My girlfriend and I didn t go to college in the same place

1. Everyone has their own loneliness and unpredictable encounters.

2. I believe that she loves you, but it is as uncomfortable as dragging the pain forward.

3, what is unforgettable is often in youth, but when the reality shines into the heart, it feels so ridiculous.

4. Give up or persevere, tell yourself that you have never regretted it; Whether you have it or say goodbye, remind yourself that the scenery is still beautiful.

5. In fact, if you give up, you will make yourself bruised, and persistence may be a kind of painful happiness.

6. Don't ask her what she thinks if she wants to.

You're overly worried, a short period of time is unavoidable, since you've been together for so long, you need to manage this relationship well, it's all slowly flattening, and the most important thing is your mentality, thinking too much will affect you.

If you know for sure that you're not in the same city, you're not in the same school, and you don't want to make concessions, then you can only prepare for a long-distance relationship.

People who love each other but can't stay together, they can't hug each other when they want to stare at each other, and they can't experience joys and sorrows together. But for the sake of love, although it is bitter in a different place, there are still people who are willing to eat. If the love between the two is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight?

Full love is about experiencing each other's joys and sorrows together. Therefore, if you want to keep a long-distance relationship fresh, you need to experience the joys, sorrows and sorrows of each other.

The best way to do this is to expose yourself and share with each other.

What is Self-Exposure?

According to the "Theory of Social Infiltration": "Self-exposure is central to the development of relationships, and the higher the degree of self-exposure, the higher the level of intimacy between relationships." "When you expose yourself, your significant other will get to know you more and your intimacy will come closer.

Not only that, but when chatting at ordinary times, you should also plan more about where to go to play and what to eat when you meet, and have a common good plan. Establish more visions and fantasies for the future for your partner, and raise the expectations and aspirations of the other person to integrate into your life.

In fact, it is not difficult to have a long-distance relationship, after establishing a vision, planning the future, and setting a deadline, the two people will make unremitting efforts in one direction.

In this way, I believe that you can survive a few years of suffering in a different place, and after that, the hardships will come willingly, and you will eventually become a family!

Summary. Hello, there are two situations, first, your girlfriend is reluctant to announce the relationship for the sake of study or some fame. Second, she may not really identify with you in her heart.

Hello, do you want to ask your girlfriend what she thinks?

Hello, there are two situations, first, your brother buries his girlfriend in order to study or some reputation and is reluctant to announce the relationship. Second, she may not really believe that she is selling you in her heart.

It is. Do you want to change the couple's avatar with him? He asked me to pick at first.,After the first disturbance of the book 2 days later, he scattered and said that he was afraid that his family would know and said that it was not good-looking.,I suspect that there is someone he likes in the address book and doesn't let me know.,Once the couple avatar is changed.。

Then he's far away from the person he likes, right?

He also mentioned to me that you mean that you are not afraid of going out with other boys?

There is a possibility you said, but don't be too subjective, you can test her first, are you in middle school or college?

One time I tested him, and asked him to send it directly to his girlfriend friend who was more good-looking, and I said that I was not familiar with it, and it was useless to add it, so he added it and was not familiar? Gaenai got acquainted with chatting and said I was a stranger. Knowing that I was angry and called my husband again, Chang Shu's WeChat was blocked by me, and he sent a text message to say it.

Is your girlfriend cheerful? She can let you add her best friend Wei Sen Mingxin, why don't you want to change the relationship between the two of you? This one is really worth thinking about.

Your suspicions are not unreasonable, she may be afraid that the person he likes will see it, or you are not Wu Ye is the best choice she thinks is right now, and she is still waiting for the best choice to appear.

Summary. Hello, there is really no need to redeem, because from the words to the behavior, it can be said that there is really no feeling, otherwise the girl will not bear to see her boyfriend feel sorry for herself, and the baby and daughter-in-law are no longer intimate titles, this kind of problem will never be solved, a lifetime of decades, has been wronged or compromised, your parents will also feel distressed.

My girlfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, there are more than a month together in the middle, I don't live together, she is in college, I and her have been at the beginning because there will always be ambiguous feelings about her because there will always be the opposite sex in her life, I will send her a baby, daughter-in-law wait for an intimate name, I told him that he can have friends of the opposite sex but you must know to control the distance, we quarrel basically I am mentioning, the problem has always been this problem, but from the beginning to the present I raised this question, she will choose to remain silent, I will not reply to the long story,At first, I didn't reply to me at night after I finished speaking.,The next day we won't mention this matter.,We said we wouldn't be angry overnight.,I also mentioned breaking up a few times halfway.,Her attitude is that it doesn't matter.,Later I apologized to me.,Hastily.,After the beginning of the year,She was in Kuaishou live broadcast before.,I also have attention.,Often go to the live broadcast room.,There will be some people who privately find me to swear the initiative with me.,Whatever,I scolded directly.,And then calmly asked her about the situation, she didn't say.,She never had to announce my existence in the life circle., Today I am the same as usual, she sent her a message to me and told me that I broke up and I have a recovery, but she does not enter the oil and salt, hello, there is really no need to recover, because from between the lines to the behavior, it can be said that there is really no feeling, otherwise the girl will not bear to see her boyfriend feel sorry for herself, and the baby and daughter-in-law are no longer intimate titles, this kind of problem will never be solved, a lifetime of decades, has been wronged or compromised, your parents will also feel distressed.

But I really can't let go, I want to try, I want to fight for it, it doesn't matter if I succeed or not, I don't want to leave regrets in my life, just like I started my own business, although I didn't succeed, but I won't regret it if I work hard, isn't it, the teacher can help me.

Fight for it once now, and break up for the same reason next time, will you have no regrets next time?

In this relationship, you have always been working hard.

If there is hope, I will change my way of communication, maybe it will be different, it is not easy to meet someone, it is a pity to miss it.

It's too much, that is, you have been ambiguous with others, as long as you still have a nominal relationship?

She also has hard work, although she didn't play much, but she did pay for this relationship, if I could fight for it, I would give up everything now and go to her side to accompany him, I have too little time to spend with her.

But now I really don't love it, and I don't want to give it, even if I don't love it, I reluctantly accept your kindness, but now I don't want to accept your kindness.

.Since you love her, you have to learn:

1. Trust. (Trust each other, not be suspicious.) ）

2.Candid. (One day you do something that you think he or she will be angry about, tell him or her honestly).

3.Tolerance. (Anyone can make mistakes, forgive each other when they sincerely admit their mistakes, and don't stare at them).

4.Understand. (He or she may give you a few times a day** or send you a few messages, but if he or she doesn't contact you for a day or more, please don't be angry, be understanding, because everyone can't run for love all day and there will be other things).

5.Space. (Leave some space for each other, there are two kinds of people in the world, men and women, so a person can't have only one kind of friend).

6.Treasure. (It is not easy to know that meeting is fate and love, cherish this hard-won relationship, don't just check the call records of each other's mobile phones when two meet, cherish the time to tell each other what you miss, time will soon be lost).

7.Miss. (Think about the other person, tell him to wear more when it's cold; When he and she are busy, tell him: pay attention to your body, you have been with him and her, and you have been thinking about him and her! ）

8.Pay attention (every time she, he sends you a message, hit ** don't care, no matter how busy you are, reply to messages, be patient with her, he chats for a few minutes because of her, he hopes you can always think about and care about her, he, just like she, he thinks and cares about you) If you see this log, then send a message to tell her, he misses her, him! Don't say that you can't put it down, because, in love, two people don't need to win or lose, right or wrong, noble and humble.

Is that right.

Since love is first and foremost about trusting each other, if there is no trust, even if we meet every day, we will break up unhappily.

The main thing about long-distance relationships is trust, and if you can't trust each other, then separate.