I m a girl, and I always want to be with someone when I like him

Good evening, girl. After reading your detailed description, I want to tell you that I simply empathize with you. I'm also a person who likes people easily, is very emotional, and is very quick to put in. So I want to seriously address your problem and responsibly give you some help.

After reading the description of the problem many times, through analysis and weighing, I want to say to you: First of all, there are certain risks and uncertainties in the new relationship you start, after all, Nuan Nan cares about the people around him, maybe not for you alone. Because of this realization, the mentality that you want to adjust now is actually very good, and liking someone doesn't necessarily mean being together.

Sometimes the determination of the relationship will ruin this beautiful feeling, you and he should both understand. It's only been a week now, and it's not a pillar that supports your relationship and ensures that you're always happy - of course, it's conservative.

But with sincerity, you are unwilling and impossible to let go of this feeling. Because you have been hurt in your previous relationship, you now want to be happy and stable even more. Once unrequited love makes you feel uneasy, and some gossip makes you aware of the uncertainties, you will unconsciously want to give up, so you will turn to it and want to put your mind back to your studies.

But you deserve happiness, so don't be afraid.

My suggestion is that instead of rushing to strangle the relationship in the cradle, it is better to let it develop like this for a while.

In this way, you will learn more about his personality and temperament, and you will also have a better understanding of the possible chances of this relationship. There are only two endings, but you find out that he is not the type you like, and the more you get to know it, the more you find that there are many things in it that you can't bear, so the idea of liking it slowly fades, and you will naturally focus on your studies. Either that, you become more and more sure that he is the person you are looking for, because he is gradually responding to you—isn't it beautiful to be happy with each other?

Everything should go with the flow, don't be afraid. The happiness that should come may be late, but it will never be missed. May you have good dreams.

Because marriage is a reasonable and legal reason to keep a person by your side forever, if you want to block the mouths of your parents and relatives, and want to make the people around you recognize the relationship between the two, marriage is undoubtedly the most suitable choice.

1. If a girl wants to get married, that's true love. Maybe outsiders only see the bride price that the boy needs to give the girl when he gets married, or maybe the boy only sees the ugly face of the girl who wants a perfect wedding, maybe all this is so ordinary in the eyes of others, but for a girl to get married is really a big deal, especially for Chinese girls.

For the average girl,After getting married, you need to take care of the whole family, you need to cook, wash clothes, clean up the house, give birth to children at the right age, and then enter the era of old mothers, serving the children to eat, drink, and sleep, and at the same time have to go to work to make moneyBoys may feel that they give their wages to girls every month, and getting married means being bonded, but in fact, for a girl, that is the real bondage, because girls who are not married do all of this.

I'm just a person who doesn't want to face this, so I'm almost 30 years old and haven't gotten married, and I still keep enjoying the single life, these things are what we grew up seeingSo if you want to get married, people who dare to face these things are not because they love it too much, but because of what?

Second, not only girls, but boys will want to get married when they fall in love with someone. In fact, when I saw this problem, I wanted to correct it, in this world, it is not only girls who want to get married when they meet the person they love, but also boys! In contemporary society, there will be a freedom, people who are in love may still be in love one second, but the next second they will blurt out and break up, marriage, especially when there is a cooling-off period for divorce, separation may be a long process.

When you really fall in love with someone, you want to see her in the morning and see her in the eveningcan kiss and hug her on the street without any scruples, no matter who is around her, she can call "wife" with confidence, don't say that a man hasn't thought about it, it's probably a man who has thought about it, because this is a human instinct, a selfish instinct for the things he likes.

Three, I haven't met anyone who wants me to get married. Having said so much above, in fact, as a person who has not been married for 93 years, I don't seem to be very qualified to come to this question, because I have not met a person who has come up with the idea of marriage so far, maybe I have met a good partner, and I have been in a few relationships, but none of them have thought about getting married, or rushed to understand the purpose of marriage.

I've always felt that getting married is a big responsibility, especially when there is a cooling-off period for divorceIt's easier to get married than to divorce, it's not a mantra anymore, but the country is implementing, so I advise those who want to get married as soon as their minds are hot, and they must think twice before getting married, because people only have a short life of a few decades, and there is no need to follow other footsteps to get married, and the most important thing is that people are happy to live.

Finally: it doesn't make a difference to me whether I meet or not, maybe for me, it's good not to get married.

I have two kinds of friends around me, most of whom are afraid of getting married, including me. Especially when I see that some relatives and friends around me who are married are not very happy, they live a trivial life after marriage, and they have no expectations for marriage. The only thing I think about is to try to save money, so that I feel safe enough to live a wonderful life, and not to find someone to marry because I am old.

It turns out that when you meet someone you truly love, you will be very tempted to get married, no exceptions. In addition to friends who like to be afraid of getting married, there is also a category of friends who are eager to get married. Although there are few friends, it can still make people feel the beautiful side of love.

I observed my friends around me who wanted to get married. Several couples have a stable relationship and a good relationship. They are the kind of people who can be fine alone, but two people can live better together. Because two people love each other and understand each other, they want to spend the rest of their lives with each other.

