When is the hardest time for your baby to carry?

0-3 years old is a critical period of infant development, here is a 0 3-year-old parenting strategy includes three aspects of nursing, feeding and parenting, hoping to help new parents and nurses.

It is difficult to have a baby, and it is even more difficult to raise a baby. On the way with the baby, Bao Ma seems to have become Tang Sanzang who went to the West to learn scriptures, and it is necessary to cross the ninety-nine eighty-one difficulties to achieve positive results.

If you want to ask which stages of children are the most difficult to bring, the vast majority of mothers are unified, that is, the following are three stages, each of which is comparable to purgatory!

1. 0 3 months.

Three-month-old babies are basically in a state of eating, sleeping, and eating, and it is not particularly difficult to carry. But at this stage, I just changed my identity, and I used to be a girl who didn't know anything about bringing a baby, and now I suddenly threw you a child, serving him to eat, drink, and Lazar, I didn't understand anything, and I was in a hurry every day, whether it was changing diapers or brewing milk powder, I had to study, and the pressure was great; In addition, in the first three months, the mother was always on call to take care of the baby, and the sleep was seriously insufficient, and the whole person was very unenergetic.

Because she is a novice mother, it is very easy to doubt herself, such as why the baby is always crying, how the baby does not eat fat, etc., and always feels that everything is her own problem. At this stage, the pain caused by the psychological pressure of the mother itself is higher than the pain of the baby itself.

2. About 6 months.

The baby was fine a few months ago, but he began to love to be sick about six months ago, not a fever or diarrhea, and the mother had to run to the hospital in three days, and suffered a lot.

This is because by the time of six months, the baby's immunity from the mother has been exhausted, and his body's resistance has not been fully established, so he will love to get sick. Parents should pay special attention to taking care of their babies during this time and not give the disease a chance to take advantage of it.

At the age of three or two.

At the age of two, the baby can walk, run and talk, and the rebellious period also comes. The age of two is a child's first rebellious period, when the child's self-awareness is budding and they can't wait to express their thoughts to their parents.

And the way babies express their thoughts is to say "no" to their mothers. No longer obey the orders of the parents, you let him go east and he goes west, do everything against you, and cry and make a fuss if something goes wrong, so that the mother is helpless.

For the two-year-old rebellious baby, under the premise of adhering to the basic principles, parents can follow the child more in small things, don't rush to label him as "naughty" because he is disobedient, and don't yell at him at every turn, in case it leaves him a psychological shadow, it will be more difficult to discipline him in the future.

In my own experience, it is 6 months to 1 and a half years old. Because the antibodies brought by the child from the mother are basically absent after 6 months, the child is prone to illness.

This time period is also the best time for children to teeth, learn to walk, learn to speak, learn to eat, etc., so it requires adults to invest a lot of time, energy, and patience.

The baby is difficult to carry should be the first three months! Wake up after two or three hours of sleep at night! I can't put it down yet, I have to sleep with it! It's going to get a lot better when you get older.

The most difficult time for the baby to carry is when he needs to always hold it, otherwise he will always cry, at this time it is very difficult, and nothing can be done well.

The first stage is from just birth to three monthsAt this time, the baby is basically eating, sleeping and sleeping every day, and generally speaking, it is not particularly abrasive.

But this period is a period when women need to adapt and learn how to be a mother, women have just entered the ranks of mothers, and they are in a state of ignorance about the education and care of their children. And the child's organs are not mature within three months, and they need to take special care of friends, especially the nursing mother has to be on call 24 hours a day, often sleeping for an hour or two at night to get up to feed the baby night milk, serious rest is not enough, the whole person is in a state of fatigue and tiredness. Because women have just entered the ranks of mothers during this period, they don't understand a lot of things, and they may be overly nervous and worried about their children, and the mental pressure of mothers at this time is very great, so it is best to learn more parenting knowledge before the birth of the child, so as not to wait until the child is born to be in a hurry.

The second stage is when the baby is six months oldAt this stage, the baby's immunity from the mother has been exhausted, and his own body's resistance is still in a relatively weak state, at this time the baby may be more prone to illness, and even run to the hospital for three days. Parents should pay special attention to the baby's physical health at this time, and don't give the virus a chance to enter the feast.

The third stage is when the baby is two years oldWhen the baby is two years old, he will be able to run and talk, and he will have a lot of wonderful ideas, and the first rebellious period in his life will come. This stage is the embryonic period of the baby's self-awareness, and some babies may begin to disagree with their parents at this time, and may begin to cry and cry, which is a very normal phenomenon. At this time, parents should pay more attention to their children's mental health, educate their children well, remember not to beat and scold their children, and should communicate with their children calmly.

The five most difficult stages to carry are neonatal stage, 0-3 months old stage, 4-6 months old stage, 3-5 months old stage, and 0-6 months old stage.

1. Neonatal stage.

Newborns' liver development is not mature enough and is prone to "neonatal jaundice".

- 3 months of age.

Babies aged 0-3 months, the younger the baby, the more frequent the spitting up.

- 6 months of age.

When the baby is 4-6 months old, there will be signs of borexia, but there are also babies whose anorexia period is advanced, and there will be anorexia at 2-3 months, generally speaking, the anorexia period will last for 7-15 days.

- 5 months of age.

From birth to one year old, the baby needs to go through 3 sleep regression periods, the first time at 3-5 months of age, the second time at 8-10 months, and the third time at 12 months. Babies in the sleep regression period, the baby's nap time during the day becomes shorter, wakes up frequently at night, the baby often cries, will rely more on adults than usual, and sleep becomes worse.

