Is there anything good for disobedient children? Why are disobedient children more promising?

In fact, disobedient children, they may be more promising, disobedient, will not be particularly rigid, they can do what they want to do, they have courage and knowledge, and may also be able to break out of their own world, so children who do not listen to words, their future may develop better.

There are a lot of disobedient children who have to see what kind of disobedience, if it is unreasonable, just to oppose your opinion, rather than having their own unique judgment ability, then I believe it should be useless, if she has her own opinions, and has her own independent judgment ability, I believe the future can be expected.

Disobedient children grow up to be more promising, which should not be absolute, but it is possible to be relativistic. The reason, in my opinion, should be that disobedient children have more autonomy and independence. During childhood, the parenting style of parents has a great influence on the child's personality.

Parents who discipline strictly are easy to educate docile children, which are what we call "well-behaved children" and "obedient children", but in fact, such children may have the possibility of suppressing their inner feelings and needs, and are prone to some psychological shadows.

An obedient child is unproductive because he does not know what to do since he was a child? If you follow your own will, you won't achieve much, because your parents' words are always for your good, no matter what they say or do, they want you to grow up healthy? If you are disobedient, you will not do anything great in the future.

Disobedient children are not necessarily promising, because there are these three words, and disobedience is actually irrelevant, there are many obedient children who are not promising, but it does not mean that all disobedient children must be promising, it can only be said that disobedient children may be a little more active than obedient children.

Can't say that there is no interest, people who will have their own ideas are generally disobedient children, but it is still necessary to distinguish what kind of disobedience, in case of embarking on the road of breaking the law and discipline, it will be very powerless, or to do a good job of education when the child is young, and when he is older, he has his own ideas, and it is better to be disobedient.

Generally speaking, well-behaved and obedient children will be unproductive, because they are used to obeying their parents' arrangements since childhood, and they have no own opinions after they grow up, so they like us from a young age they have given them advice to be swayed, disobedient, children have their own independent opinions before they can get ahead, break out of the sky.

Not necessarily, it can only be said that children are more assertive, but on the other hand, if a child who is too assertive goes astray, I am afraid it is not a good thing. Therefore, what parents should listen to is still more worrying, and disobedient children are generally more assertive.

It's not that disobedient children are more promising, it may be disobedient children, he is naturally more active and cheerful, so when he goes out of society, he has more friends, his path is more, and the probability of success may be more promising than that of relatively more introverted people!

Children who are too obedient are easy to follow the rules, like to follow the rules, and are too rigid, while disobedient children are assertive, have their own ideas, and dare to try boldly.

The fundamental reason why obedient children are unproductive is that obedient children are timid, and parents will scold them as soon as they make a mistake, thus losing their children's independence, and children will not have the courage to try, so that they will not express their ideas and become introverted, because parents are too dependent on children, children have to follow wherever they go, and disobedient children are naughty is a normal manifestation of growth, after all, children are interested in something or something, as long as your parents educate safety education when their children just know how to talk and do things, First with him twice, the third time you can try to let the child go to the car by himself, go to the supermarket to buy things, give the child independent space, as long as you can come back safely and quietly, nothing happens, the naughty child is disobedient and let him try to do it, only after the child does he will have ideas, will express his own opinions, so such a child is popular wherever he grows up, but the success rate of life is also high.

It's hard to say this, look at what this interest refers to, some people think that the interest refers to being in a high position and making a lot of money, which is the interest in their hearts, and some people don't want to pursue so much fame and fortune, just run their own small shop, and live a fulfilling life every day.

Of course, there is another understanding, that is, if the child is disobedient, why is he disobedient? Because he has his own understanding, he has his own ideas, he wants to do things according to his own ideas, rather than just listening to other people's understanding to do his own things, in fact, sometimes only he knows what his needs are, and other people's understanding can only be said to be other people's life experiences, and people are different from each other. Have your own ideas and put them into practice, day after day, year after year, the gap is naturally reflected.

This is not necessarily true, but a large part of the reason why children who are disobedient are successful is because they dare to challenge and become able to think differently and stick to their own ideas, unlike those who are content with the status quo.

