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You should study hard and let your classmates communicate with you automatically, so that you can be popular. If that doesn't work, then you can automatically communicate with your classmates on your own, which is also great!
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Be sincere with your classmates. I also have to be good to my classmates, smile more, my relationship with my classmates is good, the key is to talk to my classmates more, don't be shy, say hi to my classmates more, it's so simple, don't think about it so complicated.
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In the past, my popularity was not very good, so I should pay attention to changing the way I behave in the world, and communicate more with familiar family and friends. Let them point out your shortcomings and correct them. A person who has a good relationship with his family around him, and his interpersonal relationships are not bad in society.
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Recruit more communication with classmates, be good at discovery, call enough, exercise more, and communicate more
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To be honest, it's hard What kind of environment can a technical school be Wipe the bright spots with your eyes Don't make bad friends.
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Be humble, know how to be grateful and courteous. Be principled and tolerant.
You also have to pay attention to your speech.
It doesn't matter if you go out to play with money or not, it's best to explain AA, and it's okay to have occasional treats.
Pay attention to making friends, observe first, and don't think that the friends you make have no effect on you!
If you do the above points, you are not afraid of bad popularity. At least you can eat at school.
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Communicate more with your classmates and be good at discovery.
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Treat everyone with your sincerity!
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One word, laugh, greeting enough.
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Be honest and don't lie.
A bit of a character of its own.
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A few tips of your own.
1.Set up a less perfect character for yourself, and you don't have to respond to others' needs, otherwise most people will only gain an inch.
2Don't judge others behind your back, and don't go along with others' evaluations.
3.Don't be a bad person, you must have a bottom line.
4.Friends are made by choice, you can't make everyone satisfied, some people are really out of sight, and you don't have to talk awkwardly in front of people who don't get along with you at all.
5.Friends can be simple, but don't be casual because you don't know what kind of person he is.
6.When you first get to know someone, you can be enthusiastic, talk about it first, and take the initiative on the topic.
Finally, in fact, there will always be great expectations for a new life package before we start school, but you can't be perfect, and if you are a social manager, then too much socializing can really be tiring.
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How to make the start of school popular? That is, to give everyone a good impression at the beginning of the school year, or to have a humorous speech.
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Actually, you just have to be yourself. It's gold that always shines. I believe that it has been a long time. There are more people who touch your heart.
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If you want to be popular, first of all, you should let others see you in your style and behavior, and treat others with sincerity, which is simply how to interact with others.
First of all, you have to take the initiative, you can't just wait for others to talk to you, often a person with good popularity is very lively and cheerful, so try to show your personality, show your own strengths, good popularity, you must have a sincere heart to communicate.
LEARN TO TRY ...
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The more I think about it, the worse it gets.
You have to keep a low profile first.
Low-key is a prerequisite.
At the very least, no one will hate you.
You don't care what other people think.
Slowly blend in with the group and be a little more easy-going.
You will find that it won't be long before you will have more friends.
You will also have joy.
Your own mind is important.
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First of all, you have to have a good character. Easy-going point.
Be cheerful. Love to laugh and be generous.
Be bold and don't pay attention to getting angry over a little thing.
Don't be too flamboyant.
You must know how to deal with conflicts between classmates.
Don't take sides.
Treat classmates equally.
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I think you can't be proud in the first place, don't let others think that you are distant, very cold.
It's a bit empty to say that you treat each other with sincerity, but you really have to look at others as friends first, and don't associate with others out of any strong relationship.
You need to understand different people's hobbies and personalities, find topics that interest others when getting along with different people, and don't be too self-centered.
Another thing is to chat with others more and do some group activities on weekdays. Don't isolate yourself and don't isolate others.
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The first is cordiality. People who love to put on a show, everyone will stay away when they see it. Being able to put down your status anytime and anywhere and get along happily with other people is a person who is truly loved.
Whether it is a big official, a big boss, a big person, or a big star, he is willing to get close to the people around him, keep a happy mood at any time, and be willing to say some homely words.
The second point is cheerfulness. People who are happy every day will like it when they see it. With a smile on his face, he will feel happy to meet him, and this optimistic attitude will unconsciously infect the people around him, and everyone will involuntarily want to get close to him.
The third point is zealousness. Those who are enthusiastic in the group will always be respected by others. Many people are afraid of trouble for some trivial things, and will only blindly shirk, always thinking why I am doing it, and always afraid of losing, such people are not easy to be welcome.
Enthusiastic people, many people will stand up and do it when they need help; Sometimes we don't care about the benefits we lose to benefit the public, and we tend to feel grateful and respectful of such a person for what he has done.
The fourth point is humor. People who can laugh and make everyone happy have the upper hand wherever they go. Everyone loves pistachios, but who loves to be sad? Although they may have a lot of bitterness behind them, but they still bring out laughter when facing everyone, who can not love them?
The fifth point is to look good. Among the ugly people, there are also people who are likable, but if you are good-looking, take advantage of them everywhere! This is an undeniable fact.
