after marriage, they will not live a very restrained life every day, and at the same time, the boyfriend is not concerned about marriage at all, it may be that he really did not want to marry you, if he really wants to get married, even if his current economic conditions are not good, but he will choose to get married first, Not all marriages have enough funds to enter the palace of marriage, as long as two people feel that the time is up, they will choose to get married, and they will not care too much about some external things.

In my understanding, if my boyfriend's mother is really married, then he should be more careful. And in the face of this situation, they will choose to communicate with me first, because the main problem of marriage is whether the woman is willing, and sometimes although the man wants to get married, the woman may say that she will have to wait another year or two, but if you choose not to get married without discussing yourself at all, then this may not be the intention to get married, and there may be more conflicts between the two people in the future. Because marriage still depends on two people to negotiate, not either party can make a decision.

And in this case, it may also affect the relationship between two people.

If his boyfriend's mother urges him to get married in a hurry, but he doesn't care, it means that he is not ready for marriage and does not want to get married, so you can give him more time at this time.

No. Because your boyfriend may not be ready yet, and a lot of men don't want to get married too early, it's not that they don't want to get married.

He didn't want to get married, so it could be seen that he didn't have the idea of getting married at all in his heart, so his biological mother was not in a hurry to urge him.

It's not that your boyfriend doesn't want to get married, but because she feels that she is still young, he is not ready to get married at all, and there is another reason, that is, the more his parents push him, the more rebellious he becomes.

There is a possibility that the boy feels that he is still young and does not want to get married early, or that the boy does not love you at all and just marries for his parents! Let's talk to your boyfriend!

My boyfriend's mother is in a hurry to urge marriage, and my boyfriend doesn't care because my boyfriend thinks that your marriage has been confirmed and he doesn't want to have children so soon, so he is not in a hurry to get married, not because he doesn't want to get married.

How can there be a mother who is in a hurry to urge marriage, but her boyfriend is not careful, I think my boyfriend may not want to get married now, he may want to develop his career first. This also has his own thoughts, if he really loves you, you don't have to think about it.

My boyfriend's mother is in a hurry, but my boyfriend is not in a hurry, which means that he feels that the time is not ripe, or that it is not a good time to get married, so he is like this. If he doesn't want to get married, he won't fall in love.

My boyfriend's mother is in a hurry to urge marriage, but my boyfriend doesn't care, I don't think it's that he doesn't want to get married, maybe because of other reasons, he can't get married. Mainly for this reason, it may be that I don't want to get married yet.

It should be that he feels that he is bound when he gets married, so he hasn't played enough, so he doesn't want to get married, either he doesn't like you, or he doesn't want to get married right away.

I originally set myself to get married at the age of 25, but now I see that my boyfriend's family is not in a hurry, I myself pushed it to 28 years old, and no matter how late it is, 28 can not be exceeded, otherwise I may find someone else to fall in love after a flash marriage, and I have also thought that if I can't meet the person who is full of you, then I will be single and not married for the rest of my life.

If you are very capable of being a single little rich woman, and no one will say anything about you if you don't get married, I'm afraid it's that kind of bad. If you don't get married in your life, you want to make an appointment, your good friends are all talking to accompany your children and husbands, and you don't have time to make an appointment, so you know what it's like to be lonely.

It's either that I don't want to get married, or my boyfriend isn't in a hurry, or I don't want to get married too early.

It may be that he only wants a career at the moment and doesn't want to have a girlfriend, so he shouldn't urge marriage if he doesn't focus on falling in love. It's also possible that he has a girlfriend now, and the time is not ripe to make it public.

Part of the reason is that he is rebellious against his mother, and he has a stubborn temper, and the more he lets him do something, the more he doesn't do it. Of course, a bigger part of the reason is really that I don't want to marry you in my heart. Including emotional reasons, real-life reasons.

The boyfriend's mother is in a hurry to get married, but the boyfriend doesn't care, which means that he feels that he has not yet reached the time of marriage, and she does not want to get married.

That means he really doesn't want to get married so early, maybe he has other ideas, or he is busy with his career, so you can talk to him about why he doesn't want to get married yet.

It may not be, after all, he has his own plan and will choose his own suitable time to enter, the palace of marriage.

