Why do many beautiful girls in reality have no boyfriends?

Pretty girls don't easily meet true love, and most guys chase after them because they are fascinated by their appearance, and they often ignore her inside.

Most of the beautiful girls around you who don't have boyfriends may have higher mate selection standards and fewer choices, so there may be fewer people who meet the right one, so it is more common to be single.

Looking for a better half is a good match, and a boy who is like a beautiful girl must have requirements for his appearance. If you choose a boyfriend under certain conditions, the scope will be narrowed, and it is not easy to meet someone who suits you in a small range, but girls are more reluctant to pay attention to themselves, which has caused the phenomenon of high and low.

There are also cases where some boys think that the other party is beautiful when they meet a beautiful girl, and even if the boy also likes it, they dare not try to pursue it. Because everyone thinks that if a girl has a good appearance, there must be a lot of boys to pursue, and it is very likely that she is already famous, and if she doesn't have a boyfriend, there are many excellent suitors around her, and people who don't have a certain self-confidence don't dare to take the step of pursuit.

There is also a girl who is beautiful, and the basic condition for finding the other half must be that the boy must also be very handsome, not to mention the other conditions, many boys are often not confident, and feel that they are not worthy of a beautiful girl.

Therefore, it is not surprising that many beautiful girls are single, either the standards for girls to choose a mate are relatively high, or many people stop and do not take the initiative to pursue beautiful girls.

Even if a girl has a suitor, the girl's idea may not be the same, and some people don't like to take the initiative to send it to the door, and may want to have a better partner than themselves. The rest is the reason for the beautiful girl herself, of course, there are many reasons for being single, which can be roughly divided into these items.

To sum up, there are 3 core reasons why girls with beautiful and excellent conditions can't find a partner:

1. Girls who are beautiful and have excellent conditions may not necessarily be pursued by many boys.

Because most honest boys, they don't dare to pursue.

Then, for these beautiful and well-qualified girls, if they don't take the initiative, there are very few boys they can choose from.

Why are so many beautiful (really beautiful) and excellent girls unable to find a partner?

2. Beautiful, excellent conditions and off the list are not directly related.

Because, it is also related to their own mate selection criteria.

After all, my conditions are good, so it is a matter of course to find a better object.

Then, how to set this mate selection criterion is very particular, and it is a great test of a person's self-awareness level.

For example, I went to a matchmaking agency a few days ago to chat with a boss, and I talked about a 36-year-old woman, height 158, weight 120, annual income of 800,000, ordinary family, unmarried.

She is looking for a man with an annual salary of more than 1 million, a height of 175, no children, and an age of less than 40.

And she called men who can't find such standards "self-sufficient".

This is a classic case of cognition.

Obviously, she thinks she is worthy of such a man, but in the marriage market, she really does not deserve such a man.

If she doesn't adjust her cognition and doesn't return to her original position, then she will be single to the end, and this is by no means a compromise, this is her own unclear self-awareness.

I have seen too many girls who are "unwilling to compromise" actually lack a reasonable and clear self-positioning.

Well, in this case, you will definitely not be able to find the object.

Why are so many beautiful (really beautiful) and excellent girls unable to find a partner?

3. I would like to talk about the initiative of love.

The main reason for talking about this is because love at first sight is a very rare thing, and even if it happens, there must be someone who takes the initiative to pierce this layer of window paper, and if both of them are waiting for the other to speak, then it is very likely to be missed.

After all, the conditions of two people may be good, and in the past, most of them observed each other from the perspective of the pursued party, so it may be a difficult step for them to take the initiative themselves.

Moreover, in big cities such as the first and second tiers, it is obvious that high-quality men are a rarer group, and they are the first to be grabbed by all marriageable age girls.

Therefore, it can be said that the ability to actively manage relationships is a very systematic ability, and the ability to actively chat and invite the other party is only the first step in the ability to actively manage relationships.

If you can get each other by taking the initiative to chat and invite each other, it shows that boys have a lot of good feelings for girls.