The psalmist says, "Beauty is eternal joy." "It is human nature to like beautiful things, and beautiful people are surrounded by people everywhere, which is also a reflection of this nature.
Appearance, dressing, and dressing can make people feel pleasing to the tax, and they are also important conditions for attracting people!
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First of all, self-esteem and self-confidence, neither humble nor arrogant.
The people in the same dormitory must come from all over the motherland, some from the countryside, some from the city, some from the remote areas of ethnic minorities, and some students with local household registration.
Every freshman wants to make a good impression on others, and wants his dormitory to live in harmony and harmony, but the "first cause effect" of psychology tells us that people are particularly susceptible to the influence of first impressions when making judgments. Therefore, after new students move into the dormitory, they must pay attention to the creation of first impressions.
What makes a good first impression? That is, self-esteem and self-confidence, neither humble nor arrogant.
After some rural students enter the university, due to the big gap between them and the children of urban working families in many aspects such as appearance, dress, and family conditions, it is easy for them to show inferiority complex, and gradually become taciturn and unsociable, which is particularly unfavorable to the formation of good popularity.
Once the first impression is made, it's really hard to change it later.
Therefore, be sure to leave the first impression of self-esteem, self-confidence, neither humble nor arrogant to your roommate. Perhaps the imprint left on you by your family of origin is very obvious, but you have become classmates with other people through your own efforts and live in the same dormitory, which is enough to prove that there is no difference between you and them.
You came here to change your destiny and run for a good future, and your efforts are all your confidence. If you don't look down on yourself, no one will look down on you!
Clause. 2. Learn to share, be warm and friendly.
In the university dormitory, most of them are students who have left their hometowns. If you are a freshman, you may wish to bring a little more souvenirs from your hometown to school when school starts.
Strangers usually need to have an "ice-breaking" link when they meet for the first time, if you use hometown snacks as ice-breaking props between roommates, you can avoid the uncomfortable chat, and secondly, you can increase the topicality, enhance the understanding and trust between each other from point to face, and lay a preliminary foundation for the establishment of good popularity.
With a little effort, you can reap the first wave of good impressions, so why not?
Of course, if you want to build a lasting good relationship, it's not enough to rely on first impressions. In the days that follow, whether it's sharing items, snacks, notes, or gossip, it's all about reinforcing the first impression you're happy to share.
It is obviously not appropriate to maintain interpersonal relationships just for the sake of good popularity, and you must truly integrate yourself into the collective of the dormitory, exchange sincerity for sincerity, exchange friendship for friendliness, and give more care and help to others.
But remember one thing, you are just enthusiastic and active to be kind to others, by no means to please and please without a bottom line, you are equal to every roommate, once someone blindly takes advantage of your "don't care", you also have to learn to refuse.
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Hello, junior brother... I'm in college now, and I used to be in a different situation than you, but I think my advice should help you:
1) Let me first analyze why you are not popular, or why you can't attract the attention of others.
First, your current academic performance is not very good, it can be regarded as the middle level, the most important academic performance in high school, your academic performance is good, the teacher praises more, you will naturally attract the attention of others, those who love to study will sometimes come to ask you questions, and those who do not like to study will feel that you are at least not useless.
Second, there are a few classmates who are not very good with you, and other classmates may subconsciously feel that if they are good friends with you, it may affect the relationship with them, and if their relationship circle is relatively wide, the classmates who are good friends with them are likely not to get too close to you;
Thirdly, looking at your recent situation and the tone of your speech, I think your own attitude is definitely not very positive now, and everyone will definitely not be attracted to a dull boy.
2) Actually, junior high school to high school changes a lot, and the situation you encounter is easy to understand. Most of the students who went to high school will study hard, and the subjects have increased, the difficulty has increased, and if your own attitude is not very serious, of course it will be surpassed by other students, I will give you a few suggestions, you go and do it, it will definitely be useful:
First, change your attitude, get up early every day, strive for the first few to go to school for self-study, and study seriously, will the teacher follow the class to see the self-study? Do teachers often praise students who arrive early and work hard? If you are praised, everyone will naturally notice you, if not, at least you will show the attitude that you want to work hard, and everyone will be aware of your existence;
Second, improve your grades. Grades are the most convincing, there is always no mistake in studying well, and there is a voice in teachers and students with grades;
Third, find opportunities to communicate with others. The opportunities are all created by yourself, for example, if you have something to do, ask the questions of the classmates at the front and back tables, and you can become familiar with it once a day, and slowly expand the scope of your understanding;
Fourth, more physical exercise, playing basketball, running, or something has the fastest relationship with boys, and when the physique comes up, there will naturally be a mature model;
Fifth, read more books, things with connotation can make you mature.
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For one,Copy a class will have at least one male classmate who is particularly popular.,You get acquainted with him a little bit.,Through him, you'll be familiar with other male classmates.,It's okay to be slow.。 Remember not to be stuck in the women's pile all day long, I remember that my high school classmate was a little similar to yours, he especially liked to be tied in the women's pile, and as a result, basically no one in our class looked down on him, and he didn't even have a boy who knew him after graduation.
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