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This is abnormal, whether it is a boy or a girl asking for something from each other, it is abnormal, or hope that love is still pure, don't have an economic component.
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Love is blind.
Usually at this stage, the money for men and women is more ambiguous.
But I still advocate that money must be distinguished, after all, it is not easy for us to make money, isn't it?
Don't be very clear, it will hurt feelings, but be sure to divide it.
You have to tell him what you think, or separate and say you're not a good fit.
And I hate men always mentioning ex-girlfriends, ex-girlfriends this, ex-girlfriends that, okay, you go to your ex-girlfriend, let's 88
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Soft bones are definitely unreliable
are still in love, so they ask you for east and west
I am reluctant to pay for things and I have to find ways to set my girlfriend's money, what about my heart? Is it really all on you?
Try him a few times, if it's still like this
I advise you to put him on board
How can such a person live?
It's impossible for you to raise him in the future, right?
I hope it will be useful to you
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It's not your problem, it's your boyfriend's problem, it's really bad Sometimes you can communicate well.
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Dizzy, he loves you, or your money jacket, I porphyre him once, see what he says,
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There are also such men?
It's so spineless.
Dump him
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Why does my sister get married and ask my family to pay for it, buy 5 money, and buy clothes?
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To borrow the above idea, my brother is also preparing to meet the adults recently.
But I think it's nothing, be polite, be generous, don't be nervous to see a man, just call dad and call mom when you see a woman, that will definitely smash the pot, don't be empty in your hand, fruit, tobacco, wine and tea can be prepared a little, the main thing is to let your girlfriend block you just do!
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Don't be nervous, it's important to treat it as your own home, so you don't need to bring anything, just talk to your parents.
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Bring tea, cigarettes, alcohol, and a smile and politeness. It's like going back to your own home.
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Buy some cigarettes and alcohol for your father-in-law, and don't buy cosmetics for your mother-in-law.
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You don't have to bring anything, but you have to wear a cover
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It depends, there are no rules.
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Depending on how far you have a relationship with her, you can discuss it with your girlfriend when you see your parents, and I think it's best to bring some fruit or something.
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It's okay to put down 100,000 yuan, and you don't have to say anything.
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Just buy some fruit stupid.
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Talk to your girlfriend about what her family wants.
I'm here to bring something.
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Gift money is naturally wanted! The down payment of 400,000 yuan to buy a house, did you give the 400,000 yuan to the woman? No way?
The house is still in your hands! Is the loan of 1.3 million you repaying independently? No way?
After getting married, all the income is considered to be shared by the husband and wife, and the repayment is also half of the repayment by her! Needless to say, the decoration is not used on the woman, but also for the common use of your life! You pay for the banquet, so don't you charge the gift money?
Counting up, you don't give anything to the woman's family except for a car. To put it mildly, people don't have to spend effort and money to educate a daughter? 80,000 is not too much for my daughter!
You're still too calculating! Traditionally, you should have married someone to provide a house and a car, and now you have to pay for the house to get married. Could it be that this house will be consumed in the future?
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It can only show that the man is rich, and he is stingy, and he has spent so much money, would you care about a mere 80,000?
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The first time the woman goes to the man's house, she can buy Pu'er tea, electric toothbrushes, massagers, and clothes.
1. Pu'er tea.
Erh tea can reduce cholesterol and oil, avoid high blood pressure, has a good health care effect, drinking tea and listening to music, not only good for the body, but also the spirit will become happy.
2. Electric toothbrush.
Electric toothbrushes are definitely a good thing to open the door to a new world when you use them, and I was used to all kinds of Amway before I started using electric toothbrushes, and I am not used to ordinary toothbrushes at all after I started using them. Nowadays, basically our younger generation uses electric toothbrushes a little more, so the older generation should not have electric toothbrushes, and it is good to give them as gifts.
3. Massager.
Massager is also a good choice, the elders are old, the body is not as tough as before, often have back pain, send the elders massage chair can relax the muscles and activate the acupoints, massage acupoints, can eliminate fatigue, especially beneficial to health.
4. Clothes. Clothes are relatively better for future mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because women's obsession with clothes is regardless of age, and the clothes bought by children not only satisfy the future mother-in-law's love of beauty, but also satisfy the vanity of the future mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Winter is coming soon, and the elders will not be willing to give themselves a down jacket or coat, which requires you to fulfill the wishes of the elders.
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Tell your boyfriend to buy it, he knows best. It depends on how much if you and your boyfriend are already in the same situation, you can go with your boyfriend and buy a dress for his mom. Buy his dad a cigarette or alcohol or something.
My wife used to be like that. It's all my money. But she received all the thoughts.
They'll be happy that way.
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Buy clothes, don't be too expensive, it's almost OK, tobacco and alcohol are not good for the body, clothes will fully satisfy the vanity of the elderly, there are special points not too expensive, of course, you have to have a little vision. That's what my girlfriend did, hehe!
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Buy something for his parents! For example, if his father likes to smoke and drink, buy some cigarettes and alcohol! Or buy some fruit or something! But in fact, everything to buy is a scene, and parents just want their children to be happy.
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Buy some gifts, girls don't buy cigarettes and alcohol, just good nutrition for their parents.
Thank you politely, just a little look.