It's like when I was a kid, I was asked what kind of proposal ceremony girls liked. When I asked, I learned that he was going to surprise his girlfriend and planned to hold a romantic marriage proposal ceremony for her. He said that he really didn't want to get married before he met her, but after meeting her later he really didn't want to marry someone else, and he had been trying to make money just to marry the girl he loved as soon as possible.

The dream of turning the person in front of you into a future sweetheart and a pillow person has come true as soon as possible.

While sharing some romantic advice with him, I couldn't help but sigh: I would love to get married when I meet someone I really love, without exception. Only people who have been hurt in their relationship and are insecure will become more and more afraid of marriage, like walking on thin ice.

I once saw a particularly touching passage on the Internet, and I am still deeply impressed and deeply agree with this point of view.

The gist of that passage is this: "A person who truly loves you must be able to reassure you." He doesn't show up in front of your eyes and sees you crawling hard in the mud, no matter how embarrassed you are.

Gently hold your hand and let you be gentle all your life; It's the distress you can't help but feel when you're sad, it's those who have suffered. It's star attention, chat at the top, messages reply in seconds, and everything has a sense of security; It is the one who still stands by your side to encourage you in good times and bad, holds your hand firmly, and willingly lets you go.

You see, when you really love someone, you really want to give him the best, and you don't abandon all the bad things about him. When you really love someone, you really want to get married and give each other a home. I often fantasize about two people beating their husbands and wives, loving each other, and reaching the romance of the old days hand in hand.

So, if you are not married yet, don't be in a hurry and wait for someone who is willing to spoil you when you were a child and come to you with joy.

In this fast-food love and real society, marriage is really difficult, but when you meet someone who really loves you, you will find that there will really be someone in this world who makes you feel worthy, and marrying each other is a very happy thing. Finally, I hope you are lucky enough to meet a good person and work together for a happy life.

1. I watched a lot of stories about the princess and the prince when I was a child! Women yearn for marriage more than men, two people are married, they can live together, you are a father, I am a mother, we give birth to a cute doll, I played like this when I was five or six years old, I longed for the future married life when I was a child, why not grow up quickly, when I grow up, I will have my own home, there are three people in the family, warm and happy, he loves me, I love him, can grow old, raise eyebrows!

Girls love fantasy,She felt that the princess and the prince got married and lived happily ever after, so all the girls wanted to get married when they met someone they liked, and she also wanted to be like the princess, and she would be happy after getting married.

2. Forty-one flowers for men, thirty tofu scum for women! If you don't get married, you don't feel secure, do you think that a man loves you and doesn't marry you, can you accept it? What are you without that marriage contract? If you say it's good, you're in love, but if it's not good, you're not as good as a junior, and the junior can still exchange some money!

My sister has been with her boyfriend for six years, my sister really loves him, it doesn't matter if she doesn't mention marriage, she is the happiest to be with him, but as a result, she broke up because 10,000 yuan was not suitable for the two of them, the man turned around and found a little girl, and the woman is still single!

Therefore, women hate to marry even more, and they can't wait to marry them soonerIt's best to marry the one you love, and it's okay to love yourself, but I'm afraid that when you have no choice, you get married for the sake of getting married!

3. A woman is married when she is in love, and a man is in love! Before a woman falls in love, she must think, whether this man is suitable for me, can I marry him in the future? The girl thinks that in the future, she may be together in the future, and she can be together now.

Men are different, it doesn't matter if it's suitable for me, as long as you can fall in love, if you can be together, if you can't, you can be a spare tire, anyway, you don't suffer, men can fall in love without the purpose of marriage.

So ifA woman is in love, she loves this man, what she thinks about is that I want to get married, and what about a man's love, he always thinks, the next one may be better, I don't want to get married, I really can't find a better one, so I will marry her.

Fourth, only those who are not married yearn to get married! I'm not a little girl anymore, I'm a middle-aged woman in my thirties, if I were to go back to my twenties, would I still get married, you ask? Do you still yearn for marriage?

I'm absolutely telling you, I'm not going to get married, I'm going to be single,I think it's really good to be alone, cook alone, wash clothes alone, go to work alone, work alone, there are not so many messy things, such as money, such as mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and in such as firewood, rice, oil and salt in life!

Summary: Marriage is the envy of those outside the city, and the envy of those outside the city. Little girl, live your life while you are young, don't think about getting married, if you love you, he will marry you early, and the man who doesn't love you, he won't marry you if you want to get marriedMake yourself excellent, if you are in full bloom, the breeze will come, and you will be married at that time, and you will be able to find the real Prince Charming.

Girls are insecure and want to marry someone when they like him, and they feel that the marriage relationship between the two is the most reliable, so they want to "bind" their beloved by getting married.

First of all, if you get married, you will feel safe, and then you will be happier when you get the blessings of your family and friends, plus it is legal and you can have a loving crystallized baby.

The final result of love is to attribute what you like to yourself. When a girl likes one, it means that this person belongs to her after getting married. No one else is qualified to fight with him.

It's the same with boys, don't engage in gender confrontation every day

Because she wants to possess him for a long time, hahaha