My girlfriend said she loved me, but she was cold to me

Updated on psychology 2024-02-20
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Knowing that you are leaving, going to school in other places, she is sad, three years is not a short time, she is not indifferent to you, but afraid of ending this relationship because of your departure, although you ask her if she is willing to wait for you, but what will happen in these three years is unknown, or take a face-to-face way to talk to her, only so she encouraged you before, because she bears the pain herself, she will not delay your future, and then do not reply to your message in time, it is her heartache, she is afraid of facing separation.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You are still too young and not mature enough to think about the problem, so she is also thinking about it now, she doesn't dare to draw conclusions easily, and she doesn't know if she thinks right, don't blame her, give her some time, you have to always be good to her, bless you, my wife and I are junior high school classmates, or at the same table;

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    How is it the same as my former girlfriend. At first, the two were very harmonious, but in the end. Chilled me for 23 days! So I fed with her!

    Nabs. Now is the most critical time! I advise you to act quickly and use action to appreciate the love you once had!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The way of expression of love is different, people are also divided into auditory, olfactory and tactile types, and communicate more with your girlfriend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Communicate with her more and go see her! Speak to your face.

    Believing in the other person is the most important thing

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Be realistic. A child who is only in junior high school.

    You let a woman wait for you for three years, and you are embarrassed to wear it?

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let her know what you think.

    It's much better than you crying here.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's likely to be with you, and if you like her, you have to try your best to get it back

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When you fall in love, you are afraid of being in two places, so I advise you not to be too persistent.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Is there a big age difference between her and you?

    I guess it's no fun. It shouldn't be a joke.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Explain that it is fake. Maybe it's because she doesn't love you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    She already knew you were going to transfer schools.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The relationship between two people over time, from the period of passionate love.

    It is normal to go over to a low period. How two people go together from ordinary days, in fact, two people need to work together.

    If a girl is cold to you for no reason, there is more than one reason. Let's find out first and see if there are any things that don't go well in her life or work. If a person encounters something unpleasant in life, he will become cold to the people around him and will not be able to become enthusiastic.

    If that's the case, communicate in a timely manner. It is best to help her untie the unhappy knot in her heart if they face it together. When the mood improves, the attitude towards you will naturally improve.

    You also have to think about it for yourself, are you usually not considerate and caring enough for her? Girls need to be coaxed, need some sweet words, and even need more company. I'm afraid you give too much when you're in love, but once the love period is over, your freshness is over.

    Whether you don't care about girls day by day. Is it sometimes too lazy to pay attention to some of her requests, is it that you don't care so much about what she says, and you don't care so much about her affairs? First, examine whether this is really the case for you.

    If this is the case, the girl will not feel warmth and love in her heart, and even feel that your attitude has changed and she has become disappointed in you. So the feelings for you are also getting colder and colder.

    Sometimes girls are cold to you because they deliberately alienate you and deliberately test you. The reason for this is very simple, in fact, I want to see your attitude and sincerity. I want to use this to grab your attention.

    There is a saying called wanting to get away with it. In this case, then you have to care and love her more. It's okay to express your sincerity.

    The girl's mind is elusive, but no matter what, there will be no change in attitude for no reason, and most of the feelings between the two people have changed. It's all boys' reasons, so introspect first. Then try to communicate.

    Find out what the other person really thinks. Also, be sure to distinguish between coldness and cooling-off period, sometimes it's not that girls are cold to you, but maybe because your relationship has passed the hot love period, so you feel cold. It's possible that nothing happens.

    Therefore, it is useless to think nonsense, let's communicate more and understand it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When your girlfriend starts to be cold to you, it's time to show that she doesn't love you. There must be a reason why your girlfriend is so cold to you, and you have to find yourself your shortcomings and bad behavior.

    Only when you really change yourself can you win back your girlfriend's heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think you still haven't done that well, that is, you haven't done it well, you still have to find your own reasons, you should learn to do something, buy your girlfriend something she loves to eat, and then buy a few good clothes and cosmetics with him, so that your girlfriend will not be cold to you, and the two of you can have better development.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If your girlfriend behaves like this, it may be that she doesn't love you anymore, or there is a better person around her, and she thinks that the man is more suitable for her, so she will become more and more cold to you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Yes, if your girlfriend is becoming more and more cold to you, it means that the other party doesn't care about you anymore, and the other party slowly doesn't love you anymore.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It should be, if she changes her mind about you, she will be very cold to you, and girls are generally more clingy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    My girlfriend suddenly treated me coldly and ignored me.

    Hello, your girlfriend is suddenly very cold to you, love to ignore you, it must be your girlfriend is angry, want to make her happy, you need to admit your mistakes first, let the other party see your attitude, and timely put forward corrective measures, so that your girlfriend has expectations for you. First, find out why your girlfriend is angry, whether it's your fault or something else. Second, if it is your fault, you should review it with the girl in time to make her feel that she knows that she is wrong.

    Third, it is necessary to propose corrective measures in a timely manner, which should be tangible so that the girlfriend feels that you will get better and will not make this mistake again.

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