My girlfriend of 5 years has a relationship with another guy and what should I do 20

Let you go through such a test at such a young age From this nearly 700 words, you can understand your pain! I have a basic understanding of the general situation... lz, I advise you to let her go, it's good for you!

Maybe you think I'm very direct and don't understand why the current situation has actually caused a shadow in your heart, if you continue to be together, you must have a lot of thoughts, and you won't go back to the very pure feelings before, and the relationship may not have a better development! It can be seen that LZ is a very infatuated boy, yes, 5 years is indeed a precious time, but LZ, have you ever thought that if she says to you in another 5 years, "He's back, let's break up", it means that you have to bear the pressure of abandoning your 10-year relationship?! Is it worth it?

Do you dare to continue to give more to her? Do you dare to make such a bet? I don't dare to say for sure, because I don't know what kind of person she is, but the only thing that can be said is that she is quite a selfish woman!

I don't know how you've come over in the past 5 years, she casually said that she broke up... And the reason turned out to be that the conditions are better than yours, and you have a future Finally, I would like to advise lz, don't be too persistent, let her go. Establish your own new outlook on life and goals, work hard for your own career, and enrich yourself!

Big brother, a woman is very realistic, you can give everything for her, but she doesn't care about everything for you, so what's the use of your paying? Is it worth it?

The prince of Beijing makes sense, top, zxslx521 you have to understand what he said,,, if your girlfriend is not firm after hearing these words, then I will say it, this kind of woman is unacceptable, a grass-like woman on the wall, as a man, I know the consequences of asking for this kind of woman, I hope you think twice.

Forget it, long pain is better than short pain boss.

Obviously, you's girlfriend is half-hearted about the relationship. Not a qualified partner for you and herCommunicate, and if the other person is not willing to give up the idea of socializing with others, then you want to end the relationship.

In emotional life, this kind of half-hearted and interacting with other people in emotional interactions is to be resolutely opposed and rejected. This shows that the other party is not pursuing a partner with the attitude of looking for a partner at all. Engage in a relationship with such a person of the opposite sex, if the other person does not change it.

It will only hurt yourself.

Your girlfriend doesn't have a single-minded attitude towards relationships.

In the current situation, your girlfriend will definitely not have a single-minded attitude towards feelings. Her current practice is not a qualified dating partner at all. It doesn't take into account your feelings.

For this situation, you must not be silent, choose to compromise, think that if you love each other more, your girlfriend will feel your sincerity, and she will reduce her contact with the opposite sex. Emotional problems can only be dealt with through communication and exchange. <>

Communicate and talk to him about this issue.

So when you find out about this problem, be sure to calm your mind. Don't use negative emotions to influence the other person in communication. You have to make your thoughts clear to the other party, communicate calmly, it is best not to be thunderous, if your mood is not good, the girl's attention will shift from things to your attitude towards her, and the communication efficiency between the two will be greatly reduced, which will lead to things becoming more complicated and troublesome.

If the other person is unwilling to change, you want to end the relationship.

If in the communication with you, your girlfriend is unwilling to admit this kind of thing and refuses to change, then you personally should not pay too much attention to this relationship, your girlfriend is not willing to change herself for the emotional relationship between the two, then you have attachment to this relationship, it is a kind of harm to yourself. A peaceful breakup may be the best way to go. <>

Choosing to break up, there is no need for such a girlfriend to continue, there is a problem in the relationship between the two people, and there is no way to solve it.

In the relationship, if the girlfriend you just dated is still having an affair with another person, I advise you to break off such feelings as soon as possible. Avoid causing more damage later.

Let me start by saying, please don't hurt yourself. It is useless to punish others by hurting themselves. I understand you very well because you are a generous and gentle woman who wants to let go with love.

It's that man who is too much, if he leaves well, then you won't be so depressed, right?

Now your anger is not because you love him, not because he left you, but because he left in the same way that he is playing with you, so you are unwilling, you want to destroy them, but I tell you that it is not advisable. Why is he like this after you have been together for 5 years? Look at his current virtues, is he still worthy of your love?

It's not worth it. Since it is not worth it, can he still be guilty of doing illegal things for him?

When a man is determined to leave, keep insisting and he will see you as a thorn in his side. From the qualities you describe about them, I can know that they will not last long, believe me. So you don't have to worry now, just wait and see, I believe that even if they get married, it won't last long.

Because it's determined by human nature.

Isn't robbing such a man a blessing from God? You're not married, so it's better. If you get married, you can't wait to get a divorce.

Men are just cheap. The more you keep him, the more arrogant he becomes. You might as well disappear from his sight forever, and I'm sure he'll miss you in a while.

At that time, please be firm, ignore him, and don't forgive anymore. Forgiveness is sometimes a bad decision, and of course it varies from person to person.