Disobedient children have their own opinions, they have more bold ideas, so they can successfully survive in society, they have a kind of perseverance, they have a kind of perseverance, to prove that their opinions are correct, so they seem to be more successful.

Because those who are disobedient tend to be more autonomous. An obedient child is often not autonomous, because he is born with only the arrangement of his parents, but not himself. Autonomous consciousness.

Is the obedient child unproductive? Is it right for a child to be obedient?

1.Yes. Children who are too obedient have a rigid thinking pattern.

He does not have his own independent ideas, and will only do what others ask him to do. He was only fit to be a soldier, but he could never be a general. Because he will always be the one who obeys orders and listens to what others say, and will never have his own independent judgment, he will not achieve much.

There are deeper reasons for this result. The reason why he didn't have the idea of his own independence was because of the fear and cowardice in his heart. The more obedient a child is, the more dependent he is on others.

This is because he lacks self-confidence and security, which causes him to be afraid to make his own judgments and is afraid to take responsibility for his decisions. And listening to others gave him a sense of dependence. In his subconscious, it is not himself but others who are responsible for this, so that he will be more relaxed.

2.It is right for a child to be obedient. As parents, if their children are obedient, they will feel happy that they are good children and productive children.

They don't cause trouble like naughty children, but what parents don't know is that disobedient children are our nature, real creatures that exist as individuals. The child we want or need to cultivate is not an obedient puppet, what we need is a person who can think independently, know his responsibilities, and have a strong heart. Please give your child the space to think freely, and please be tolerant of his bold attempts and moderate mistakes.

The best way to do this is to be stocked but not indulged. Children can run, they can fall, but if they fall, they need to know how to get up. Parents should give their children appropriate and reasonable advice, rather than stopping their children's running.

3.Parents always have the notion that children are smart when they are obedient. However, you must know that children who are too squeamish and well-behaved are likely to have "personality deviations".

This will affect the child's interpersonal communication in the future, which is not conducive to the healthy development of the child's body and mind. In the stage of shaping the child's personality, parents may take it lightly, because the child is usually well-behaved and quiet, but once this one-sided personality is developed, it will lead to behavioral deviations. Therefore, parents should always pay attention to their children's growth and development and cultivate their children's all-round character.

Yes, if the child is obedient, he will have no interest, he should have some of his own concepts, his own opinions, and some of his own opinions in life, and he should not be submissive and cowardly.

I don't think so. It is right for children to be obedient, but they should not be overly obedient, that is, they must have their own opinions and opinions.

This is not necessarily, this is directly related to the child's character, the child is not wrong to be obedient, do not blindly blame the child and do not belittle the child.

Isn't it true that "children who don't listen to their parents have a good life". Because parents are the first to break through their own right, children don't understand anything in the subconscious, so that children have to think and try opportunities. Only when children have strong independence can they surpass their parents; And people who do not have the ability to be self-reliant and self-reliant, let alone surpass their parents, even if they live independently, it is difficult.

Secondly, parents must get rid of the instinctive reaction concept of "children are not allowed to do wrong things", and those who do not make mistakes will not have successful experience, it is not easy to "deep" self-reflection, and it is difficult to have the opportunity to "make up for mistakes with diligence".

There is a point of view in social psychology that pain is essential for the normal survival and development of people, and people with ** sense cannot survive, such as being roasted by fire to people who don't know pain, there is no way to survive normally, because such people don't know how to avoid fire. Qualified parents must instruct and teach their children specifically, but they also need to give their children the opportunity to "make mistakes". "Making mistakes" is a regular trend for children.

Returning to the theme style, the child is too ignorant, it is not the baby's problem, but its own problem, what is actually its own problem, must be considered; It may be that there are too many self-controls, and there are too few opportunities for children to learn to think and try; It may also be that he feels that he has always been right, and the child should listen to himself; It may also be that you are afraid that your child will make a mistake, and so on; If you can find the reason from your own body, and make your own teaching philosophy and education method more in line with the regularity of children's growth, then you may have a new state of life, your children's growth will exceed everyone's imagination, and the connection between parents and children will be more harmonious.

