Happiness to Ten Thousand Homes Wang Qinglai has changed greatly when he enters the city, why has

Wang Qinglai in "Happiness to Ten Thousand Homes" has changed his mentality after entering the city, and I personally think that on the one hand, it is because he feels very aggrieved to enter the city, and on the other hand, because the environment is different, and he can no longer hide his true nature in the face of people and things. Wang Qinglai has been crawling in the farmland since he was very young, and he is used to relying on his own one-third of an acre of land to make money. Originally, he could make some money by soliciting customers, but he didn't expect it to be illegal, the money was not earned, and his motorcycle was still in it, so he began to have more resentment in his heart, so his mentality would change.

Wang Qinglai thinks that entering the city is a very aggrieved thing

When Wang Qinglai's motorcycle was detained by law enforcement for illegal solicitation and he was fined, he began to complain, not only about happiness, but also with his brother. It is precisely because of the fact that working in the city has hit a wall everywhere, so Wang Qinglai thinks that going to the city to work is a humiliating thing. Once people feel aggrieved, they will have a different mentality, and they have a good attitude before, but they have gradually become extreme, and their performance will be very different.

The environmental factors in the city and the countryside are very different, and Wang Qinglai reveals his true nature

Wang Qinglai had a good mentality in the countryside before he came, because he and his father lived a submissive life all their lives, they were afraid of things, they only wanted stability, and they could compromise with others in everything, that is to say, their nature was a "nest". After entering the city, he found that the people in the city did not eat this set at all, even if they were quiet, it would not work to ask people to do things with courtesy, and it was completely different from in the village, so his true nature was revealed, and he no longer showed honesty, but began to resent his own people, and his mentality became very extreme. He thinks that his younger brother, who provided for him to go to college like this, is now asking him to help his father-in-law arrange a job, but he is unwilling, and at the same time thinks that relatives like his brother-in-law have no value in helping, and persuades his younger brother to break up quickly.

No matter how the younger brother and happiness explain it, he just admits death. <>

After entering the city, Wang Qinglai's attitude changed extremely, firstly, because he did not adapt to life in the city. In the city he felt defeated. The second is because he still complains about He Xingfu in his heart, he feels that if it weren't for He Xingfu to stir up trouble, he would still be able to live an ordinary life in the village.

So under this mentality, he began to become extreme.

On the one hand, it was because he felt very aggrieved to enter the city, and on the other hand, because of the different environment, he could no longer hide his true nature in the face of people and things.

First of all, I like to be touted. After Wang Qinglai entered the city, Qingzhi's father-in-law helped him arrange to be a security guard in the city, and several other colleagues saw him holding cigarettes and alcohol at the gate of the city on the day of his job search, so he thought that they were uncles and nephews, so they all held him every day, and shouted a "brother" every day, he was overjoyed, and handed over a drink after work, and others stood respectfully at work, he stood at the door with his hands behind his back, making it like a leader inspecting the work, and he was a little fluttering in this touting environment every day. In order to make everyone more recognized of himself, he actually took the initiative to say that his younger brother also worked in the ** department during the meal.

Secondly, the temper becomes bigger and unreasonable. Wang Qinglai and Xingfu just entered the city and had no place to live, Qingzhi took them to a new home to live temporarily, who expected Wang Qinglai to live and didn't want to leave, and even every time Xingfu said that he rented a house and moved, he was fierce and happy and had a lot of money, and even kept saying that Qingzhi's house was made up of a large family to live, and he didn't consider the feelings of his brother and daughter-in-law at all, and even shook his face to show her.

The dependency is too strong. After entering the county seat, Wang Qinglai became very lazy and counted on others for everything, especially when he asked Qingzhi to drag his father-in-law to help him find a job and was rejected, he was very annoyed and kept saying that Qingzhi had no ability, even if he persuaded him to go to the employment agency to find a job by himself, he stayed at home under the pretext of "having acquaintances", and then went directly to the city to find Qingzhi's father-in-law without saying hello, without thinking about whether his behavior would bring trouble to others.

