Why would I be scared of someone who likes me? Why? I was scared at the sight of him.20

Me too, mainly because I don't have self-confidence and a little inferiority, you should be a bit introverted. I like him very much, but I don't dare to face him, and I look at him secretly. Fear and withdrawal are because they are worried about the consequences, and they always feel that they don't want to pierce this layer of paper, and they are afraid of being rejected.

If I am naturally beautiful, I can do anything, I will go to confession with my head held high, without fear or retreat. mainly thinks that the other party is too good, (at least in his own eyes) not worthy of him.

Normal, because you are not familiar with it, you know that he will be kind to you, love and care for you, and you can't say thank you and don't know how to reciprocate, so you will feel stressed.

If you can be interested in him and like to care about him, you will feel very reciprocal and more natural.

This is called feeling, if this is not the case, it is not called feeling, summon up the courage to chat with him to show your envy. If he has feelings for you, everyone is happy! If he doesn't feel for you, you won't be sad, at least try, don't you say?

Don't you really like him? I guess I still have a good impression of him.

What does fear refer to, fear, or something else.

I believe that many people have had similar experiences, obviously they like a person but dare not approach, why do they have such a state of mind?

After many years, the biggest reason for recalling that state of mind is my own lack of self-confidence. In my eyes, the other party is very good, and I am very ordinary, this contrast will lead to the widening of the psychological distance, so that the weaker party does not dare to take the first step, for fear of being despised or ridiculed, so choose an obscure and distant state, and hide their true thoughts.

Sometimes we are afraid that even if we bravely take the first step, the relationship we usher in will be more awkward, the opposite of the further relationship that our heart wants, and the response we get is indifference or even resistance. We often make each other perfect and excellent in our own psychology, but we constantly make ourselves incompetent and weak, and the relationship between the two parties becomes dull.

Obviously like each other but show indifference:

There is also a relationship state, when I obviously like that person, but when the other party takes the initiative to attack, I am unable to give back, but instead shows an indifferent attitude and rejects others. This type of person can talk and laugh with other people, but cannot communicate normally with the person he likes in his heart. Even if you are smiling and whispering to others, when you see the person you like on one side, the smile will disappear instantly.

This type of person doesn't know how to communicate with the admirer in their hearts, and then regrets their indifference. Or maybe it's also the maintenance of strong self-esteem in emotion, and I don't know how to express myself reasonably. I'm afraid that I will express too much disgust from the other party, and I will be too active to appear cheap, and I expect that I can show my advantages, but because of too many thoughts in my heart, a vicious circle is finally formed.

Actually, this is not the reason for the "person you like", the key is still up to you. Often, you are nervous because you are unsure of your direction and think you are not worth enough in front of the other person.

Maybe you are a little nervous, because your heart is eager for him to take the initiative to get close to you, but when he is really close to you, you will be a little instinctively nervous. Open your heart and be brave enough to love again.

There is a strong fear of the person you like because you want to get his like, but you are afraid of losing it.

It may be because of some reason of your own that you feel that you are not worthy of him, and it may make you have to be as good as him to be worthy of him.

I believe that many people have encountered a problem, that is, for people who like themselves, they are very disgusted, and even very afraid to see, so my own temper is also like this, when others are pursuing me, if I don't like him, I will be very disgusted, and in daily life, I will try to avoid him as much as possible, then in fact, this kind of psychology is very normal, and the same is true for my friends around me.

In fact, there is a point, is afraid that the other party will see the bad side of themselves, because sometimes because we don't like him, so we don't want our problems to be too much in front of him, and we don't want him to come into his own life, so at this time I will feel very afraid of his meeting, or I feel more disgusted by his behavior, because he sometimes gets as close to us as possible, but at this time, we don't want to have too much contact with him, so at this time, one person chases and one person hides, That's definitely going to be disgusting.

This kind of behavior is also very normal in daily life, not only we are like this, in fact, we can observe that the friends around us, they are actually the same for people who like themselves, if we happen to like him, then of course we are, very welcome him into our lives, want to meet him, and even we ourselves will create a chance encounter, but if we don't like this person, we will definitely avoid, do not want to meet, Disconnect this part as much as possible.

In fact, this kind of psychology has a premise, that is, when he likes us, we don't like him, so at this time, we will go to avoid, afraid to see or even more disgusted, I myself have been like this many times before, because in the process of his pursuit of us, I don't like him, but he has always wanted to get closer, really want to enter my heart. When he really tried his best to reach out to me, I just felt very irritable, and I didn't want him to know so much.

It's normal to be disgusted by people who like you, and you're afraid to see them. The other party likes themselves, but they don't like each other, and then the other party will feel very disgusted and even a little disgusted by their own hospitality. The main reason for being afraid of seeing is that I am afraid of embarrassment, and I am also afraid that my resistance to the other party's emotions will have a bad impact on the other party.

It's normal. Because I am afraid of being misunderstood by others, I am afraid of causing some trouble to the other party, and when I am with the other party, I feel very embarrassed, so I will do this.

Not normal, of course. Because you have a special low self-esteem, and you are very sensitive, very concerned about the feelings of others, and very unconfident.

It's normal, because you don't like him very much, and you don't want to give the other person some hope, avoid him and avoid some embarrassing things.