However, this does not mean that the experience of parents is a better way, and children also have their own hearts, so it is very likely that there will be resistance and confrontation. Parents must be cautious about children who learn to be tough. Any resistance from children does not mean that they are rejecting their parents.

Parents should make effective solutions, guide them correctly at all levels, and improve themselves. The reason why children choose to be tough is that they have not yet learned the appropriate way to express themselves, so parents do not need to be anxious and do not vent their anger on their children because of their own displeasure. Parents who can't handle their children's mouths.

In fact, self-control is not very good. They only say that they are harming their children, so the first thing parents have to do is to manage their emotions.

I don't think that's true; Don't listen to their parents, such children can only be said to be more rebellious, they are very individual, and it may be that the parents' education methods are wrong, so the children do not like to communicate with their parents, such children have little to do with whether they have a chance.

I don't think that's true; Such a statement is too absolute to generalize, and even if you don't listen to your parents, you may have a good chance of development.

This sentence is particularly one-sided. Don't listen to their parents and have their own opinions, but this kind of child is still relatively rebellious, if not managed, it will cause a big disaster in the future, and will embark on the road of breaking the law and committing crimes.

It's not like this, the child is obedient because the child thinks more, maybe the child is more sensitive, it doesn't mean that the child is unproductive.

No, there are some children who are more mature in their thinking, so they understand some of their parents' thoughts and are more obedient.

Disobedient children like to use their brains and are good at taking risks, which is conducive to broadening their minds and exercising their brains, so they are more intelligent and promising.

Personally, I think that in most families in today's society, the comprehensive quality of children is higher than that of their parents, especially for children who grow up in rural areas, as long as it is not an extreme situation, in most cases, children who do not listen to their parents tend to develop better, according to statistics, in adulthood, the number of girls who have made great achievements is much less than that of boys, to a large extent, it is because they are too obedient and too susceptible to the negative energy spread by their parents and relatives. Children who listen to their parents and teachers since childhood may not make big mistakes when they become adults, and the probability of breaking the law is relatively low, but they rarely have a big chance. (Similarly, employees who are too obedient will have a hard time becoming talent.)

Because, the boss can also make mistakes. When the boss makes a mistake, these employees do not know how to advise, but blindly obey. This is not only pit yourself, but also pit the boss.

Of course, "disobedience" is not the same thing as "adolescent rebellious period". Most children are rebellious in their adolescence purely for the sake of raising the bar, working against their parents and teachers, and only when they become adults do they realize that they are stupid to do that; And by "disobedient", I mean even from the perspective of a mature person.

I personally think I'm a "disobedient" child, once I quarreled with my family several times because of reading, not because my family didn't support me to study, but because I didn't fight, my reading grades were not good, my family wanted to arrange the back road for me, although I didn't understand anything at that time, but it was not happy, mainly I experienced the boring taste of summer work, life is still long, I don't want to go out early, naturally I will raise the pole with my parents, if my children are serious, my parents will definitely not be able to resist you, After all, our parents still love us. Looking back now, how proud I was of "disobedience" back then, although I haven't achieved much now, at least now my parents will listen to my advice and respect my choice in many things, and at the same time, they will also win more rights for my younger brother to choose his own life.

In short, when your parents and other elders try to interfere in your life, try not to listen to them, don't agree first, think about your own needs, if you have made up your mind, stick to it, don't be frightened by your parents' short crying, and don't be afraid of bearing the infamy of unfilial piety. People grow up, as long as you live well in the end, your parents will accept it, and only when you live well in the end, you have the ability to be filial.

If you are hesitant (because after all, you are a young person and you don't know much, so it's normal to hesitate when you encounter problems), then you must consult with people around you who are better and more successful, and ask for their opinions. This 'more successful person' can be your teacher, the parents of your classmates and friends, your distant relatives, or even strangers and netizens, books, but not people who are familiar or close to your parents. Many things are clear to bystanders, and people who don't have any interests entangled, and the advice given is often the most pertinent.

PS: If years later you feel that your parents were right, and regret that you didn't listen to your parents at the time, the reason why you say this is because you never surpassed your parents.

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