Mother Jia likes Lin Daiyu so much, why doesn t she agree to the marriage of Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu

The door is not right, the household is wrong, and Xue Baochai was also one of the four major families at that time, so if there is a better choice, he will naturally not agree to this marriage, and most of the marriages of the children of big families are married like this.

Because Lin Daiyu's health is not good, she is very weak, and the people in Jiafu are thin, so she did not agree to their marriage.

Because compared with Lin Daiyu, who is crying and crying, and her personality is not likable, Mother Jia prefers the cheerful and generous Xue Baochai.

Love that stands up to opposition is true love. can see the determination of true love between the two parties. In fact, the future is in your own hands.

The reason for Bao Dai's emotional tragedy lies in Baoyu's experience and experience with Daiyu. It can be seen from the relationship between Baoyu and Daiyu that Baoyu does not have the strength and courage to save Jiafu, and Daiyu does not have the ability to help Baoyu and the Jia family. How could someone who even had to arrange his own feelings lead the Jia family through the catastrophe?

I'm afraid it's a joke.

The emotional entanglement between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu involves too many sensitive issues and family relationships, so they can't be hastily agreed.

Although Jia Mu had a certain status at that time, she had no real power, and the housekeeping power in her hands had already been delegated, and she was not very able to call the shots in the financial and personnel powers of the house.

In the entire Jia Mansion, only Lin Daiyu is the granddaughter of Jia's mother, and Jia's mother is related by blood, Jia is Jia's mother's two sons died on the battlefield, and the others are all refuge, and in the end, the foreign population killed the suzerain.

Because the author changed after forty times.

Jia Baoyu did not marry Lin Daiyu not because he didn't love him, but because of the pressure of the family and the constraints of feudal etiquette, he had to be with Baochai, all of which had no choice, because free love was not advocated in ancient times, and even if the two were happy, they had to follow the words of the matchmaker.

Although Baoyu fell in love with Daiyu when they first met, and had a strong curiosity about her because of Daiyu's silence, he kept going to her to have fun, and later Daiyu also fell in love with him, but because of his mother's opposition, the two were still unable to be together after all. In the end, Daiyu cried to death on the wedding night of Baoyu and Baochai, which was very miserable.

Jia Baoyu's personality analysis

Seeing this, everyone may think that Baoyu is cowardly, he has the courage to love, but he does not have the courage to take responsibility, and his blind obedience to the arrangement of his family is destroying the lives of two people and women. Daiyu died of sadness when he married Baochai, although he married Baochai and gave her a name, but he failed to give her more love, and finally became a monk, so that Baochai remained a widow for a lifetime.

But this is the etiquette of feudal society, no matter how much Baoyu resists, it is useless, no one can fight against these rules and regulations. Although Mother Jia likes Daiyu and thinks she is a good girl, Mrs. Wang doesn't like her, she can see at a glance that Daiyu is not a good stubble, too cautious, and very worried, such a person must be difficult to get along with.

The key is that Daiyu still has fun with Baoyu, and never lets him study or become an official, if his son is with him, it will be fine.

First of all, we have to affirm Lin Daiyu's talent and beauty, she and Baoyu are indeed in love, but for Jia's mother, things are not so simple. In the social environment at that time, marriage must be the right person, and Daiyu is under the fence, although her mother is Jia's mother's most beloved daughter, but her father is just a petty official, not very powerful, so her family background is not as good as Xue Baochai, who was born in the Xue family in Jinling - this is one point. Moreover, Daiyu is frail and sickly, sometimes she is indeed bitter and mean, her temperament is not very good, she is not as exquisite as Baochai's eight-sided exquisiteness, and Baochai keeps her duty, only does what she should do, only says what she should say, belongs to the traditional good woman, and at the same time she also has a certain means of housekeeping, when Sister Feng was sick and weak and unable to manage the affairs of the Jia family, she and Yingchun took care of the garden only in an orderly manner, and greatly improved the situation of the Jia family through a series of measures. Even if it is an ordinary family, such a woman is also highly favored, let alone the Jia family?

In contrast, although Daiyu is intentional in this regard, she is also powerless. In addition, it is the so-called "golden and jade good fate", Jia's mother knew that Baoyu needed a golden woman to marry him, so that she could depose those charms and spirits that were entangled around Baoyu (thanks to his psychic treasure jade protection on weekdays, and later Baoyu was lost). Based on the above points, Jia's mother will definitely let Baoyu and Baochai marry, and it is self-evident that she opposes Baoyu and Daiyu.

It's not that Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are not together, but in Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai, Jia's mother wants Baoyu and Baochai to be together, Xue Baochai has a cheerful personality, lively, good family affairs, and Baoyu is also very compatible, is an ideal candidate, Daiyu is weak and sickly, so she wants Baochai more. Jia's mother wanted Baoyu and Daiyu to be together from beginning to end, she didn't like Xue Baochai In order to show the evil of the feudal social system and feudal etiquette at that time, it revealed the historical situation of the inevitable collapse of feudal society.

Don't take the fanfic sorted out by Gao He Cheng Weiyuan as the original work, okay, everyone who has read the first eighty episodes of Dream of Red Mansions knows that Jia's mother is Bao Dai's party, and she hopes that Baoyu Daiyu will get married.

She and Tanchun took care of the garden in just an orderly manner.

First of all, in this sequel to "Dream of Red Mansions" written by Gao E, the reason why Jia's mother didn't want Lin Daiyu to marry Jia Baoyu was because Lin Daiyu was too weak to spread the branches for the family, or it could be because of Jia Baoyu's illness, because Jia Baoyu was already seriously ill and delirious at that time, and it could also be because of Chongxi.

Baoyu marries. Cao Xueqin, the author of "Dream of Red Mansions", may not think so, but the only thing that is certain is that Lin Daiyu will definitely die, as long as she returns tears to the mortal world, she will return to the heavenly realm and will not stay too long, which can be seen according to the story of Zhu Cao written by Cao Xueqin.

Lin Daiyu. In fact, the Xue family marrying a daughter and marrying a family in Jiafu is also in the weighing of interests, because Xue Pan got into a lawsuit at that time, and for Xue Pan, Xue's mother was willing to marry her daughter into Jiafu. Different hungry tourists may have different thoughts when watching "Dream of Red Mansions", and the reasons may not be too different.