Wang Qinglai knew how to farm every day before he entered the city, although he was not shrewd but very diligent and honest, but since he entered the county, the changes have obviously been too great, making people unable to bear his thoughts and behaviors, so that the audience can really understand what the concept of "no culture is terrible" is, this Wang Qinglai really makes people angry, a man has no responsibility at all, he either retreats or blames others, which is really unbearable.

One of the biggest changes that happened after he was in the capital was that he began to become very irresponsible, and he had no sense of proportion in doing things, he was very wrong, he always wanted to rely on others, he always wanted to climb relatives, and he wanted to rely on relationships to achieve his own goals.

He has become completely bad, and he has become a very lewd person, and he has become a very cowardly person, and he has become a very cowardly person, and he has no concern for his family at all. Don't care about other people's feelings.

He complained about happiness, felt that the difficulties he encountered after entering the city were caused by happiness, and complained that his brother did not find him a job. smoked in his brother's bridal room, threw the cigarette ash directly into the bowl, littered everywhere, and was reluctant to give his daughter-in-law a hotel, but he could buy gifts for others.

In people's impressions, Wang Qinglai has always been an honest and responsible image, but after entering the city, his temperament changed, and he even began to dislike He Xingfu, not only became more talkative, but also had his own ideas on many things, and he was unwilling to let He Xingfu meddle in his own affairs. Little people have the sorrow of small people, Wang Qinglai has been living in the countryside, with small peasant thinking, his vision is very narrow, when he entered a completely unfamiliar environment, Wang Qinglai's thinking has undergone some changes, and at the same time has become impetuous. <>

Wang Qinglai found that life in the city was completely different from life in the countryside, and the pace of the city was very fast, and Wang Qinglai was not able to adapt to it at first. When Wang Qinglai first entered the city, he didn't know that people's hearts were sinister, and he thought that he could make money through motorcycles, but he didn't expect that not only the car was gone, but he was also fined by the traffic police. Wang Qinglai has always made a living from farming in the countryside, and he is silent and rarely communicates with others, and seems out of place with the city, Wang Qinglai is like an outsider, who has never been able to integrate into the city.

When Wang Qinglai saw He Xingfu find a job, he had an imbalance in his heart, but Wang Qinglai refused to admit it in his heart. Wang Qinglai is an ordinary man with inferior roots, and he is not able to solve the current predicament, and he shifts the responsibility to He Xingfu, which can also reflect that Wang Qinglai is a person who does not want to make progress. He Xingfu is a very assertive woman, but Wang Qinglai is obviously very different from He Xingfu's thoughts, two people are together, there will be more contradictions, and Wang Qinglai is also afraid of losing He Xingfu.

Wang Qinglai has been standing still, and his own heart is also very anxious, and he has not found a suitable job. Wang Qinglai asked Wang Qingzhi to find a job for himself, so Wang Qinglai got the opportunity to be a security guard, but Wang Qinglai slowly lost himself in the process, and wanted to prove himself, so he showed omnipotence outside, and became strong in front of He Xingfu. Everything that Wang Qinglai obtained was not obtained through his own efforts, so Wang Qinglai's heart was also empty, and he could not enjoy everything with peace of mind.

Because Wang Qing had a sense of frustration after coming to the city, he was inferior and arrogant, and his temperament changed greatly, and he became a real "grandiose man in the nest". Wang Qinglai was already full of resentment about the fact that he couldn't stay in the village. After entering the city, under the illegal solicitation, the motorcycle was impounded and the money was fined, Wang Qinglai began to show his dissatisfaction in his heart, blaming happiness, saying that if it weren't for her, he wouldn't have to look at other people's faces here in the Shadow Destroyer.

It's because of the shadow rock of the environment, and I don't want to work for other people, and I also feel that I can get better development by borrowing from rough judgment. It was really his personality that caused him to disturb him, after all, he was a relatively cowardly person.

His personality has changed greatly, on the one hand, from his family, and on the other hand, he can't see the facts clearly, which makes him very restless, so the hood core leads to a big change in personality.

