I m talking about getting married to my boyfriend, and I want to put my name on his house, okay?

Updated on society 2024-08-12
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    I feel that people are becoming more and more realistic nowadays. Every day, I am entangled in material things such as houses and cars. This is not married yet, so think about what you can get after the divorce. I don't know if this society is impetuous, or people's hearts are impetuous.

    From your point of view, your request seems understandable. As a woman, I just want a sense of security, so I ask that your title deed must have my name on it. I can guarantee that if I can't live one day and get divorced, I can still get half of the property.

    But have you figured it out? For this two-million-dollar house, you will ask for half of the property if you pay for it. Whether it's a down payment you make together, or a loan that you pay back together.

    If you don't have a penny in this house, how can you have the audacity to get your boyfriend to put your name on the title deed.

    After all, this house is your boyfriend's hard-earned down payment and hard-earned loan. You should know the bitterness and difficulty of this. It is precisely because of these years of hard work that he is hesitant to add your name to the real estate deed.

    He should be more insecure than you are, after all, he bought it with his own money.

    It's not that your name can't be added to the title deed, but it's really a matter that needs to be negotiated to be resolved. And depending on your attitude, it seems that you are using the name of the real estate certificate as a weight to coerce you on marriage. An originally holy marriage, when pressed by this weight, seems to have changed its taste.

    So you really should think about your boyfriend. In your words, it can be seen that you don't love your husband very much, but just feel that you are old and want to find someone to marry. Such a marriage, the love that is threatened by the house, I advise you to really think about it carefully.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    It is also possible to add a name after marriage, after all, the house is not paid in full, and the husband and wife have to repay the loan together. But there must be a premise, you have to notarize who the down payment for this house is, the time and amount need to be very detailed, and your wedding date. Because it's not just women who want to feel safe, men also need to feel safe, you should also think about your boyfriend, and you both need to be treated fairly.

    A family of several generations of savings bought such an expensive house and married their children, but in the end? There are a lot of people who have been swept away by women, I believe you have seen a lot of these examples on TV, you should consider this problem from a different angle, it is normal for your boyfriend to have concerns and worries, and I want to believe you if it is you. Do you think about why the new marriage law has changed in this way?

    It's because some women took advantage of the legal loopholes for this, and finally swept away the property that others had worked so hard to save, don't blame people for being unwilling, there are a lot of cheating marriages now, I think you better discuss it. <>

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    From a boy's point of view, if I were your boyfriend, I wouldn't want to add your name to the real estate certificate, and now the divorce rate is so high, and you also said that the relationship is not very good or bad. That's the general relationship, we've only been together for a year, and I'm ready to get married. Two million houses together in a year are you ready to ask for half?

    Even if you are rushing to get married, it is a bit excessive, what ability do you have to be worth this million, you also said that you want a sense of security. Your boyfriend still wants a sense of security, he has worked hard to buy a house and pay off the mortgage for so long, why do you want to divide half as soon as you come, have you thought about it from his standpoint? If you were him, wouldn't you be willing?

    It's so difficult to get married now, I don't know how much the bride price is, and I promised to buy a car for you, your boyfriend is still able to buy a car, which shows that he has good ability, and a house and a car of two million are already very good compared to ordinary people, have you thought about yourself? What will you do, marriage is something everyone has to do, two people have a support to live together, your boyfriend's home is ready for you, the car is ready for you, what have you prepared for her? I've worked hard for most of my life just to marry you home, what if you don't feel suitable for divorce after marriage?

    Once divorced, you can divide half of the house, and the house **** divorce may not be how much it is. Have you ever contributed to this house? What did your boyfriend get when he got divorced, everything went back to before, and you got more than a million for nothing, and the car.

    I won't add your name to it, unless you sign an agreement and you repay the mortgage later, otherwise this marriage can be tied or not, and the struggle for so long is not for you to struggle alone, but for this family, as long as you are good, you are afraid of insecurity?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I feel like you still don't want to add a name, on the one hand, you're not in love together, you should just make up for it. In addition, if you want to add a name, you can give some money to your fiancé, and then divide the house according to the proportion, so that you also have a share of the house. As long as this house has your share, even if it is only one-tenth, then you don't have to worry about a bad relationship in the future, he will tell you to get out, because he is not qualified, even if he can make up the money for you, it depends on whether you are willing to accept it, if he wants to sell the house, he can't sell it without your signature!

    However, if you have enough funds, it is better to make a small set yourself before marriage, and it is better for anyone to have it yourself. If you don't want to pay a penny, ask someone else to add your name. It depends on whether your fiancé loves you enough.

    But judging by your description, it is clearly not ......

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Now the marriage law clearly stipulates that the house bought before marriage is added to your name, and the house after divorce is not yours, unless the house is bought after marriage.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Take a look at the latest interpretation of the Marriage Act. There is a difference between the previous interpretation and the current interpretation.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    1. Yes. However, if you add your name to the real estate certificate after marriage, you must get the consent of the man, and the property has obtained the real estate certificate;

    2. After adding your name on the real estate certificate, the property belongs to the joint property of your husband and wife.

    If the co-ownership of the property is not indicated when adding the name, the property belongs to you in common ownership, and both parties occupy half, and your share is equivalent to the man's gift to you;

    3. It is not troublesome to add the name of the spouse, the procedure is very simple, bring the original real estate certificate, ID card, marriage certificate, etc., and both parties can apply for change registration at the real estate center.

