How do you catch up with the woman you like?

Be particular about doing thingsMethods and strategies, and the same is true for pursuing women.

Catching up with the girl he likes is a compulsory course for every man, but many people who have been scattered have no way to do it. In my opinion, this topic should be considered from four aspects.

State Cover OneBe a messy sweet talker

When a boy meets a girl he likes, he must be able to speak and be able to speak.

According to the girl's personality characteristics and hobbies, you can say what the girl likes, and you can say what the girl wants to hear.

For example, when you get up in the morning, send her a WeChat message, "Did you sleep well last night?" Tell her to "rest well and have a good dream" when she goes to bed at night; When I went to work, I asked her, "Have you arrived at the unit?" When you get off work, ask her, "Are you home?" "Wait. Girls who have just entered a state of love pay special attention to these small links, and especially want to hear the intimate words and sweet words that boys care about her.

Another example: you are so good-looking, you are so beautiful, you are really temperamental, etc.

Maybe sometimes, boys praise girls for being a little "exaggerated", although girls seem to be "not very happy" on the surface, but they will definitely be beautiful in their hearts.

Second, be bold

Say it if you like it, don't hide it in your heart. Because you don't know if the girl you like also likes you, if the girl you like also likes you, then your bold confession may be directly agreed to, because she is waiting for your confession.

But if you are timid and dare not confess, then you will miss out on a beautiful love. So, say whatever you have to say, especially when chasing girls, just say it if you like it, don't twist and pinch it.

3. Appropriate material giving should be in place in a timely manner, and do not blindly draw bread to satisfy hunger

Of course, in addition to praising and making women happy, you can't draw bread to satisfy hunger, right? Therefore, when it comes to a certain degree of heat and heat, you might as well carefully choose a gift for her, which is very necessary.

After all, words of comfort and praise are blank, just like a table that lacks the four feet that support it, it will collapse in an instant, and so is love. Therefore, the expression of action is a shot in the arm to capture a woman's heart, and it will also instantly warm and touch a woman's heart, so as to be grateful to you.

Fourth, excellent men know how to listen

A man is often more inclined to what the girl really thinks in her heart, but the girl may not be willing to express it. Therefore, male suitors need to learn to express themselves first and talk more about themselves in the communication between the sexes. In their own descriptions, girls will gradually be moved, understand themselves more and more, and through their own persuasion, they will slowly reveal their hearts.

So one of the tips for flirting girls: when the girls are gradually telling their stories, be a good listener, listen to them express slowly, and encourage them when appropriate. They will slowly become mentally dependent on themselves.

Summary: In the process of chasing girls, boys must be sincere, and any love skills should be based on sincere feelings. Love is mutual, and when you have love for others, you want others to have love for you as well.

Only in this way can we reap the full love.

Communicate with her more, behave yourself, take care of her every day, take care of her, surprise the woman you like, and have feelings.

It's all fake, sincere, and handsome.

It's best not to have too high expectations for the first relationship. The higher the expectation, the more disappointed you may be, and you should not express your feelings to her very warmly, because it may also be a kind of pressure for the other party.

2, keep your distance, don't know anything after being together, Weibo let others know, and QQ doesn't need to be associated. Because sometimes there are some unnecessary suspicions and suspicions. And once this happens, it's hard to dissipate.

3. Don't focus on falling in love, there are more important things to do in college. A girl won't change her heart because of how much you love her. She needs to see that you have advantages that others don't have, which can be appearance, experience, and grades.

4. Don't have too many lies, paper can't contain fire.

Lies can burn enough to quiet the other party again and again, but this is only a stopgap measure after all. The most important thing for couples to get along is trust, so you don't want to consume this trust again and again.

5. Love is unfair, the more you give, the less you may gain, the less you will be valued, and the less you will be cherished.

