Is it worth it for two couples to live apart for a long time?

I don't feel worth it, in real life, we often say that we make money to support our family, and the ultimate purpose of making money is not to hope that the family will stay together, be happy with each other, and be happy? Conversely, even if it is a long-term separation for the sake of living, what is the ultimate purpose of life? Everyone wants their life to be better, and life with a home is perfect.

Husbands and wives have been separated for a long time and have endured the pain of lovesickness for a long time, even if they are rich in material resources and successful in their careers, they will not taste loss and lose the essential meaning of pursuing a better life.

It's not worth it, double stay and double flight is the most complete married life. Even though the two of them are in different jobs, they are separated from each other during the day and drift around for work, but they still meet each other at night. Whether it's joys and sorrows, or ups and downs, there is always someone by your side to share happiness and sorrows.

In order to live, it is not worth it for couples to live apart for a long time. With the increasing pace of society and the rapid increase in the cost of living, people have to make more efforts to get a better life, and they often have to make a choice in order to achieve better development or better job opportunities. Of course, this includes those who abandon their wives and children for a living and go out to earn a living.

In this case, the author believes that a short separation of husband and wife is excusable, but a long-term separation is not advisable.

I don't think it's worth it, the couple just lives together, and they can help each other if they have problems at work, so that they can solve the problem, and improve each other, you think like this, if you don't get together after marriage, what if you have children, from pregnancy to childbirth, this time, who will accompany the pregnant woman, this is a tormenting moment, and, why not work and live in a city, some people may think, go to the big city to earn more money, small cities to earn less money, but, you think about yourself when you were a child, you also have no money, Don't worry that you can't give your child the best education, I think accompanying your child's growth is the best education.

Personally, I don't know, husband and wife, as the name suggests, to rent and live together, if it is said that in order to live apart, it is okay in the short term, and in the long term, the estrangement is getting deeper and deeper, women don't need men to earn much more, they only need to love her and love her, since you are in order to live, go away from home, and wander away, after a long time, the relationship has become weaker, and there is no common language, which leads to the breakdown of the relationship, which is serious to divorce.

Of course, it's not worth it, separation is definitely not good, it will directly affect the relationship between husband and wife, because the feelings between us are getting along, and if we are separated, even if we have feelings, they will slowly disappear.

There are two sides to everything. If the two couples have a common goal and must achieve it. Even if they are separated, they are of the same heart.

The two of them worked together to keep their original intentions. It's worth it. But if one party is fascinated by the outside world.

And no communication. Sooner or later, such a marriage will have problems. There is a saying that the public does not leave the mother-in-law, and the scale does not leave the stone.

Not as a last resort. It is better not to separate.

In today's society, with the globalization of information technology, the diversification of communication tools, and the popularization of chat tools such as WeChat and QQ, the emotional sustenance in reality cannot be satisfied, and then in the virtual network world, the feelings are overflowing, resulting in a general increase in the divorce rate of male and female couples. Separation, of course, is not worth it.

Long-term separation, the education of children, is also a large part of the incomplete, left-behind children, lack of education, is also unqualified parents.

Companionship is the most affectionate confession, every woman hopes that her other half is by her side, sharing happiness and suffering together, but in reality, many people live separately for various reasons after marriage and bear the pain of long-distance separation, but husband and wife have been separated for a long time, will women guard themselves for men?

Not good. Husband and wife working separately can easily deteriorate the relationship between each other, most people will not do this, but many people have to do this in order to live, we must make the right choice in the face of life and work.

It is better for two husbands and wives to be together, to take care of each other, and it is easy to have problems in the relationship between the two places, and it is not worth it to hinder the relationship between husband and wife for the sake of these extra wages.

Long-term separation has a great impact on the relationship and life between husband and wife, and will seriously end in divorce, if the husband and wife live in two places for a long time, then the opportunity to communicate together is bound to be less than that of couples living together.

If both parties are busy with their own work, there are even fewer opportunities for communication. This is very detrimental to the marriage of two people, the emotions of two people, whether good or bad, can not be listened to in time, and both parties can not feel each other's care and love, and after a long time, the feelings will fade.

Long-term separation has a negative impact on the relationship between closed couples, which can easily lead to problems such as emotional alienation, communication barriers, misunderstandings, and trust crises.

However, some couples have to live apart for long periods of time due to work, health, or family reasons. In this case, couples need to keep in touch with each other, support and understand each other, create time together as much as possible, and seek professional help to solve any problems that may arise.

Overall, long-term separation is risky for the couple's relationship, but can be a necessary option in certain situations. Husbands and wives need to work together to maintain mutual affection and trust in order to maintain the health and stability of their marriage.

Not quite suitable.

1. Lack of freshness: When two people get along with Huai Xun for a longer time, they gradually become familiar with each other, and the freshness gradually decreases. This lack of freshness can cause both parties to lose interest in each other and a weakened sense of presence for each other.

2. Historical baggage: People who have been with each other for a long time tend to accumulate some historical baggage, such as past quarrels, misunderstandings, or injuries. These burdens may cause both parties to find it difficult to let go of the past in getting along, resulting in contradictions and estrangements.

3. Preset expectations: When we get along with familiar people, we usually have some preset expectations for them. But when these expectations don't match the behavior of the other person, or when you are too attached to your own expectations, it can lead to conflict and dissatisfaction.

4. Lack of communication: People who have been with each other for a long time may have a false belief that they don't need to communicate often or hide their true feelings. Such a lack of effective communication can lead to the accumulation of misunderstandings and conflicts. Pure type.

Long-term staging of couples may lead to a weakening of the relationship between the couple, and in severe cases, it may lead to divorce. The harms of long-term separation of husband and wife are as follows: (1) Both parties suffer from lovesickness, which is easy to cause dissatisfaction; (2) providing opportunities for third parties due to physical or psychological needs; (3) It is easy to produce mutual suspicion and distrust, which affects the relationship between husband and wife.

Article 1079 of the Civil Code [Divorce by Litigation] Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) There are bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse, and they are repeatedly taught to slow down; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared to have lost his or her traces, and the other party initiates a divorce lawsuit, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.