Sure enough, people are good and are bullied, people are good and are bullied, what is the next sent

Patience is an ability ... There are always some things we don't like in society.,It's hard to endure at this time.。。。 I'm glad I am.

You did it.. A successful person always has to endure a lot of things that he doesn't want to endure but has to endure ... You can find other ways to vent.

For example, running, doing what you want to do. Or you can play tricks on others. But be kind ...

Patience is your forte, a good thing.

It's just that as a man, there are some things that have a bottom line.

As for fighting, I despise people who use force to solve problems, but this does not include deterrence by force.

It's like China has an atomic bomb

However, I believe that some fights must be fought, but when to do it depends on the situation.

Good self-knowing.

Violence can't solve the problem, but it's not advisable for you to do this, at least let your classmates know that you are so approachable because you have better quality, are tolerant of people, and are not really easy to bully and fear! You still have to let your classmates understand this, otherwise they will really think that you are a good bully!

Let's give you a verbal warning.

Otherwise, something will really happen.

It's not good. If you don't listen.

Find what you think should be the most important lesson, and find an opportunity to be practical.

It's okay to think you're doing well, don't look at other people's thoughts, don't face things with your temper, but solve it steadily, use your best way to go your own way and let others say it

You can't overdo it, and you have to be aggressive once in a while, but don't think that violence will solve the problem.

You can do what you want, some should be endured, some can't be endured, others have developed a habit, do you think this is good, this is not a friend, think for yourself.

Just hint at someone else once in a while.

Ma Shan was ridden. Proverb is a Chinese word, pronounced yàn yǔ, proverb is an important part of the Chinese language, referring to a phrase that is concise and concise among the people. Most proverbs reflect the practical experience of working people and are generally passed down orally.

It is mostly an easy-to-understand phrase or rhyme in colloquial form.

Ready-made words that are commonly used in people's lives. Proverbs are similar to idioms, but they are colloquial, easy to understand, and generally express a complete meaning, almost in the form of one or two short sentences.

The content of the proverbs includes a wide range, some are agricultural proverbs, such as "before and after the Qingming Festival, plant melons and beans"; Some are proverbs of reason, such as "sow melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans"; Some belong to common sense proverbs in all aspects of life, such as "Humility makes people progress, pride makes people backward." "After eating, walk a hundred steps and live to ninety-nine." There are so many categories, too many to count.

This should be a sentence in "Zengguang Xianwen", but dogs can't ride it! The full few sentences are:

People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden.

People are not rich without windfalls, and horses are not fertile without weeds.

People who are wicked are afraid of the sky are not afraid, and good people are not afraid of the sky.

Good and evil will be rewarded in the end, only to fight for early and late.

Don't be bullied. Hu Bingyan.

Don't deceive the poor, and don't hate the enemy when you're young.

The dragon has a take-off day, east of the river to the west of the dam.

We can't bully anyone, and we can't be bullied by anyone.

Kindness must have a ruler, and forbearance must be measured.

As the saying goes, people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. If a person is always kind without a bottom line, he will naturally be pinched around as a "soft persimmon".

People live, don't always believe that patience is calm for a while, endure the calm in the end, unscrupulous but come, we can be roses, but we can't be without thorns.

The writer Sanmao once told his story in the book.

When Sanmao was young, her family instilled in her the idea of being kind. Under the influence of her parents' education, she has always believed that Bi Shi is a kind person, and God does not deceive, and no one deceives.

If it weren't for studying abroad, Sanmao would have always felt that his thoughts were right, all people were worthy of love and warmth, and everyone was worth tolerating.

Under the influence of this kind of thinking, Sanmao is kind to others everywhere, she helps her roommates fetch water, make beds, and clean up in the dormitory, and she thinks that her kindness will get the same feedback from others.

I never thought that my roommates would take her help for granted, or even treat her as a nanny who could be called at any time, not only that, but her roommates would regret using it casually, without considering her feelings at all.

Finally, Sanmao couldn't help it, and in a dispute with her roommate, it broke out completely, and her actions surprised her roommate and made her respected.

Sanmao wrote in "West Wind Doesn't Know Faces":

If kindness is just blindly giving, then this kindness, I'd rather not. ”

The world is too hot and cold, and people's hearts are as ruthless as wolves. In this world, if you are kind without a bottom line, the world will gnaw you to the ground.

Living in this world, our biggest stupidity is to believe in the goodness of human nature without a bottom line, if our kindness and forbearance, in exchange for worsening the harm, it is the coolest to turn our faces directly.

To be a man, turn your face when you should turn your face.

I have seen such a sentence on the Internet: "Not showing mercy to the wicked is also a kind of cultivation." ”

Couldn't agree more! We can be kind, but we must bring a little edge, otherwise kindness will lose its meaning, and it will encourage the arrogance of the wicked.

We often hear people say: People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. Why is it that the more honest and kind people are, the easier it is to be bullied? What kind of psychology are they doing to bully honest people?

1. Subconsciously think that honest people should be bulliedSome people subconsciously think that honest people are easy to bully and are taken for granted to be bullied, and this subconscious may be influenced by some environment or some people, creating their wrong psychology, so they will bully honest people.

Second, think that honest people are cowardly and incompetent psychologyHonest people are kind, do not like to fight, and do not like to show themselves, some people will regard the kindness and love of others as their cowardice, and think that honest people cannot, and then destroy their body and mind.

3. Bullying the weak reflects their strong psychology This kind of people are despicable and shameful, they bully the soft and afraid of the hard, how dare the egg touch the stone, they only pick the weak to bully, in order to reflect their strength, to bully honest people to prove that they are also a strong person, in fact, they are a shameful weakling.

Fourth, think that people are honest and have no "worries" after being bulliedHonest people generally choose to swallow their anger and not resist, and they will form a psychology of obedience for a long time. This also makes some people feel that bullying honest people has no worries and can be unscrupulous. Fifth, it is easy to vent bad emotions to the weak psychology of the fast-paced society, there is a lot of pressure, some people will vent their bad emotions on the relatively weak and sleepy shirts, bullying honest people who make them feel weak, so that they have a sense of superiority.

Fifth, it is easy to vent bad emotions to the weak psychology Now in the fast-paced society, there is a lot of pressure, some people will vent their bad emotions on the relatively weak, bullying honest people who make them feel weak, so that they have a sense of superiority.