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I think this view is very correct, because only when you are in a weak position, you will find that the people around you are not good to you, and only when you are really strong, you will find that in fact, the people around you are very good to you.
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Because when you are very weak alone, the people around you will think that you are very bullying and think that you have no use value, but when you make a comeback, they will definitely be very afraid of you.
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When you are strong, nothing in the outside world can stump you, when you are cowardly, anyone can bully you, in fact, making yourself strong, not only the body, but also the heart is very important.
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The pinch of persimmon picking soft is also human nature. If you are a bully, they will come to show that they are strong. Therefore, if people do not offend me, I will not offend others. Even if you are weak, you should resist.
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The people around you will choose to bully you and will cheat on you. You are the weakest one, so there are the most bad people around you at this time.
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I think that's particularly right, because if a person is weaker, there will be more people who bully him.
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In fact, everyone's surrounding environment is not completely fixed. When you become more capable as a person, then the people around you are all good people. But when you're weak, there will be a lot of bad people around you. Let me analyze the reasons for this.
1.First of all, when you are living a particularly good life alone, or when you are particularly strong now, then others may be able to use you. It is possible to form a certain interest relationship with you.
Therefore, at this time, others will appear with a very good face. But once you are particularly weak now, then in the eyes of others, you are basically useless. Therefore, he will not disguise himself, but will show the most vicious side of his human nature.
So at this time, you're surrounded by bad people.
2.And once a person behaves weakly, then others will feel that you are a bully. There are many people who have a characteristic of bullying the soft and fearing the hard.
So when this person feels that you are particularly easy to bully, he will appear around you as a bad person. So when a person is very weak, there are more bad people around him all of a sudden. Because this person will show the characteristics of bullying the weak and fearing the hard in his own heart because of your weakness.
That's why it's really bad.
3.And the most important point is that once a person is weak. All people wouldn't actually advise you to offend you.
Because when you are strong yourself, then others see your strengths. Therefore, they will naturally not be willing to offend you, because you are a good image in their hearts. But if you are weak in your performance, then most of what others see is your shortcomings.
When a person sees more and more shortcomings in you, then he will use some methods to offend you, because he will feel that you have no meaning to him at all.
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Because when a person is weak, others will think that this person is easy to bully, and after a long time, they will feel that there are bad people around them.
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Weak normal is because of insufficient social experience and has an unbalanced mentality Adjust your mentality, experience more things, try a few more times, and have confidence, you will become stronger.
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The so-called people go to higher places, and water flows to lower places. Everyone hopes that one day they will be at the top of the mountain. When you stand on a high place, you will find that you can see farther, and at the same time, you will also find that there will be more and more people around you, and the people around you will become more and more polite.
The famous actor Huang Bo once talked about his experience. When he was still a newcomer, the people around him either disdained him or looked at him coldly, and even insulted him in various ways, and everyone around him was evil. When he successfully won the actor in one fell swoop, the people around him suddenly became better.
Everywhere you go, you will be shouting "Teacher Huang, Teacher Huang", all kinds of honorific titles, and many people will smile and say to you, "Teacher Huang, what do you want to drink?" I'll give it to you", "Teacher Huang, you have worked hard". It turns out that when a person is weak, there are really a lot of bad people around him.
We all know that it is human nature to bully the soft and fear the hard, when you are in a weak position, you are not wrong, but because it doesn't cost anything to bully you, there are more people who bully you. I remembered that there is a lot of news on the Internet about security guards beating up the delivery boy or maliciously locking the car. The reason why many security guards do this is very simple, because it is almost cost-free to bully a takeaway guy who is weaker than himself.
It turns out that the spirit of everyone is to help each other and understand each other. is also the people at the bottom, why should the people at the bottom bother to make trouble for the people at the bottom? However, some people, especially those at the bottom, once they have a little power, will do everything they can to infiltrate and infiltrate the people who are also at the bottom like him.
The evil of human nature is especially prominent at this moment. It turns out that when a person is weak, there are really a lot of bad people around him.
The hustle and bustle of the world is for profit, and the hustle and bustle of the world is for profit. When we understand this truth, we will find that the harm of the original bad people also has a scope, and when you can control or operate their rights and interests, the original evil people can actually be so kind.
