Would you invite your first love to your wedding?

Updated on vogue 2024-02-21
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course not. I'm sure I won't invite him, after all, I've broken up with him. It doesn't matter, so it's even more impossible to invite it specifically, after all, it will make that guy misunderstand.

    Maybe I think I have feelings for him. Moreover, we said at the time that we would stop disturbing each other's lives. So I won't break my promise, of course, the most important thing is that I'm about to forget what my first love looked like.

    So, I've come out, and I think those who will still invite are just trying to prove that they can live without him. But this is a minority after all, and most of them will not come back and forth. Oh, by the way, there will be friends who will be friends, but I still don't support it, I think it's weird.

    And, we all said at the time, don't contact again. For this reason, I don't think it's even more likely to let him come. Because we're not that good.

    Even though I broke up at the time, I also felt like crying. But after all, the back came out, so I didn't feel anything. <>

    Maybe for you, there will be an idea of wanting to invite. But that must be that you still have feelings for him. But I don't think it's a good thing, first of all, if your partner knows, he will definitely affect his mood as well.

    But that's not good after all, I think it's quite embarrassing. If it were me, I wouldn't have looked for him. Of course, I think it's not realistic to be friends, after all, there is always a period between the two, unless they were friends before, otherwise it's embarrassing.

    If it were me, I wouldn't approve of this kind of behavior. After all, it's already divided, what's the point of inviting someone else? If he had known, he might have laughed at me and still had feelings for him.

    But that's not realistic. I've forgotten about him, and it's impossible to invite him over for the sake of showing off, and besides, I told him yes. Maybe it's because the relationship hasn't reached that level.

    I've come out and won't go back.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I won't invite my first love to the wedding, because the wedding is a new beginning in my life, and it doesn't make much sense to throw away the previous things, and the first love will come to the wedding again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I would never invite my first love to my wedding, because after all, two people have loved each other, and such an occasion will be very embarrassing for two people and will ruin good memories.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Actually, I don't invite my first love to my wedding, because I think it will embarrass myself and my other half.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes. Thank you to him for teaching me so well, I remember his last blessings, and the wedding is the best proof of this.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No. I think that my first love is a thing of the past, so I shouldn't bother each other in my life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yesterday, I also said that I saw my classmates talk about my first love and marriage, because we are all classmates, so they received his wedding card. As a result, my first love also sent me a wedding card this afternoon, asking me if I had returned to my hometown on National Day, and if I went back to my hometown, I would go over to get together, because my hometown is not far from his hometown.

    Yesterday, when my classmates jokingly told me to go, I also said categorically that I didn't go, and I had to wrap a red envelope, thanks to ah, I didn't want it, but today I don't know how to respond to the other party.

    I do want to go home on National Day, and if people tell me to go home, I will go, but I feel that it is really not appropriate for me to go.

    On the one hand, because we are all classmates, I know many of the classmates and friends he invited, and I know that we have been together, so it seems very embarrassing for me to go. On the other hand, when my first love gets married, I have to give him a red envelope when I go to drink wedding wine, how big is my heart?!

    Although many classmates have not seen each other for a long time, according to him, it is indeed an opportunity to get together. Even my best friend asked me to go, saying that we would go there to play together, and the wedding banquet was just a dinner by the way? Said the groom was very busy that day and couldn't take care of it, we played ours?

    Did they overestimate my heart and underestimate the past relationship? Although the time we spent together was really short, so short that it could be ignored, it was really really like it!

    I didn't know if I had gone home today, and I didn't want to go or not, but he said, then he will ask me again in a few days. So should I go or not?

    Will you attend the wedding of your first love? When you get married, will you invite your first love?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Go first and then talk about it, now support yourself, and when the wedding is over, tell her loudly when you leave, remember to call me again when you get married. If my first love got married and invited me to the wedding, I think I would agree to go. You can still be friends after a breakup.

    In fact, I have always felt that it is still possible to be friends after a breakup, because the two of them did not end up together, which should be for various reasons. Even if two people can't be husband and wife, they can be good friends. Don't think that two people who can't be husband and wife are enemies for life, it's really not necessary.

    Although we are not destined to be husband and wife, we can be friends and help each other. Therefore, your first love invites you to a wedding, and you must attend with pleasure. Don't lose your grace when you break up.

    Many people feel that breaking up with their first love will become an enemy who does not live with each other. In fact, just because two people are not suitable to be husband and wife together, it doesn't mean that two people can't be friends. So when the first love invites us to the wedding, we must be generous and dress up.

    Only then can you appear elegant and not let others think that you are a stingy person.

    Looking ahead is king. In fact, as long as any relationship has passed, it will become a memory of the past. We don't have to worry about what hurt the relationship has caused us, but what we need to do is expect everything.

    Because events are constantly moving forward, we can take these experiences as fond memories of our youth so that we don't have to worry about our lives and expect everything to be king.

    That's how life is. Everyone who appears in the course of our lives is the reason for our lives. Whatever this person has brought us, we should be grateful to them.

    Therefore, when a person becomes transparent and open-minded, he will find that we often do not need to worry about something, but need to treat it with a normal state of mind. Therefore, when the first love invites us, we must participate in it with great fanfare!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If the first love is married, I won't go, the first love is a more sincere relationship, if we see each other again, it will be very embarrassing, just send your own gifts and hearts.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course I won't go, because I can't make a mess for the bride!

    If you get married, you don't want the other party's ex or first love to be present.

    So bless people! Don't go.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    will go, if he invites you, there must be a certain friendship, for this reason, don't live up to this friendship, even if it is a good friend.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I will definitely go, because I really want the other party to be happy, so if the other party calls me to get married, then I will definitely bless the other party.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    My first love is going to get married, and I will never go, because I think I will not be able to control my feelings, and I may cry there.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Knowing that your first love is going to get married, you should bless him, and you can keep this feeling in your heart and don't disturb him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you can go with the invitation, the first love itself is the happiest and best memory in life, and now that the other party has found a good home, she should bless her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm going to go because I feel like now that I've let go of this relationship, I can't hold on to the past anymore.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    His first love is going to get married, and he will go, and he will bless her, letting him know that he has let him go.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If it were me, I wouldn't have gone because it was a sad place, and it would be uncomfortable to see such an occasion.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If it is Zhao Hunger Zi me, I will not go, because there is no suitable identity, and it will only increase sadness to go, and the two races will not be able to come together in the end, so let each other go, let each other chase their own happiness, and don't interfere with each other's lives, at the same time, you must also work hard, boldly to find your own happiness, I wish you to find your other half as soon as possible.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Most likely, yes. The first point is that as an ordinary person, you can't fully understand your lover, everyone has their own private space, both parties need a sense of distance, distance produces beauty, and it is unrealistic to be transparent with each other. This means that the lover you know is one-sided.

    The second point is that when you are just in love, what you know is only one side of the relationship, and time will deepen the understanding between the two parties. At this time, the lover's actions will have an emotional bonus, as the so-called: the lover's eyes are out of the West.

    But time is the most powerful ** in the world, and the freshness when you first see it, and you get tired of it when you do more.

    It was love at first sight, but after all, they hated each other.

    Thirdly, I believe that the love between the two parties is strongest when they first meet, and over time, this love will gradually precipitate and brew into the wine of family affection, and companionship is the confession of affection. It's nice to have you by my side!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If two people are happy together, two people can get married if they have an emotional foundation together.

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