It is understandable, because in Wang Qinglai's limited cognition, he does not think that his actions are wrong and hated, and the environment and reality have surpassed his cognition, so he broke the jar and broke it.

As for his low salary of 2,000, is it because he is self-motivated, is it good to be content with the status quo? It's just that he doesn't have a city in his chest, so he shouldn't say that, he should say that I want to work hard and have a better life with my wife and children, that's what she thinks. As for me, a boy should earn more than a girl.

That's right, that's how society requires boys, and those who earn less than their wives and can't hold their heads up at home will be ridiculed by others. It's just that he doesn't have a city government and talks nonsense, which makes people feel disrespectful to women. It's better to say it directly, for example, I earn less now, wife, don't dislike me, be a coquette.

The big husband can bend and stretch. As for guarding against Guan Tao, he is a man, and his wife is not happy to get close to other men. And he also supports happiness with the money to buy a computer and a lucky rent.

How to say it, one of the main reasons why Wang Qinglai is like this now is the gap, many times the change of people is because of the gap, when he was in the village, he was a good worker, everyone knows the good boy, but now he is not as angry as people everywhere in the city, if he has no psychological change, it would be strange. Let's think like this, many times if there is no benign feedback to do something, people's fighting spirit and desire will be worn out, Wang Qinglai is very unlucky, he does not have a good platform, he is always mixed with a group of crooked melons and cracked dates, and there is not enough knowledge and insight to support him to go on, this is the real situation of Wang Qinglai.

So I can really understand him, he himself is not highly educated, and his ideas are easily influenced. He has always wanted to rely on his younger brother and his parents have always said that his younger brother has found an old man who is an official, so everything in the family must be given to his younger brother, so that in the future, his younger brother will bring the family up, and Qinglai will naturally feel that his younger brother should repay himself when he enters the city. And he himself only likes farming, he is so inferior when he enters the city, and he sees that happiness can be appreciated by Guan Tao and do better and better, he has no direction if he wants to work hard.

Understandable. He has little knowledge in the countryside, and it is obviously not feasible to use the knowledge of the countryside to deal with the affairs and work in the city. In terms of the relationship between husband and wife, it is indeed afraid that his wife will not be able to catch up with him too much, so he will have all kinds of emotions.

Personally, I can understand it, I think he is just too simple, and the span from the countryside to the city makes him a little complacent.

Actually, I can understand it, because the words of a rural person are used in the countryside, and after he returns to the countryside, he will change back to what he used to be.

If a person's vanity is too strong, it will not only hurt the people who have helped him, but also his own work and family will be affected, which will not only make the people who help him be criticized by their superiors, but also make themselves looked down upon by colleagues and friends.

At the beginning, I always thought that Wang Qinglai was a more honest and responsible person, and when I hadn't entered the city yet, I liked him very much. Because although he is cowardly, he does not have any bad intentions, and can set off the image of the bad guy of the Wan heirloom family at that time, but since he entered the city, he has publicized everywhere that he relied on his relationship to find this job, therefore, it seems that he is particularly vain document, and he also arranges some bad words behind his back, and the person who once helped him becomes an official will not recognize his six relatives, in short, people like him make everyone not have a good impression of him, and they also look down on him very much. <>

A person's vanity is too strong, which will lead to this person dying to save face and suffer crimes, socks Wang Qinglai privately agreed to his colleague's request, promised to help his colleague's younger brother find a job into the public security system, but he has no ability to help himself, and he also needs to turn to others for help, it can be said that it is really a swollen face and a fat man, for such a person, in the end, if he can't do things, he will let his colleagues look down on jokes, it is better to be honest and do his duty. <>

The most important thing to be a man is to be honest and trustworthy, he has no ability, but he has a strong vanity, such a person is the most despised, he has no ability, and he goes everywhere to promote his special greeting file. Maybe showing off yourself just wants to be complimented by others, longing for others to recognize our own abilities, and using words to fill the emptiness and inadequacy in our hearts, such a person often proves that the more he promotes, the more he proves that he lacks what he is suing him, so don't be a vain person, always pay attention to the darkness in our hearts. Because if we don't work our own, we will never be at ease.