Is it poisonous chicken soup that has caused China s older leftover women and a wave of divorce?

It's not like that, most of today's women are financially independent and independent, and they feel that there is no need to be attached to marriage and rely on men to support them.

The wave of older leftover women and divorces in China is not caused by poisonous chicken soup, there are many other reasons.

The awareness of equality between men and women is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and modern women's self-consciousness and self-recognition are rising, and they will not rely on marriage and men to seek social recognition.

It's not that the poisonous chicken soup has created such a result, but the poisonous chicken soup has revealed part of the facts.

Drinking too much poisonous chicken soup can easily have some bad effects on our psychology. But it doesn't matter if you drink a little in moderation. Drinking too much poisonous chicken soup may cause some people to become idealistic and overly demanding of love.

As a result, I don't want to get married and become an older leftover girl. However, how much poisonous chicken soup you drink will not have much impact on your marriage. It seems to be living in a fairy tale world, without any scientific basis and time**. For example, "To love someone is to give without hesitation, no matter how the other person treats you." This sentence is really a bit brain-dead, love needs two people to work together, if the other party has no meaning to you, no matter how much you pay, it will be in vain.

If in the process of getting along with two people, it has always been a one-sided effort by one person, there will inevitably be problems over time. Everyone has their own emotions, but the ability to control them is big and small, it's just different. Some people say that they are short-tempered and born like this.

Imagine who doesn't have a temper, who should be born with a temper tantrum by the other party, but with high self-control and literacy, can tolerate a little more, and is willing to pay a little more for love. Respect is the most basic premise for two people to get along.

I've crossed countless bridges, seen clouds in the sky, and drunk the strongest wine, but that's not my luck. The happiest thing for me is that I met the right person at the most beautiful age. Since then, I have devoted my life to you, even if the catastrophe is irreversible, even if the lovesickness is in the bones, I still treat you as before.

No, chicken soup is not everywhere, otherwise how could it not change the values of Chinese men? Mainly with the improvement of women's social status, whether in the workplace or in school, girls are very good, and their own value has been realized, so they are no longer dependent on men as before, so there will be the so-called older leftover women and divorce tide.

No matter how poisonous the chicken soup is, if it can't stand it, there are men who do it. Otherwise, the woman will point to it and say, "Honey, it's good to have you".

Money is the main reason for the high divorce rate, because money is greater than love.

Nowadays, many women think that princess disease is female independence.

It's still a bit ideal. Realistic women are not easy to deceive.

It's not that most of the leftover men and women are living to understand that I really envy them.

Poisonous chicken soup is not the cause of the phenomenon of older leftover women and divorces. I think it's because people have a higher pursuit of feelings. That's why there will be a wave of divorces and older leftover women.

Yes, many people now blindly want to live a fairy tale life, but often fairy tale life is difficult to obtain, just want to blindly harvest, and do not want to pay, that is not advisable.

No. The tide of divorce and the emergence of older leftover women are mainly due to the changes of the times and economic development, which have made women more confident to choose the life they want.

No, the reason why there is a wave of older leftover women and divorces is mainly because people's life values have changed to a certain extent, and in the case of continuous social progress, people's requirements for the quality of life are getting higher and higher.

Part of the reason is that many people's marriages and relationships are not going well, and they feel justified after watching the poisonous chicken soup, so it slowly affects their psychology.

Since the rise of self-a**, Chicken Soup has also started a new level, and even affected the marriages of countless people. For example, on countless ***, the published articles have guided women to be proud queens, goddesses, and masters of life, although it is to persuade women to be independent, but once women are formed with such thoughts, it leads to the separation of marriage. However, there are also rumors that so many divorces are also due to the reason of chicken soup and Wenduo, is that so?

Let's take a look at the ideas and don'ts first.

Don't read the chicken soup text, run the family well

After women get married, many women will also work, but for the family, they will pay more attention to the family. If you don't read the chicken soup article, maybe you have been living happily with your husband, and you won't care about whether you really pay more in life, or you feel that your husband is not using these. And I don't have too many requirements for myself, and even feel that my life is already very happy, and I won't care about too many women's independence.

Although it will pay a lot, but in general, life is relatively stable.

After reading the chicken soup text, the woman who also took action

There is a saying that the pressure is all self-made. And Chicken Soup Wen is the source of guiding pressure, and many women are guided from Chicken Soup Text, which leads to the crazy pursuit of their own ability and independence. But once you leave these separate views on marriage, you will find that the more you pursue, the more you will not necessarily be happy in your marriage.

Because when the gap between the two is too big, there will be disagreements.

The road of chicken soup for older leftover women

How to distinguish between poisonous chicken soup and positive energy chicken soup is the most important thing, everyone must be sober-minded and don't be brought in casually. Instead of reading chicken soup texts, it is better to read some books, read too many chicken soup texts, and delay your life, which is not cost-effective at all. Just follow the path you want to take, and you don't need to pursue things that are beyond your ability.

Not necessarily, there may be a small part of the reason, but I don't think most of the reason is caused by the poisonous chicken soup. According to data released by the National Bureau of Statistics and the Ministry of Civil Affairs, in 2018, the number of marriage registrations nationwide was 10.18 million, and the marriage rate was the lowest since 2013.

While the marriage rate has declined for five consecutive years, the divorce rate has risen for 15 consecutive years.

The development of the network, the increase in the amount of information, and the diversification of information carriers have led to the deterioration of information quality. In particular, the ** class, with the traditional concept, has a high credibility on TV, which makes most new netizens feel the authenticity of **. It's really not about education.

For most women, people always feel that their marriage is optional. Why? Because men and women have different happiness about marriage.

Women have great hopes for marriage. They want to be princesses and queens and enjoy all kinds of love from their husbands. But this is not the original marriage, so there are losses and resentments.

