Do you give unreservedly when you are in love?

Pay unreservedly, of course, no, because if you have been so long, the other party will feel that it is a matter of course for you to be good to him, and he will not be good to you. Slowly, he has become accustomed to your kindness to him, and he will never think about how to repay you with the same kindness. Although it is always impossible to give the same amount in love, it is not okay for one person to always give unconditionally, and the other person will feel more or less unbalanced in his heart.

Now you can be unconditionally good to him because you like him very much. But when your enthusiasm for him has passed, then you will no longer feel that you have to be unconditionally good to her, but feel that this person does not know how to repay at all.

And he slowly gets used to it, and after you are kind to him, he will begin to ask you unconditionally, because he knows that you like him very much, so you will give him whatever he asks you for. If you indulge in this way for too long, you will also feel tired. It is difficult for two people to pay unequal love for a long time.

There will always be someone who will feel tired, and there will always be someone who will feel bored. True love is not your unreserved devotion to him, but the fact that both of you think about each other and both want to be good for each other.

Sometimes you have been unconditionally good to him, but you still haven't been reciprocated. Isn't there a saying that what you can't get is always the best? He has already got you, and you have been so good to him, and slowly he will feel that it doesn't matter, and he has no special feelings for you.

At this time, if there is another person who is very good, then he will want to pursue another person as much as possible. Only by being kind to yourself will you make your relationship last longer.

At that time, when I was young, I believed that sincerity was exchanged for true love, whether it was for him or his family, it was unreservedly giving.

Coupled with the influence of the original family, I want to leave the original family as soon as possible, and I have no reservations.

If it were me now, it wouldn't be like this.

Have some "reservations", so that you will not love each other too tired. In relationships, some people often think that when they love someone unreservedly, it is a manifestation that can only be performed when they are truly moved, and it is also a manifestation that they can only have when they truly trust each other.

Is it right to say that? Actually, yes, but the more realistic way to put it is – when a person loves another person unreservedly, they are often in order to get the same love from the other person. As in psychology, there is a term called "sense of giving":

The sense of giving is an innate compensatory psychology for everyone, but it doesn't mean it's right. Many people with a "sense of giving" will always think that once they give, they will prove that they are worthy of love, so the purpose of giving is to get. It's like this happens all the time in life.

A guy or girl is good enough to their partner to give unreservedly, and when they give, they claim that it is something they are willing to do, but after a period of time, they will start to wonder if the other person is giving them the same return.

When this kind of effort is not reciprocated, they can easily question each other: I am so good to you, why don't you cherish it, why do you treat me like this.

If unreserved love reaches this point, those who pay are tired, and those who bear it will only be more tired.

After all, everyone has different requirements for affection, and the way of loving someone will be different, not when one person is willing to be unreserved, and another person is also willing to be unreserved.

Two people who are unreserved can love vigorously when they are in love, but after a long time of love, they will feel that love is dull and boring.

On the contrary, those two people who can be reserved in love, let the relationship take their time, let the love slowly ferment, and the love at this time is easy to get stronger and stronger.

Having "reservations" is not that you dare not love each other when you love each other, but when you love someone, you can still understand that two people are independent individuals, and there is no need to be together all the time.

No, it shouldn't be unreserved, to be honest, human nature can't stand the test, everyone has their own selfishness, it's good to fall in love and enjoy the happiness that love brings to you, if you meet a good person, you may be lucky, but if you meet a bad person, you will lose everything.

When a person has no reservations, it is also a time to lose attractiveness, as we all know, couples need freshness, and the lyrics are written: What you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear. If you give too much and too much, it will make the other party feel that your contribution is justified, because it is too easy to get, so you will not cherish it.

Free things and bought things will definitely be more cherished and expensive.

Secondly, if you have no reservations at the beginning, you will invisibly raise the starting point and raise expectations, but as a result, you will give it all at the beginning, and there will be nothing left to take out, which will slowly disappoint the other party, and the final outcome can be imagined.

In short, no matter what kind of relationship you are in, it is always your own happiness that is the most important thing, and others can only be placed in the second priority.

I think I'll keep it. After all, I'm a girl, and I can't be a love brain, so it's not good for me. Unless my partner is unconditionally good to me, I will give without reservation.