Friends may be like this, your boyfriend doesn't care about himself, that is, he doesn't want to get married. There are other thoughts and concerns.

It's possible! Maybe this man is more playful! Of course, there is also the possibility that he wants to find a woman with better conditions than you to marry.

My boyfriend's mother is in a hurry to urge marriage, but my boyfriend doesn't care, doesn't he want to get married? The boy may not want to get married, he doesn't care, he doesn't have ligaments, and he doesn't take these marriage things seriously.

Almost! No matter how anxious his mother was, he was not psychologically ready to get married. If you want to say that marriage is not agreed by the parties involved, it is useless for anyone to urge you!

The boyfriend's mother is in a hurry to urge marriage, but the boyfriend doesn't care, he may not want to get married so early. The mother was anxious to urge the marriage and hugged her grandson. It's possible that the boyfriend doesn't want to get married that early.

Such a man is not very yearning for marriage, even if he is married, he has no sense of family responsibility, I advise you to give him another period of growth, and then give yourself a period of time to test, a woman's marriage is the second reincarnation.

It's not that the boyfriend doesn't want to get married but doesn't care, or the Beijing boy is still young, and he still doesn't know a lot of things on the road of life when he does anything, which is different from his lack of wanting to get married.

My boyfriend's mother is very anxious and always urges my boyfriend to get married early, but my boyfriend doesn't care, probably because he feels that there are more important things waiting for him now, and he may feel that his career is more important than marriage.

I think my boyfriend's mother is urging her to get married, but the man doesn't care, I think maybe she hasn't fully accepted this matter about marriage, so don't think that he just doesn't like you, or right, what other thoughts do you have?

I won't be more anxious about this matter, after all, it involves a core of my own rights and interests, so this question is tolerable or unbearable, which is tolerable, no one can possibly, and the problem must be solved quickly.

If he doesn't want to get married, he won't let his family know, he just isn't ready.

I think you may be a little afraid of marriage, after all, marriage is a big thing, so when it comes to marriage, he is a little hesitant, so he doesn't care.

If a man's income is low, his funds are not enough to support the family, then there is no need for his parents to urge marriage, get married, because you must know that after marriage, it is the family's expenses, you have such a low income, do you think you can support the family? And after getting married, there will be children in the future, and the cost of raising children is very high, but if you are parents, you also have the difficulties of parents, you are so old, and your parents also want to hold their grandchildren as soon as possible, you also have to consider the feelings of your parents, you yourself know that your salary is low, why not find a high salary to do? Now, you can find things with high salaries with high education, and you can find things with high salaries with low education as long as you want to work hard!

If you look at the wages of migrant workers, they are very high, and the wages you are looking for are also very high, so the low wages are not your problem, but your thinking has not changed, as long as you are not lazy, then it is easy to find a corresponding higher wage.

Marriage is the continuation of life, but also the reproduction of life, so you should not blame your parents, you can only blame yourself for not being capable, if you can indeed find a suitable girlfriend, marriage is still possible, two people after marriage together towards a common direction, then life will become better and better, after all, two people do things faster than one person does things in return.

If you reach a certain age, even if your income is low, you can get married first, and then slowly accumulate work experience by yourself, as long as you are not afraid of hardship. Men's incomes will gradually increase.

Personally, I don't think it should be.

You should not marry at an age when you are not able to afford to marry. Now society is material, and even material security does not have how to make families happy. Of course, there are also husbands and wives who work together, however, men should be responsible.

I think if the man's income is relatively low. It depends on whether he has the potential to develop? And can you endure hardship?

Some of them are potential stocks, which may have lower wages for the time being. But after getting married, the two of you work together, then he may improve quickly. So it depends on his career plan, as well as his professional development.

Secondly, it depends on whether he can endure hardships at work? If he can meet all these conditions. Then it's okay to get married now.

But it's better when the conditions are better.

If both parents are supportive of the marriage and are willing to provide financial assistance, it is still possible to consider it, otherwise forget it. Now all walks of life are difficult to do, money is not easy to earn, after marriage, especially after having children, the family expenses have increased sharply, it is recommended to work safely and steadily, have a certain financial ability, and then discuss marriage matters after planning with parents. At this stage, it is better to communicate with your parents more and let them understand the difficulties.