Perhaps now, this should be the life that most men expect.

The other is the rise of women's self-consciousness; On the one hand, with the gradual improvement of education level, women have the economic power equal to or even higher than that of men, and women can live independently without relying on men. In order to fill the empty window of these people's hearts, poisonous chicken soup came into being. Blame social problems on propaganda orientation, not the other way around.

Summary; China's older leftover women and the tide of divorce mainly depend on their own reasons.

It is not the poisonous chicken soup that has caused the tide of older leftover women and divorces in China, and the poisonous chicken soup can only be regarded as a very small inducement at best.

The causes of this phenomenon have both subjective and objective aspects, and the subjective factors are transferred with our will. Poisonous chicken soup is an obvious subjective factor. Those who have seen and heard the poisonous chicken soup can believe it or not.

You can do it, or you can laugh it off. In the same way, our mentality, our goals in life, can be changed. And objective factors are something we can't change.

With the rapid development of the times, the living environment and lifestyle have undergone tremendous changes, so that we cannot adapt, but we cannot change these, we can only move forward with the wheel of history, maybe keep up, maybe lag behind.

The most important factor for the emergence of this phenomenon in contemporary times is that our society is developing and changing at a high speed, and all people cannot adapt to this high-speed change, and everyone is affected and affected by social changes. For the rapid development of society, we cannot say that it is good or bad.

The wheels of history are rolling forward, and we are only one of the insignificant specimens of dust.

Urbanization is an inevitable end result, a conceivable future, people in the countryside want to go to the city, they will not stay in small towns, they will find that the quality of life in big cities is better, and there are more job opportunities. Humanity will inevitably concentrate in the big cities. Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen represent the highest level of development of China's major cities.

The people who went to Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen earlier occupied a better position, and these people were the makers of the rules of social operation.

Our current policies are often created by big cities like Beijing and Shanghai. It's understandable for people in the city to set the rules for the operation of the city, but in a country where the majority of the population is rural, small towns, I hope to give this group of people more opportunities to speak. In the same way, the poisonous chicken soup was concocted by these "city people" to confuse those who later entered the city.

When looking at the problem, it is recommended to look at the changes in the environment, look at the situation of the people around you, don't hear about it, only what you see is real.

Is there a trend of divorce in China? The causes of these problems are subjective and objective, and can be changed through our personal efforts. Poisonous chicken soup is an obvious subjective factor.

I've heard of poisonous chicken soup. I believe it or not. You can do that, or you can laugh it off in the same way, and our mindsets and life goals can change.

Objective factors are immutable. With the rapid development of the times, the living environment and lifestyle have changed dramatically, making us unable to adaptBut we can't change those things. We can only move forward with the wheel of history, perhaps keeping up with it, perhaps falling behind.

Urbanization, or urbanization, is a social trend that we can foresee, not urbanization. If rural people want to go to the city, they don't stay in small towns. They will find that the quality of life in big cities is better and there are more employment opportunities.

Human beings are inevitably concentrated in big cities, and Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen represent the highest level of development of China's big cities。Some people who came to Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen early occupied a better position. These people are the makers of the rules for the operation of society.

Most of our current laws and regulations are codified by think tanks in Beijing and Shanghai.

There is nothing wrong with the people in the city who should set the rules for the operation of the city, but in our country, the rural population and the population of small towns still make up the majority, and we want to give these people more opportunities to speak in the same wayPoisonous chicken soup was also made by these "city people" to confuse those who later entered the city. When you see a problem, it is advisable to look at the changes in the surrounding environment and the situation of the people around you. Don't listen to them.

Only what you see is real.

Those chicken soups for the soul just make everyone feel a little agreed, and after reading them, they feel empathetic and don't necessarily have to follow suit, and no one will go, because a chicken soup changes their marriage or life, and it is not the culprit that causes China's older leftover women or divorce tide.

It's really like this, poisonous chicken soup is too hypocritical.

I don't think these poisonous chicken soups are the culprit, and people's values are more advanced now.

I guess there's a part, but they're still quite materialistic.

I don't think so, these are just reminders for perfection and introspection.

It's true, these poisonous chicken soups are really harmful.

Some of it is caused by poisonous chicken soup, after all, today's society is very materialistic.

I don't think the role of poisonous chicken soup is very big, it mainly depends on the individual and the environment.

It is not so much that the chicken soup text affects the values, but that the trend of the chicken soup text influenced by people's values, the problem is not in the chicken soup text, but in the social environment.

No, the key depends on what the individual thinks!

Most of the reasons for the wave of older leftover women and divorces are the pursuit of freedom, the pursuit of self, personal supremacy, and just live your own life.

In my eyes, poisonous chicken soup is the cause of the phenomenon of a large number of leftover women and a wave of divorces, and they may indeed be affected by poisonous chicken soup, coupled with the increased social acceptance of this phenomenon.

If there will be very poisonous chicken soup, then it is the main reason for the phenomenon of older leftover women and divorce, many people think that strong leftover women are the main reason for divorce, but the older leftover women have their own pursuits, don't keep saying that the older leftover women will not find a partner, this is a very one-sided idea. The older leftover girl is such a treasure.

Yes, in my eyes, older leftover women and divorce attempts appeared at the same time, and with these older leftover women, they have to get married, and they don't want to wait until they get married, and they also think that marriage is not their dependence in the future, so they will still divorce.

Poisonous chicken soup is not the main reason for the phenomenon of older leftover women and divorce tides. The main reason for the older leftover women is that women are now more independent and have received a higher education, and the requirements for the other half are higher. If you divorce, it's because most of the families are now only children, and then two people don't know how to be humble when they're together.

So the divorce rate is high.