    The required fees: registration fee and production cost of about 100 yuan, warrant stamp duty of 5 yuan.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hello, you can negotiate with your boyfriend, if he agrees, you can go through the transfer, so it is joint property, if your boyfriend does not agree, you can also sue to ask your boyfriend to assist in the transfer of real estate.

    According to Article 9 of the Property Law, the creation, alteration, transfer and extinction of immovable property rights shall take effect upon registration in accordance with law; Without registration, it shall not take effect, unless otherwise provided by law. The ownership of natural resources that belong to the State in accordance with the law may not be registered.

    Article 14: The creation, alteration, transfer and extinction of immovable property rights shall be registered in accordance with the provisions of the law, and shall take effect at the time of the record. In other words, if the property has not been registered, there will be no legal consequences of the change of property rights even after marriage, unless you can reach an agreement.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I have to admit that there are too many couples who will have disagreements because of the problem of the house, sometimes it may just be misunderstandings and contradictions, but sometimes it may lead to a breakup because of this problem, which is very common. <>

    And my point of view on the matter of the house has always been very clear, there are some cases where I will not ask for my name to be added to the house book, that is, the house was bought by the man's parents, I did not spend a penny, and whether it is the house bought in full or the house bought with a loan, I will not ask for my name if I do not pay for it, because I feel that I am not qualified to ask people to add my name.

    But if I pay for this house, whether it is half of the house that I and the man bought or the down payment paid by his parents, and we will repay the loan after that, in this case, I will definitely pay part of the loan every month, and it will definitely not be less than the other half. In such a situation, I will definitely ask for my name to be added to this house, because I think that I have the money to buy this house, and as long as I pay for it, I will not let myself pay much less than the boys, and if I don't add my name at this time, I will feel that I am more disadvantaged, so I will not allow such a situation. As for the situation you encountered, your boyfriend's house was bought by his parents, and you didn't actually spend money to buy this house, and you want them to add your name, so I'll talk about my opinion.

    First, you can bring your idea to him. I know that a house is still very important for women, because having a house does give a certain sense of security, so I can understand the idea that women want to add their names to the house book. Now that you think you're getting married, you want the other party to add your name to the house book, and I think you can mention this to them, but it's better to talk to your other half, you see his attitude first, and then see if you want to talk to his parents.

    Anyway, don't make a fuss about a name and make a relationship awkward. <>

    2. It is not possible to require him to add. But one thing you have to pay attention to is that you can bring up the idea with him, but you can't ask the other person to add your name, let alone kidnap him. I don't think it's right to think that you don't love yourself without a name, and that's a moral kidnapping for him, and this kind of behavior is definitely not conducive to getting along with each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can't add your name after getting married, and it doesn't follow the rules, and your boyfriend's parents won't agree to it, unless they agree to it, otherwise it's impossible to add it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, you can't. Because this is pre-marital property, even if the name is added to the pre-marital property, it is of little use. After the divorce, it still belongs to the funder.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If your boyfriend is particularly fond of you, you can ask for it like him, but it's better not to do it, because this house was bought by his parents.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, because after the marriage, the house is lived in by two people, and it is reasonable to write your own name.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, that's very incorrect. This is so unfair to the man.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, the other party is afraid that you are worried about his property if he is not married, this kind of person is particularly selfish.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think I should marry him, I think the house is all outside the body, and I can't stop marrying each other because of the problem of the house, it's all a trivial matter.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, the other party will calculate the property very clearly if he is not married, and he has two thoughts about you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think it's normal for your boyfriend to do this because it's a pre-marital property that belongs to him, and it can't be said that he doesn't love you without your name.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The boyfriend and girlfriend have reached the stage of talking about marriage, but the boyfriend is unwilling to add his name to the property, and this marriage should continue. As a girl, you should consider that the house is purchased by the man's family, so the boy does not have the right to add the girl's name to the real estate deed. There is no need for girls to argue too much, after all, it is purchased by the boy's premarital property, and it is understandable that the girl's name is not added.

    However, if the girl is willing to help her boyfriend take on the responsibility of repaying the mortgage after marriage, she can choose to add her girlfriend's name to the real estate book after marriage. <>

    Add the girl's name to the real estate book, and when the girl gets married, she will ask the boy to buy a house in advance, more considering that after marriage, in case the two people have no place to live, most of the houses that the man's parents pay for are only willing to write the son's name. Considering that today's marriages are more realistic, if the girl's name is added to the real estate book, the divorced property needs to be divided equally after the two people are unhappy. In order to prevent such a thing, most parents are only willing to write their son's name when buying a house for their children, but they are not willing to add the name of their daughter-in-law.

    Such a thing is also understandable, after all, it is impossible for a daughter-in-law to add her name to the real estate book without spending a penny. <>

    The continuation of the marriage as a girl should take into account that she did not pay a penny to buy a house at the time of marriage, so such property itself should be divided among the boys. If you take the initiative to bear the responsibility of repaying the mortgage with the boy after getting married, it is logical to wait until many years after the marriage, if the boyfriend proposes to add his name to the real estate book. But if the other party has not put forward such conditions for a long time, there is no need to argue too much, after all, husband and wife do not live together entirely because of the house.

    The relationship between husband and wife always asks the boyfriend to add his name to the real estate book before he gets married, which will only think that the girl is more snobbish for the other party, and is willing to live with the boy only after taking a fancy to the boy's house. The two people should discuss amicably, and only when the two people get along more harmoniously after marriage can they add the girl's name.

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