When a man reaches middle age and has a relationship outside of marriage, what are the best results?

The best outcome is to divorce your wife, then live with your lover, or cut off the relationship with your lover, and then go back to apologize to your wife and live well with your wife.

The best outcome is to cut off all relationships with the person who has an extramarital relationship, return to the family, and live well with your children and wife.

You will be divorced by a woman, the other party will leave you, your wife will choose to forgive you, will give you a chance to mend your ways, and will let you choose freely.

These women who are unhappy in their marriages have long-term disagreements with their husbands. I always feel that there is a lack of a man around me who can listen to me. So even if she is in marriage, she will inevitably feel lonely and lonely, and the only person who can understand her mood is a married man.

Naturally, men are the same, these wives don't understand the mentality, he will also choose to tell other women, but when the two meet together in daily life, the emotions of warming each other will make them slowly get closer to each other, and they will always inevitably enter each other's lives later.

Middle-aged and elderly men are basically more stable in their jobs, and they also have wives and children, so they will think that their future can go to the next level, and they will not be willing to live in the current situation, and middle-aged men and women have been working in society for many years, and they will also have some network resources and work experience. Middle-aged and elderly men will very much want a woman who can be good for their work, help him release pressure, and help him succeed, and with this kind of woman for a long time, it is inevitable to have feelings for her, which may lead to "disloyalty".

This is also in opposition to the old idea, but it has similarities with the electromagnetic field of "opposites attract, and similarities repel". One person loves to quarrel and quarrel, and the other person has always avoided it; With one person who loves to quarrel and quarrel, and the other person keeps arguing until it is more fierce, which of these two couples' love business building is stable and which is unstable.

Many women are empathetic to men when they are not married, but once they are married, they become goddesses and empress dowagers of Cixi, so that men have no status and self-esteem at home, and even cannot find a sense of worth, superiority and pride. In the long run, they will see their home as a prison and a prison cell, from which they may find new emotional sustenance, and infidelity may be inevitable.

When people reach middle age, men are very prone to extramarital affairs, most of them are men who are not willing, or men who are under great mental pressure, and men whose wives often nag, these men will release their pressure through such behavior.

When a man has an extramarital affair, he will meet his best friend's partner, colleagues, and girls he used to like, and the opposite sex around him.

People who look particularly weak on the outside, people who know how to show weakness, people who are particularly thoughtful, and people who are particularly temperamental.

It is because men at this time will complain and be unwilling to live and complain about their wives and children.

Because he has a successful career, money and power in his hands, he can't recognize himself clearly.

When a middle-aged man has an extramarital affair, that lover is either a mutual friend or a colleague.

Colleagues who get along day and night, neighbors next door, and childhood sweethearts of the opposite sex, are generally these acquaintances.

My girlfriends, female colleagues in men's companies, and classmates who used to have a good impression of me, I think the probability of these acquaintances is relatively large.

and some of the more good-looking, and some of the more vain, and some of the more gentle and understanding women.

A young and beautiful woman, a passionate and bold woman, a woman who can give considerate care to men, a woman who can help men in her career, and a confident woman.

A young and beautiful, bold and passionate woman; A woman who can give men considerate care; A woman who can help a man in her career.

This is the lack of a sense of responsibility for the family, and the lack of love for the wife, both of which will have extramarital affairs.

First, the wife's praise, second, the wife's discipline, third, the sense of family responsibility, fourth, responsibility, and fifth, a good mood.

Is there still love in the world of middle-aged men? Yes, but the premise of love is: Is this love suitable for me?

After weighing the pros and cons, either take this love and love it well; Either give up this love and be well.

The marriage and love of middle-aged men are very clear.

It's hard to have a clear definition of love.

If marriage is something that must be experienced sooner or later, then one important point will be considered: is the person who walks into marriage hand in hand really suitable for himself? As for love, it is better if you love one another; If you don't love enough but other aspects can complement each other, you can also marry first and then cultivate your relationship.

This order of "marriage before love", if you can complete a satisfactory marriage, it is not undesirable, of course, there is also a risk - the possibility of never being able to fall in love with each other.

This kind of operation is more rational than those who want to love but have no bread but are happy to enter into marriage, when bread defeats love, there is only a hard time left to cry and boil.

And, listen, there is a saying that people often hang on their lips: those who love each other are not necessarily suitable for marriage, and those who are suitable for marriage are not necessarily in love. Most of those who loved each other to death and lived have parted ways and become profound passers-by.

And those who have their own reservations and get along tepidly eventually enter into marriage, and have a happy marriage and a successful career.

From this point of view, the process of getting along will also accumulate affection to some extent.

If you always put love first, marriage or love is often very tiring.

Maybe the middle-aged uncle is thinking that this friend is suitable for falling in love and not suitable for marriage. And he is already at the age when he should get married, if he spends more energy and energy on a selfless "old and young love" with this friend, it is better to talk about a rational love affair of "about the same age" calmly.

When middle-aged people fall in love, when they reach the stage of talking about marriage, they will become preoccupied, far less simple than love or not, marriage and non-marriage, because, whether it is a middle-aged person who has not experienced marriage or a second marriage, this age makes people very realistic and smart, so it is better to be "rare and confused".

Middle-aged people fall in love, especially for two people who are married for the second time, it is indeed a test, because forgetting the past is tantamount to betrayal, although the past marriage hurt him and her, but when facing marriage again, it seems to reopen the scars, and that pain will definitely affect the marriage that is going on now. In the face of remarriage, most of them are fearful and hesitant because of fear.

Maybe there will be true love, I don't think it's a generalization, whether there is or not may vary from person to person.

How to know can be hard.

But if one day you encounter great difficulties, he can help you wholeheartedly, and he may really like you.

It may be because some middle-aged men may have experienced a lot of things, and they are already veterans of hemp in the love field and have rich experience, so they will perform better.

Some middle-aged men, if they don't have rich experience, have a relatively plain life, don't have many contacts, and don't have much affection, they may not behave very well.

That's why I say it varies from person to person.