In the emotional relationship that girls passively accept, the active risk and the harm of rejection are essentially borne by the boy, the girl's emotional satisfaction is also borne by the boy, and the responsibility for promoting the relationship is also borne by the boy.

In reality, there are many beautiful girls, but they don't have boyfriends, mainly because the girls' vision is too high, their hearts are too high, they always want to find a good boyfriend, there is a psychology of comparison, and they are also very confident, and the choice of boyfriends is more strict and harsh, which will cause people to feel unattainable, so there are many beautiful girls in reality who do not have boyfriends.

This is completely determined by his own values, many beautiful girls think that he also wants to find a particularly handsome and rich boy like this, so its vision is relatively high, some ordinary boys he must not look down on, so slowly others think that she has a high vision, people like themselves may not be worthy of him, in addition, many people think that such a beautiful girl can not have a boyfriend? Therefore, in many cases, it will cause beautiful girls, but often there is no boyfriend.

In reality, many beautiful girls don't have boyfriends, and it may be that their vision is too high. Ordinary boys are not eye-catching. And there are some beautiful girls, they are also very cold, and many boys are reluctant to pursue them.

Often many beautiful girls don't have boyfriends. Is this also because? Often pretty girls.

The bar for finding a boyfriend will be higher. There will even be whimsical and unrealistic climbing. There are also a lot of beautiful girls.

I think my appearance is outstanding. will take it. Their own appearance is the standard.

Go and find it. The object is also that kind. A man who wants something and something.

For example, you have to have a house, a car and a good income, and you have to be very handsome. This has already pushed itself onto one. Find a boyfriend.

Difficult road ahead. Because after all. It's also hard to be like an outstanding boy.

It's hard to meet beautiful girls because there aren't many of them. So. The beautiful girl is not convinced, and she is there again.

Relentless efforts to find. It is often difficult to find, which results in many beautiful girls in real life, but no boyfriends. It's realistic.

There can be a lot of situations.

For example, you just broke up, and it was very unfortunate when you saw her.

For another example, girls who are overly beautiful may also have higher requirements for themselves, and they will be more cautious when looking for a boyfriend, so it is normal to be single easily.

Or, because she is beautiful, most boys may think that she is not single and dare not approach.

Or they feel that they are difficult to match and dare not approach, or they are difficult to control and dare not approach.

After all, generally good-looking girls sometimes do have a natural sense of distance compared to ordinary-looking people.

Many beautiful girls do not have boyfriends, because they rely on their own advantages to choose boyfriends, the requirements are too high, many boys in this situation will continue to choose, more suitable for themselves, this unattainable, often will, the formation of an older leftover girl.

Good looking, but also demanding.

Since ancient times, most of our country has paid attention to marriage in terms of the right person, so beautiful girls naturally feel that they should find a girl with similar appearance to her, so they will carefully select their suitors, and they did not pick out any famous ones in the end, she feels that the appearance of boys with good character does not meet their own mate selection standards, and most of the boys who can keep up with their appearance have girlfriends, so they did not find one that meets the requirements in the end, so they can only be single.

I think the first reason why a beautiful girl doesn't have a boyfriend may be that his vision is relatively high, of course, another reason is that many boys have low self-esteem, they feel that beautiful girls are not worthy of themselves, so they dare not pursue them.

In reality, the reason why many beautiful girls don't have a boyfriend is that they should be tall and widowed, they think they are beautiful, and they can't look down on general pursuits, and excellent boys have no chance to get acquainted, and the Prince Charming in their minds has never appeared in reality. So I have been high and low, and I have become a loner.

And some boys are self-aware and know that they can't meet the love standards of this kind of girl, and they can't catch up with this kind of girl at all, so they choose a girl who is more suitable for them as a friend.

In reality, there are many beautiful girls, but they don't have boyfriends, mainly because beautiful girls have high vision, strong and arrogant personalities, and she can't look down on the people who chase her, and the people she likes don't chase her. Generally, girls with higher appearance and more beautiful are often more self-righteous. Arrogant, arrogant, indifferent, with a cold look, disgusted with this and disgusted with that, so it is difficult to find a boyfriend you like.