Is it okay for a daughter in law to go to her mother in law s grave?

The daughter-in-law goes to the grave of her mother-in-law's house, there is nothing good or bad to say, and it is the equality of men and women. According to the old saying, the daughter-in-law is the person of the in-law's family, and it is natural for the deceased relatives to go to the grave. There are many only children who have no sons, and it is normal for daughters to go back to their parents' graves to be graved.

I think it depends on the man, generally there is no one who is a family, but there are some men who can only go to the grave by the men of the family, and women can't go, so this depends on the man's family.

There is nothing good or bad for a daughter-in-law to go to the grave on the grave at her mother-in-law's house, mainly depending on the local customs and habits, in order to pay tribute to the deceased ancestors, it can better reflect the daughter-in-law's filial piety and traditional virtues, and it is also a challenge to the old customs.

Yes, daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law, they are all a family, so why can't you go if you don't talk about two families? If you really don't want to go, you can talk about it.

Since he is already your daughter-in-law, it means that he is already a member of your family, but he has the right and obligation to go to the grave.

The daughter-in-law can go to the grave of her mother-in-law's grave, as the old saying goes, there is a son and a daughter-in-law to hang in front of the grave, which means that the son and daughter-in-law go to the grave!

There is nothing bad about this, although it is the graveyard of the in-laws' family, but it already belongs to the family that is married to their family, that is, a family, so there is no taboo.

I don't think it's okay, depending on your local customs, our daughter-in-law can go to the grave of her deceased relatives with her husband.

Going to the grave is the embodiment of a person's filial piety and is a traditional custom. There is no such thing as good or bad, the family should be.

There is nothing good or bad, the customs are different in every place, if the customs allow it, then go as you want!

Generally, if you go to the cemetery, it is not a particularly good thing for women to go, let alone their own mother-in-law's house.

According to local customs, there is a saying that is called following the local customs!

When going to the grave, you should bring wine, food, fruits, paper money and other items to the cemetery, offer food to the grave of your relatives, and then incinerate the paper money, cultivate new soil for the grave, trim the grave, fold a few tender green new branches and insert them on the grave, and press some paper money on the top, put bricks on it, let others see that there are still descendants in this tomb, and then kowtow and worship. Women and children also folded willow branches nearby and threaded the removed steamed offerings with wicker. Some weave the wicker into a hoop shape and wear it on their heads, saying that "if you don't wear willow in Qingming, you will become a yellow dog in the next life".

Since she is married to your family, she is a member of your family, and of course she can go out to respect. Unless she doesn't want to go herself. Now this preference for sons is not only reflected in the birth of boys and girls, but also in this aspect.

I feel that this is nothing, if you go, I personally feel that you are a very filial daughter-in-law, and his family will bless you in heaven.

Those who can go to the grave, according to the folk customs of our country, as long as the girl is married to the husband's family, she can enter the ancestral card of the husband's family after death, so the daughter-in-law can go to the grave.

OK! This is the custom of my hometown, but I can't go back to my parents' house alone to sweep the grave, your customs have to be clarified, this is a big problem in the countryside, and there will be fights.

Filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Your going to the grave is also a kind of mourning for the old, and it is also a comfort to your husband.

You can go there, but it is also possible that the place is different and the customs are different, so it is best to ask your old man, make it clear, and then see how to solve it.

Qingming Festival is one of the more traditional festivals, but also a very popular holiday, at this time many people will go home on vacation to visit the grave, this is one of the customs in our country. There is a certain amount of attention to going to the grave on the Qingming Festival, generally going to the grandfather's grave first, and then going to the grandfather's grave, depending on the customs of each region.

On the Qingming Festival, go to the grandfather's grave or grandfather's grave first.

Generally, I go to my grandfather's grave first, and then my grandfather's grave.

For the time of worshipping ancestors during the Qingming Festival, people in some places go to sweep the tombs three days before the Qingming Festival, but some people go after the Qingming Festival, so the time is not very strict.

Generally speaking, you can go to the tomb about a week to two weeks in advance, and you don't have to choose to go to the tomb on the day of Qingming. In some places, the time to sweep the tomb is selected in the first three and four after the fourth, which means that the first three days and the last four days of the Qingming Festival are used to sweep the tomb, and some even pay attention to the first seven and eight after the eight.

Is it better to go to the grave of your mother-in-law's house or your mother's grave on the Qingming Festival.

Qingming Festival generally goes to the mother-in-law's grave first, and then to the mother's grave.

The order of going to the grave should be based on "pro-sparse". First go and worship the ancestors who are closer to each other, and then worship the ancestors who are not so close to each other. If relatives and estrangement are the same, it should be decided according to the generations in the family.

Usually, the best time to go to the grave on Qingming Festival is the week before Qingming Festival. If the family members are busy before the Qingming Festival, they can advance it to two weeks before the Qingming Festival. For the specific and exact time of going to the grave, family members can open the old yellow calendar to check the auspicious day suitable for going to the grave (after all, it is to worship the ancestors, and the date, itinerary and other aspects must be planned in advance to show respect for the ancestors), and after the auspicious day of the grave is determined, go to the cemetery to cover the grave according to the planned itinerary.

Precautions for going to the grave on Qingming Festival.

1. Avoid the peak of tomb sweeping, avoid crowding, and choose the appropriate way to travel.

Saturday and Sunday are the peak period for tomb sweeping, and it is best for the public to avoid these two days to visit tombs. Due to the increasing number of people who drive private cars now, there are traffic jams during the peak period of tomb sweeping every year, in this regard, the relevant departments remind the general public to choose to take all kinds of public transportation or bicycle when going to the tomb sweeping, and extend the tomb sweeping time or stagger the key time period, so as to alleviate the pressure brought by more people and more vehicles to road traffic.

2. Pay attention to fire prevention in Luzhou, ensure safety, and advocate civilized sacrifices.

He called on the public to change the old concept of tomb sweeping, not to engage in feudal superstitious activities when sweeping tombs, not to buy superstitious items peddled by hawkers, and vigorously advocate "flower memorials", using hungry flowers instead of burning paper money, incense and candles, and setting off firecrackers to worship and sweep, which is not only the best tribute to relatives, but also greatly reduces the hidden danger of fire protection.

3. Pay attention to the items you carry-on.

When visiting graves, especially when visiting cemeteries, be mindful of what you bring with you. It is not easy to find lost items, so you should be careful not to lose them. Double-check that you have everything you have with you before and after the grave sweep begins.

Parents with children should take good care of their children to prevent them from getting lost due to play.

This mainly depends on the relationship between the son and the daughter-in-law.

If the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious and beautiful, mutual respect, mutual understanding and mutual accommodation, mutual love and love. Whether the son is in content or form, if he does something filial and quiet to his elders, the daughter-in-law will definitely cooperate and approve of it.