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In fact, it's not very difficult The main thing is to look at your own quality Quality should be divided into 2 types 1 is the external quality is your own dress The other 1 is your own language Speaking language should be generous Don't say that it's not good to put it Don't comment on yourself Anyway, when you speak, you have to look at the other party's expression and action For example, the other party's exit is not good You can use more inclusive words to show the other party You can also scold the other party The main thing is to catch the other party's shortcomings instead of swearing Words are to say in a roundabout way I don't understand this scolding at all Because I don't like scolding and fighting, a lot of language comes from books, I suggest you read more newspapers, a lot of magazines, I think the better one is "Little Stories, Big Truths", and you have time to improve your self-cultivation! ~
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Speaking is a kind of art, watch less of those so-called famous shows, practice more changes in tone, and change some rhetoric to a different tone, so that people can't figure out the real meaning and speak half-jokingly. It can reduce a lot of trouble. At the same time, read more poems, or watch some fu, which is of great help to cultivate sentiment and understand language, thank you,
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I felt the same way, I was very depressed at that time, and I had to rely on time to mature myself.
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Going through the brain's thinking and then speaking while speaking avoids many embarrassments and misunderstandings.
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When encountering a "mad dog", scolding people is unreasonable.
If Morifu is a "mad dog" type of person scolding us, the more we refute at this time, then the other party will be more energetic, and they will be entangled endlessly, and they will not be reluctant to compete with themselves, and ignoring them is the best way to deal with it.
Most of these people are unreasonable people, and many of them are popular, but when this group is scolded by these people, they want to cry out for themselves, but in fact, the effect is not very good, and even counterproductive.
The other party scolded us not to listen to our explanation, but to show the evil anger in our hearts, so I wanted to get a little cheap on my lips, and I didn't want to suffer a loss.
The more we explain, the more the other party feels that we are at a loss, and the more psychologically we feel that we are reasonable, and the more arrogant and arrogant we are.
In most cases, the purpose of such people scolding us is not to get angry, or to find fault with things, and to arouse the anger in our hearts through all kinds of humiliation and accusations.
If when we scold us, we get angry, explain or instigate the other person, then we follow the other person's wishes, and the more angry we are, the greater the anger aroused by the other party, then the other party will be happier in our hearts.
Often when we are scolding, we will see such a scene, the more we refute, the more energetic the other party is, the more angry we are, the more unrelenting the other party is, and more reasonable than us.
The "mad dog" type of a person scolds there, and no one cares about it, cooperates with himself, and can't find out the matter, so he scolds himself for feeling bored and boring, so he puts it away.
So when you encounter this kind of "mad dog" type of person who scolds himself completely unreasonably, ignoring it is the best way to deal with it, ignoring the other party, letting the other party scold himself, and scolding and scolding will have nothing to say.
Being scolded by aggressive people to find loopholes.
If you are scolded by an aggressive person, then don't get on the bar with the other party, find the other party's talking loopholes, and give priority to the momentum of the other party.
Many people are shocked by the momentum of the other party when they are aggressively humiliated and scolded, so most of them will choose to accept it and suffer this shame silently.
Generally psychologically, he must consider himself unlucky, who let himself touch the muzzle of the gun, asking for trouble, can only learn from it, feel sorry for himself, so he doesn't know and is willing to bear it.
This situation is okay once or twice, if you always bear it so silently, once you get used to being scolded by the other party and get used to it, then you will definitely be scolded by the other party often in the future.
After such a long time, the whole person must be very depressed psychologically, and may even have a negative resistance to the other party, resentment in his heart, and begin to hate the other party or Lu.
Therefore, when the other party scolds himself at the beginning, he should stop it, because the other party is domineering and difficult to refute.
The other party has a lot of words, scolding one by one, and there are always one or two sentences.
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