I've had a similar experience to you, and now I'm just glad that he's quick to be negative, otherwise we wouldn't have found a better one! Such a man, the farther away the better, do you still think it's a treasure?? Let them show off.

It doesn't matter, from this you can see that they are superficial and ridiculous. Isn't it just a rich woman? As a man, it's shameful enough.

It's not secretly hidden, but it's still shown to the public, it's not too ugly!!

Don't hate, it's him who will regret it later. It is recommended that you disappear from now on, don't bother him, he will be lost after he is happy, people are just a little cheap, this can't be helped. Then you make yourself more glamorous, don't be sad, be happy that he's gone, that's what you have to do.

I hope you can come out soon, there is a wider world outside!

Let's leave early. Looking for new happiness. There are a lot of good men waiting for you in the world. Hi me when you're free.

Don't insult yourself with this kind of man, live better than him, and treat him as air.

Woman, why bother yourself like this...Although this is your subjective description, I believe your claim very much (except for the statement of collusion and premeditation), alas....Feelings are the most illogical thing in the world, and there is no fairness to say, only whether you want to or not. You have done so much for him in the past, and you were willing, so you don't care about any gains and losses, because you love him. Now that so much has happened, you look back and realize how ridiculous you are, how disappointed you are by the way he you loved, how deeply it hurts you, how insults you have inflicted on your dignity, and how much it has tarnished your love.

So the grievances and unwillingness that were buried by you in the past broke out, so your hatred for him overwhelmed your love. In fact, if you could really "let go" as you said when he was going to break up, everything would be clear now, but you didn't, that was your way to back down (of course, there was love and tolerance for him). That's why there are so many cases of love in today's society, that is, love is distorted into hate.

Many people who embark on this path regret it, regret their impulsiveness, and regret making such a mistake, after all, it is the person they have loved or are still loving! So think about it, you just see him as a dead person (whether he deserves to be like that for him, how can his current woman be like this, etc., and other questions are no longer important, because that's all in the past), friends will laugh when they mention your past, so that they are really calm and clear, just like talking about an old friend, and a consensus will slowly form among friends: you don't care about him now, his quality has nothing to do with you, and you are not bothered by the unhappiness of the past.

In this way, your dignity and face are back, and your friends will praise you from the bottom of their hearts for your big belly, and even regret the loss of such a celebrity for him Understand? Such a woman is a real woman, and you will find your new happiness

Leaving silently, he didn't feel it. Maybe one day he'll think of you

Hehe, if you break up, stop harassing others, you brought it on yourself.

The world is unpredictable, and this reward should be paid to the woman. I thought that all the pain in the world had to be borne by men. This man did the right thing, if I hated him as much as I did at the beginning, then it wasn't me who was hurt now, and I didn't need to lick my wounds alone in the night.

You should find time to ask her, and if you already know that she loves more than you, it is best to ask who she loves.

If she doesn't know that you find out that she loves more than you, don't expose her on the spot, because she'll lose face.

She doesn't tell you, it's because she's afraid you'll get hurt, so she's hiding it, but you should know that she doesn't just love you, so you can ask her tactfully.

As for whether to break up or not, it's up to you to look at it as a whole. If you don't break up, you've already spent a lot of money in this relationship, and if you continue, you'll spend more money, and you'll see if it's worth it.

If you say you can't stand her loving you and other men at the same time, then you shouldn't continue to invest your money and time because it hurts.

If you talk about breaking up, can you let her go completely? If not, you will become a captive of love, giving forever, but not in return.

As for the amount of money she spent on you, it can only be said that love can be very expensive, and you can recover some of the money from her.

Break up put. Because if you don't divide it, she will still use your money in the future, then it will be a bottomless pit.

Besides, this kind of flowery woman is a shame for our female compatriots.

Think about the long term, just rely on you "if you say break up, she spent a lot of money on you, and you can say more than half of your savings".

It's as if you don't have any real feelings.

It's that they don't have any real feelings for each other!

It's all good to divide it.

It's better to divide it, and the money is being earned.

I think there's something wrong with your mentality.

Do you think the factor that determines your breakup with your girlfriend is the issue of money?

Hehe, it's ridiculous.

Since you feel sorry for money, why were you with her in the first place?

Whether you break up or not, it depends on whether you still have feelings for her. Got it?

This is called splitting legs, I advise you to break up with her Such a girl is not worth cherishing.

Breaking up may be a better option.

It's better to break up, if he loves you, it won't be like that.

Break up and spend more and more of your money.

Let's break up. Such a woman can't want ...

The judgment is the judgment.

Let's break up. Money can be earned back.

I don't even know my mother.

Then he showed a cold expression to his girlfriend in a chic manner.

t Played with someone else's woman herself.