- 6 months of age.

Babies will grow their first teeth within 6 months, different babies, teething order has early and late, some babies teething early, some babies teething late, not later than 6 months.

The above content refers to the most difficult period for the baby to come to the doctor.

The five most difficult stages for babies to take are the first birth (0-6 months), when they are about to walk (about 1 year old), when they are weaned (1-2 years old), when they have just entered kindergarten (3 years old), when they have just entered elementary school (6 years old) and so on.

1. The first birth (0-6 months).

For most mothers with their own babies, the first half of the year is almost impossible to sleep a full night. For new mothers, after experiencing the "baby war" that hurt their vitality, they immediately entered the "baby war" day and night.

2. When you are about to walk (about 1 year old).

Watching the baby swaying left and right to take the first small step, the mother was instantly excited with tears on her face, in fact, these tears can also be said to be the mother shed for herself in advance. Because the baby who can just walk is simply a spinning top, as long as it is awake.

There is no moment of silence: the mother holds the baby until her hand is soft, and she is still energetic; The room is full of "toys", and crackling is something that happens every minute.

3. At weaning (1-2 years old).

After one year of age, the baby adapts to the surrounding environment and begins to accept everything around him, so that he can sleep peacefully at night and "play happily for a while" during the day. But when the mother weaned the baby at the age of one or two, the peaceful little life was broken again: the baby without milk began to lose his temper, and the baby who drank Anutric milk powder did not sleep, and began to hug again.

And if you want to complete this arduous work, most mothers choose to temporarily "escape from the number of days" and let other family members help take care of them. Although after four or five days, the baby can basically be weaned. But for the family, every day is long and torturous.

4. Just started kindergarten (3 years old).

finally got up until the baby was going to kindergarten, but a few days before the "good school days" began, the mother's troubles began to be entangled "one after another". The baby who has just entered an unfamiliar environment will not take care of herself, pull the poop in her pants, eat too much, fight with children when she is sick, and don't want to go to school.

In short, every day there will be "unexpected circumstances" that prevent my mother from going to work. In the first half year of the baby's schooling, for the mother of an office worker, it is like a time bomb, because every time she asks for leave, she has to ask the leader to "explain the situation" with a smiling face.

5. Just started elementary school (6 years old).

Well, finally it's time for the child to "let go", the child goes to elementary school, that is, the big child, and those messy little problems are all gone. Indeed, the child's life and social interaction do not need to be more bothered by the mother.

The five most difficult stages for babies to carry are just birth, about one year old, weaning, kindergarten and elementary school.

1. Just born (0 6 months).

In the first 6 months of the child's birth, many mothers often feel very tired because of the day and night because of the child. Because the resistance and immune system of newborns are very low, the child may get sick if you don't pay attention to it, and the child is too young, and many times doctors do not recommend taking medicine, so mothers are extra careful.

2. When you are about to walk (about 1 year old).

When the child is about one year old, he gradually begins to become self-aware. The biggest change at this time was that he wanted to try to walk on his own. The baby just walks, just like a spinning top, as long as it is awake, there is no moment of quiet, the mother holds the baby until the hand is soft, and the baby is still energetic.

3. At weaning (1-2 years old).

Weaning is probably a very difficult time for every mother. The child has just quit his mother's breast milk, and often feels very unaccustomed, especially in order to wean the child, many times the mother will stay away from her child, and sometimes listening to the child's heart-rending crying, many mothers are very distressed.

4. When you first enter kindergarten (3 years old).

When the baby first enters kindergarten, the most common thing is "kindergarten anxiety". Because at this time, the baby is the first time to leave the family in a real sense and come to a completely unfamiliar environment, many children do not adapt to the new environment, so they will feel very insecure. Some teachers say that some babies often cry for a month or two before they can adapt to kindergarten life.

5. When I first entered elementary school (6 years old).

The transition from kindergarten to primary school is also a very important one. Many mothers of children who have just entered primary school will receive feedback from teachers that their children are doing very badly in school, such as running around in class and often talking to classmates around them.

The mother also felt a headache because of this, thinking that her child was really naughty and couldn't control it.

The five most difficult stages for babies to carry are as follows:

1. 3 months of birth

In the first 3 months of life, the baby's body and brain develop very quickly, and they need to constantly explore and learn. Babies at this stage are usually more difficult to carry because they need more attention and care. At this stage, the baby needs a safe, warm and comfortable environment from the parents, as well as adequate nutrition and sleep.

Months: When babies reach around 6 months, they begin to teeth, while they begin to learn skills such as crawling and grasping. Babies at this stage are usually more difficult to carry because they need more attention and care, especially when the baby is learning to crawl and grasp, and parents need to provide a safe environment and adequate support.

3. One year old: Around the age of the baby, they begin to learn to walk and talk, which is also a more difficult stage. At this stage, the baby needs more patience and attention from the parents, especially when the baby is learning to walk and talk, and the parents need to provide a safe environment and adequate support.

Age: Around 2 years old, they begin to enter the resistance period, which is also a more difficult stage to bring. At this stage, the baby will show some rebellious behavior, such as refusing to do something or refusing to accept some rules.

Parents need to provide enough patience and understanding to help their baby through this stage.

5. Adolescence:

During puberty, babies begin to enter a period of physical and psychological change, which is also the stage when a beam of fire is more difficult to bring. At this stage, babies need more support and understanding from their parents to help them through this period of change. Parents need to understand the psychological and physical changes of their babies, and at the same time communicate and communicate effectively with their babies.