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You don't need to buy anything special, just buy a cake or buy a bouquet of flowers for your future mother-in-law.
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It can vary depending on the situation, and the average enlightened family should not argue. It's good for people to arrive, the main thing is to get to know each other ......
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Divide it
What are the responsibilities of men?
Do you dare to entrust your life with a man like this?
It's scary to think about
I'm a man, but I hate men who eat soft rice the most
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It's best to talk about getting married, since you're in a hurry, why don't you ask your boyfriend what can come out of it? Remember that the dowry given to you by your parents is your own business without your boyfriend, and you had better notarize the property rights, and secondly, you must resolutely refuse his unreasonable requests, so as to tell him that he has the ability to earn it himself, don't worry about my family.
I despise this kind of man who cares about his mother-in-law's things the most, and I can't tell whether he is marrying a girl or the girl's property, this kind of man is too spineless.
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This man is so unbelievable.
I think it's the man's business to get married, buy food, house and decorate, and the woman can't take care of it at all. There are also women who want to buy a car, and if they don't want to buy it, they won't buy it, which is completely free.
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The two of you are about to enter the palace of marriage, and when I hear you say this, I think this man has nothing to do. What attracted you to him in the first place. Your attitude towards spending money proves that you are a good girl who will get by.
Other men would think you'd be a treasure, but he didn't. This is a matter of perception, it is not formed in a day, and the old people used to say"Marriage should be the right person"I used to think that this was outdated, but as I got older, I felt that it still made sense. The two have different living environments, which makes them have different views on anything and deal with it differently.
Slowly comprehend) In the future life together, there will be friction and disputes. Marriage is a happy thing, and being able to live with the person you love is so distressing for me. It doesn't seem to be asking"Is it right for a man to ask a woman for something?"Instead, it brings up all the problems that the two of you are getting along with.
Little sister, you must ask your heart before you get married!
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He is not doing well now, have you ever thought about what will happen to your parents when they are old or sick and need you to be careful and fulfill their support obligations? And like you said, the combined salary of the two of you is about 2,000 per month, and he wants a famous brand and a car to squander, and he doesn't want to make money and just wants to take money from the old man, I don't think this kind of man is reliable.
Landlord, be rational.
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You're choking on this boyfriend!
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This man is really choking.
Write your name on the real estate deed, you agree to decorate, when we got married, his parents didn't say a word to get the house all right, but we added furniture.
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Are you planning to live your life, or do you want to buy something and spare something!
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Such a man really has to think twice about marrying him. What exactly is he with you for, does she love you? A man who is so stingy, selfish, and vain will also be angry and suffer if he follows him in the future.
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You have to think about such a person, can you entrust it for life?
It's still time to think about it! A lifelong event, sloppy must not be !!
Watching TV last night, the bride was the "runaway bride" on the wedding day!
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The woman's family should take something, but the man above is too much, and it's really a shame for us men to despise him!
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Man: How could this be.
It's yours, and it's inconvenient to say anything.
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This question is not very precise, the area is too large. I'll try to say it as comprehensively as possible, but it's my experience.
The man's parents should prepare the house and decoration, and the woman's home should prepare household appliances. But now many houses and electrical appliances are bought by men, of course, it depends on the economic conditions of both parties.
The next thing is for the man to find a car, install a float, find a band, paste the word "happy", buy jewelry for the woman, buy clothes for the woman, and book a hotel ......
The woman is the place to buy clothes, cosmetics, do ** care, wedding dresses and makeup ......That's probably it. Always busy, always feeling like it wasn't done until the first day of marriage.
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It's so troublesome, it's still not over.
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Men buy houses, and children buy the rest.
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It mainly depends on the number of times you go, if you don't bring it more than once a month, if you go every day, you don't need to bring it.
Actually, it's okay not to bring it, it's just not good-looking. If you have the ability, you don't have the ability.
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No, you don't. But the first time you have to bring it.
There are also festivals, birthdays, etc.
It depends on whether you have a heart or not.
Treat other people's girls with sincerity.
They will see.
It's more important than a gift.
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During the Chinese New Year, you have to bring something and make a red envelope. The first time I want to give more, it shows that I attach importance to her family.
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There is no rule for this, but in order to please the future mother-in-law, it is also necessary to bring something, and it is also to show their sincerity. If you're afraid of spending money, go less often.
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It's natural for girls to like to receive gifts from boys.
It's like it's natural for girls to go shopping and dress up, and boys like to care about national affairs.
If a man and a woman fall in love, the girl blindly asks the boy for something is not a sign of self-respect, and the boy can refuse. Because it's a boy's right!
Unless it's a boy who willingly gives a girl a gift!
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The nature of a woman, but if it's too often, you have to think about it, maybe not like the man, you like the material comforts he gives.
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It's complicated: to explore the bottom of the family is to want things to see if you are sincere.
Still, it's uncomfortable, isn't it?
If it's introduced by a person, ask the matchmaker. This kind of behavior makes people feel too insecure, and they can't ask for gifts every day when the two of them are really together in the future!
Hard-earned money is not copied!
Buying a house before marriage is personal property before marriage, and buying a house after marriage is the joint property of the husband and wife. [Not a professional, FYI, but remember the bounty and oh].