In fact, many times at the beginning of a relationship, they have reservations about each other, and in the slow contact, they will understand what they know about the K room, and then slowly adapt to each other, whether it is suitable to be their other half, or whether you will have a long-term relationship, and then go to the palace of marriage. I think at the beginning, if a couple is in love, sometimes it is normal to reserve, if it has been talked for a long time, or each other has something to hide, then I think this is definitely not advisable, because a relationship, both parties must understand each other, if you have no reservations, to one person to pay, the other person is indifferent, then your pay must be in vain, so sometimes it is a truth to say that feelings appear like this.

I think they will definitely give unreservedly in the relationship of two-way running, because two people will slowly get closer to each other little by little, showing their good and bad shortcomings to each other.

Therefore, at the beginning, it is best to have reservations about the four seasons, get along slowly, and then see how this person slowly pays to his five guarantees, in this way, I think the love may be longer, and the feelings for you will be stronger.

How can I thank you, when I walked to you, I wanted to reap a spring breeze, but you gave me the whole spring

Now I give this relationship without reservation

My current relationship is the love that I pay unreservedly, although it is a long place, but I still cherish it, because I really love her very much. In fact, sometimes two people in different places can cherish each other the mostBecause we are not around each other, we can't feel each other's feelings, we can only chat through our mobile phones, share our daily lives, and we can't see each other every day like other couples, but in this way, we will cherish each other more and more, because we have given up a lot for each other.

We will share our daily life with each other, and we may share it with each other even if it is just a small thing, so we have a good relationship, and we will occasionally write small essays for each other and prepare surprises for each other. This feeling is a feeling I have never felt like I have ever felt to be truly loved, and I want to cherish this relationshipI will also cherish this relationship, now that we have been together for half a year, I believe we will get better and better.

<>We met in games, because we added a game group together, and then I posted a message in the group that happened to be seen by her, and then we added friendsLater, the more I talked, the more I slowly developed a good impression of each other, and we naturally got together。We have loved each other very much from the beginning to the presentwill insist on sharing each other's daily life with each other, even if they are two places apart, but the distance will never make our feelings fade.

Sometimes I will quarrel because of some small things, but I will accept her little temper, and I will coax her very patiently every time, because I know that she likes to talk back, so even if she is angry for a long time, I will be very patient to coax her, because I really love her. It is said that long-distance relationships will not last long, but I think we can be together for a long, long timeWhen I'm angry or unhappy, she's the first to coax me.

Long-distance relationships are inherently difficult, so there are a lot of things to give, but fortunately, we are both willing to give a lot for each other. On my birthday, I received a letter from herAlthough I know that she has already started preparing this letter for me, I will still be very excited when I actually receive it, no one has ever written to me, and she is so attentive, I am really moved to tears when I look at me.

She is not good at math, so I spent a few years patiently sorting out his notes, and I will patiently tell her if she has math problems that she can't doLove is originally a matter of two people, so it is still very important to give and go both ways, sometimes not only girls need to be loved, but boys also need to be loved. Even though it's a long distance, butLove has not studied geography, cherishing each other is the most important thing.

Sincerity, remorse, and deeds can only be retained, and there is no conflict.

In fact, to put it simply, if both parties do not give easily, it will greatly affect their lives, let alone give their bodies easily, and there will be much fewer tragedies caused by emotional disputes in the world.

Hello! I'm glad to be able to ask your question to scatter Li, read your question description, if you really love each other and want to be with each other, then of course you have to rush Duan to pay unreservedly, otherwise the relationship will fail, I hope mine can help you, I hope you can.

When you love someone, it's definitely just right to love to eight points. All the expectations and hopes are only seven or eight points, and the remaining two or three points are used to love yourself.

Once upon a time in a relationship, I was the one who gave unreservedly. But the experience of failure again and again tells me that this approach is very wrong, and I will give you a detailed explanation below.

Love yourself first in love

Love refers to a beautiful relationship between two people and a relationship that trusts and likes each other. But we are first and foremost our own in this relationshipWe are individuals, with thoughts and personalities, and falling in love is not about giving everything we have to each other。Everyone is the baby of mom and dad, there is no need to lower your posture and make yourself so humble because of a relationship.

In a positive relationship, you will not lose yourself, but will love yourself more and more. Because the other half gives you enough security and trust, so that you dare to face and challenge a better self. But if you are in a negative relationship, you can easily lose yourself.

There is no contradiction between loving someone and loving yourself, so in a relationship, we must love ourselves first before others can love us.