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Anonymous users2024-02-15I feel that I am not socially suitable by nature, and on most occasions I either find the other person boring or I feel boring. But I don't want to accept and endure each other, nor do I want to make myself lively and interesting.
When there is no love, I never shed tears, I don't feel cold, I don't feel sad easily, I have a lot of time to do what I want to do, I eat when I'm happy, buy when I'm unhappy, in short, emotions can't control my life.
My friend told me that these thoughts of mine were all sequelae of love. Because I have experienced a failed relationship, I always feel that no one will love me and will not really fall in love with anyone.
Because love is a stumbling block to success, it will consume a lot of your time and energy, so some people are willing to invest their time in something more valuable. It's not that there is anything wrong with the relationship itself, but the time cost and opportunity cost to maintain a relationship are too great. In fact, you can find out through observation, probably because if there is no love, then even if there is no joy, there will be no sadness, everything is light and breezy, and you can live a rational and calm comfortable life.
And loving someone will make you look forward to it, more and more expectations. No one is perfect, so with expectations comes descent with loss. The feeling of loss, which I never felt in the first place, is different, and it is much more lethal.
Keep your distance from love.
In fact, most people don't have the need for love anymore, but for various reasons, they give up the right to like someone. For example, if I meet someone I like, instead of taking the initiative, I start to worry inexplicably. I'm worried that I'm not good enough, and I feel like all my shortcomings are coming to me in an instant.
The love you encounter when you are empty and lonely may be to fill the emptiness, the love you encounter when you are poor may be that he takes you out of poverty, and the love you encounter when you are depressed may be the love that he brings you joy.
Not because of his appearance, not because of his family background, not because of his cold and warm when he was sick, but because of the light of his personality.
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Anonymous users2024-02-14Because society is becoming more and more impetuous, love is becoming less and less valuable. The network is very fast, fast enough to know each other for two hours, and the different personalities call each other lovers; There is a lot of pressure, just get married and have children early to achieve the traditional goal.
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Anonymous users2024-02-13Because such a person is too kind and too simple, he will only blindly give in the relationship, and he does not know how to ask for it, and such a person will not get the sincerity of the other party.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12Because some people will focus on their work and will not have the remaining energy to fall in love, they have no need to fall in love at all.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Because some people don't need to let themselves fall in love, they have their own things to do, devote themselves to their careers, and have no heart to do other things.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10This has a lot to do with personal emotional intelligence, or personal psychology, many people feel that living alone is also very good, and they feel that two people will feel very tired together.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Because some people feel that falling in love is too brain-consuming, too energy-consuming, too money-consuming, or a person is comfortable, and he can do whatever he wants. Don't worry about it.
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