As you become stronger, the range of damage that the bad guys will do to you will become smaller and smaller. When you reach new heights, you'll find that all the bad guys around you are gone. Only when you are strong, the environment around you will get better and better, and only when you are strong, the people around you will become more and more friendly.
Therefore, the most important thing is to work hard and go to the next level.
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In the past, I always met all kinds of people, all kinds of cautions, all kinds of things. If you can't settle the account after you go, who cares about you?
But now (I have become famous), I am surrounded by good people, and every one of them is full of smiling faces.
Teacher Huang, Teacher Huang, are you tired, take a break. Mr. Huang, what do you want to eat and drink, and what will I get you? Mr. Huang, you have worked too hard.
I used to work hard, but I did this line of work, who let you come, who called you here? ”
It seems that he is understatement, but I don't know how much sadness he has experienced, once Huang Bo was a singer of KTV, and was driven away by ruffians and hooligans in the field**, Huang Bo, of course he doesn't want to**, then he has no salary, how to support himself, and he just said "I'm down, I'll sing another song next", so he skillfully solved the scene at the time, he did the lowest life, before he became famous, he walked all over China's east and west, north and south, we often mention, often praise Huang Bo's high emotional intelligence, but everyone knows, these are the rules of survival that he practiced when facing bad guys when he was living at the bottom.
From the bar that sustains survival to the university, to the final interpretation of life, every step is extremely difficult, and the deep footprints are witnessing his transformation step by step.
After becoming famous, he has more "pleasant faces and care" around him, and the "bad guys" in the past are also far away from him, and now he is not too much to use smooth sailing.
It seems like a simple story, but it has resonated with countless people, like we convey a simple and obvious truth.
Life is so cruel, every time you take a step up, there will be fewer bad people and more good people in your life.
When you go high enough, you will find yourself surrounded by good people.
The environment determines the ugliness of human nature, and you determine the environment.
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This is in response to the sentence that people are good at being bullied and horses are good at being ridden, the weaker people are not how weak they are, but the thoughts, hearts, and thoughts are not the kind of competitive, kind-hearted, empathetic, always feel that no one is easy, always feel that it is nothing to suffer a loss, in line with the principle that suffering a loss is a blessing, some unreasonable and malicious behaviors of others choose to endure, so that these people not only do not feel guilty, but make them worse, and this kind of people are also gangs, Or some people have strong genes in their bones, just use this person to make a punching bag, or the spice of life, this person has become the object of everyone's after-dinner pastime, so there will be more and more bad people around this kind of cowardly person.
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Why the weaker you are, the more bad people there are around you. Because when you are weak, the people around you think you are easy to bully, they think you are incapacitated, and you are weak, and they want to bully you. So if you make yourself stronger, others won't dare to do anything to you, work hard to strengthen yourself, make yourself stronger, and there will be no bad people around you.
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People have this mentality. Well, bullying the soft is afraid of the hard, so you think that the weaker the person, the more bad people around you, maybe that's the truth.
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This is the so-called "people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden", so you can't be too weak, and soft persimmons will be pinched. As long as you keep your bottom line, behave properly, sit upright, and be hard when you should be hard, so that others will not dare to bully you, and the villain will stay away from you.
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The kinder you are, others think you are easy to bully, so they all want to bully you, only when you become strong, everyone will pay attention to you, and no one will dare to bully you, and the people around you will be better and better to you.
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This is an era of the jungle, your weakness reflects the strength of others, and your good reflects the bad of others!
Therefore, you must first learn to change yourself, survival of the fittest, survival of the fittest, you have to become stronger, make yourself stronger, so that when others see you, they may want to bully you and dare not bully you!
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Because bad people like to bully honest people and weak people.
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The persimmons are all picked up and pinched, and people are honest and bullied, and horses are honest and ridden. That's the truth, so don't be too weak when you are reasonable, and argue with him with the truth, so that no one will bully you in the future.
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People are good and are deceived by others....Take a step back and say that the weak can make it easy for others to accept and communicate.
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Because you are too honest, those people are bullying the weak and afraid of the hard.
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People are bullying the weak and afraid of the hard.
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Why is it that the weaker a person is, the more "bad guys" there are around him? People are good and are bullied!
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What's good and what's bad, if you feel like the people around you aren't the ones you really like, then you may need a change of environment.
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Why is it that the weaker you are, the more people around you, because you are too honest and others are bullying you.
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That's not true.
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