What you can't get is always in turmoil, but what is favored has no fear. Personal experience, when you fall in love in college, don't devote yourself to it, but also allocate a considerable part of your energy and time to study, otherwise you may lose your wife and lose your soldiers in the end.

6. Don't share all the stories as soon as you come up.

During a relationship, the most important thing is the common language, which is the so-called topic. If you finish all the words in your heart at the beginning because you are too excited and excited, then you will definitely have nothing to say in the end. And once there is no common topic between the two, they can only stare at each other with wide eyes, and they are not far from breaking up.

Give sincerity and impress each other with sincerity.

In the relationship between men and women, if a boy wants to pursue a girl, he must be good to the woman, which is the premise. However, we must master this heat for treating girls. In other words, such a good must be neither humble nor arrogant, and be spiritually independent, not flattering.

What is the difference between being nice and pleased? In fact, the distinction is very simple, if you are good, the other party has a response, can accept, do not refuse and do not dislike, such a good has weight and value. If you are good, the other party shows rejection, disgust, and silence, and there will be a suspicion of "flattering" in this way.

Therefore, when pursuing girls, we must control this degree well, so that this love is more reciprocal and full of two-way running.

Second: Bad for you, but not bad for people!

Regarding the relationship between men and women, there is a saying that men are not bad, but women are not loved. In fact, the reason why girls like men's "bad" is just that such boys will make girls happy. Therefore, as a boy, if you want to catch up with the girl you like, you must have the ability to make the girl happy.

In addition, boys pursue girls, coaxing girls to be happy is just a stepping stone for two people to get along, and the core problem of vertical travel is to show that their character is not bad and kind. This is the key to making a woman accept you and accept you.

Third: not disgusted.

In the relationship between men and women, in fact, if a woman likes a man, she will rarely be moved to accept it because the man is good to her! In fact, a man's love and reconciliation for a woman is often the second thing. The most fundamental thing is the woman's impression and eyes of this man.

If a woman doesn't look down on a man, it won't help the man himself, no matter how good he is.

Therefore, as a man who wants to pursue a woman, the most basic and important point is not to leave an offensive impression on women! Only in this way can you have the opportunity to break through the relationship between two people and become lovers. This is like starting with appearance, without this springboard, talent and character can sometimes only be submerged, and you will not be given a chance to show at all!

It is necessary to remind here that it is still necessary to be bold in pursuing girls, as long as the other party is not disgusted, it is to show yourself more in front of the other party. It's giving yourself a chance, and it's also giving two people a chance to be together. Pursue girls, don't be afraid and timid, let alone inferior, the more brave and confident a boy is, the easier it is to win a woman's heart.

We are always prone to use a masochistic way to create the illusion of infatuation in order to make ourselves stand on the moral high ground of feelings and obtain a deformed sense of satisfaction and security. In fact, whether it is going to the other party's house to stand downstairs for a while on a snowy night or braving the heavy rain to give her a cup of milk tea or something, in retrospect, I often feel that it is as fierce as Qiao Feng vs. Juxianzhuang and Guan Yuganli riding alone, and for the other party, a cup of milk tea is a cup of milk tea, which cannot carry the love of the landslide and the ground crack that you want to place on it. When I was a teenager, I always couldn't wait to express my love for me, but the result was often caught in the performance without knowing it.

Therefore, the memories of two people will be skewed, and those past that you feel will be unforgettable, the other party often does not have the same feeling, or even ignores it. The sign of growth is to restrain yourself. Restrain your emotions, restrain your desire to perform, and even restrain your liking.

When I was a teenager, I liked someone and hated to turn her into a part of my body, she just said that it was cold, my heart was already frozen, she said, I was immediately like a mourner, more sad than her, lest I not be able to express my love. In fact, no one can bear the value of another person, only by being an independent and valuable person can we truly learn to love another person. Don't try to change another person, it's doomed to be futile.

Just be yourself, the true precept of love lies in mutual attraction and like-minded peers, rather than chasing and attachment and self-touching.