Because you don't like them, you think they're annoying, you are around you all day long, and you're in a bad mood, so try to keep your emotions in check.

1. The emotional burden is too great

I was worried that my performance in front of the other party was not good enough, I couldn't leave a good impression, and I suffered from gains and losses, so I started to get nervous when I saw the other party.

2. The gap brought by contrast

In the face of the person you like, low self-esteem is the first reaction, if this person is very good, in the heart will compare yourself, produce pressure, think that you are not as good as the other party.

3. Not used to dealing with strangers

Accustomed to a person's life and not keen on socializing, it is natural to be nervous and uncomfortable in the face of strangers. Whatever the reason, this tension is not unavoidable. In the face of the person you like, it's really a pity if you end it before you start dating.

Love can make people strong, but it can also make people timid.

When a person loves you, he may be fearless before that, he can do whatever he wants, and he doesn't need to take into account anyone's feelings, but once he falls in love with someone, he has concerns in his heart and no longer thinks about just one person.

You will find that when a person falls in love with someone, there will be sudden changes, and there will be taboos and worries because you restrain yourself. The person who used to do his own thing, because of love, will become responsible and responsible, and will begin to fear loss, so he will try to be himself as well as possible. In fact, the fear of falling in love with someone is not self-loss, but because you value each other too much, you will worry about worry, which is more of a manifestation of a person who loves you deeply.

A crush is 10,000 temptations.

I think you should cherish this feeling, in fact, it's also very beautiful, he can't see it, he shouldn't be able to see your nervousness and panic, if you're really scared, pay attention to him silently, such as a meeting to deliberately do a long way, but what information he needs or what plan to put forward you will cooperate with him or listen carefully, in short, keep a distance but brush the sense of existence, because I think such a beautiful existence, in case another girl around him appears, the blow is 10,000 times more than the fear of seeing him crit. Try to get close to him, like you said, it's good not to be in love, to be friends. Besides, there are still a lot of work connections in campus life, and I am afraid that when I see him, I will first talk about work on WeChat, and it will be good after a long time.

When I see someone I like, I'm afraid how can I overcome this fear? First of all, it means that you are not confident, you must be confident, and you are an introverted person, so you will have such an idea.

You can be brave enough to chat with each other and see if they are a good fit together.

Summary. Hello dear, I am afraid that others like you yourself There are several possibilities: 1. The person who likes you is not the one who makes you excited.

2. Afraid of hurting others and not wanting to be an "executioner". 3. Don't want to change, fear of the unknown. 4. Afraid of trouble, afraid of encountering entanglement, and thinking of a guy who is a play, if it is not solved well, it is possible to lose a sense of control over his life.

Hello dear, I am afraid that others like you yourself There are several possibilities: 1. The person who likes you is not the one who makes you excited. 2. Afraid of hurting others and not wanting to be an "executioner".

3. Don't want to change, fear of the unknown. 4. Afraid of trouble, afraid of encountering entanglement, and thinking of a guy who is a play, if it is not solved well, it is possible to lose a sense of control over his life.

1.Give yourself a little more confidence.

Most of the time, being too nervous in front of someone you like is also a reflection of your lack of self-confidence. Of course, everyone has a variety of shortcomings, and that's normal, but you can't belittle yourself because of this small one. You have to face up to these shortcomings, learn to accept and like yourself, and have a little more self-confidence.

After all, most people like to spend time with confident and positive people.

2.Prepare in advance what you want to talk about.

Feeling nervous in front of someone you like is also related to not being able to find a topic to talk about at the time, because all you want to do at that time is to see the other person and make a good impression on the other person, but when you really face it, you suddenly don't know what to say. At this point, nervousness and blushing will replace the awkwardness of a no-topic chat. The more embarrassed you are, the more moved and nervous you will be, so be prepared to communicate on multiple topics, such as some ordinary greetings or some gossip chat events.

Never mind. Importantly, it can be used at critical moments, which can also ease most of the tension.

3.Eliminate each other's perfect imaginations.

The more you care, the more important, the more you desire, the more you are hungry, the more you are afraid of failure, the more you dare not lose your true self, the more you need your ideal self to take on this responsibility, if you can't shape each other perfectly, you can reduce this feeling, you can't lose, you can interact with each other more calmly.

4.Proactively end preset results to reduce stress.

This is just the beginning and doesn't mean you'll actually be together. First, become friends. After getting to know each other, you will find that both parties have the desire to fall in love, and communication will be natural In the process of pursuing a person, what we need to do is not to make the other person like ourselves, but to actively create contact space, increase the contact area, and actively promote the production of this result.

As for the outcome, now none of us knows. There is no need to insist on this result. You have no obligation to him, and you need time to understand him.

5.Love only yourself.

If being close to someone you like makes you nervous, scared, short of breath and doesn't know what to do, then it's better to accept it, because at the moment, you are in this state, it's the real you and you don't have to hide it because the person who is really interested in you shouldn't hate you because of it. If he doesn't like you and stays away from you because of it, it could be a sign that, in fact, he may not really understand you and fall in love with you for who you really are.

In fact, most people don't hate the way their favorite person looks nervous and scared in front of them. On the contrary, such people will make us feel precious and lovely. Because in the understanding of many people:

Being nervous and scared in front of someone you like is exactly how he feels about me. They will explain that you like him very much and that he will only be happy before it is too late.