When liking someone becomes a habit, how do you quit it?

In fact, many people have encountered this problem, when liking a person becomes a habit, we should be very uncomfortable, and when we like a person but can't have it, it will be particularly painful. If it were me, I would do something that interests me and distract myself until I forget about him and quit the habit. <>

I think if the person I like doesn't like me, I'll quit the habit, but if the person I like also likes me, I won't quit the habit, why? Because I think it's equal to say that he likes me and I like him, but if I like him and he doesn't like me, I will think later, if it's worth it, what do I get? Or maybe I like him because I really like him, or because I am unwilling.

Liking a person becomes a habit, which is a very bad phenomenon, once liking a person becomes a habit, we will give a lot of things for him, and we will often lose ourselves. We can do something we like, take our time to distract ourselves, go on a trip with our best friends, or whatever.

I think if you really want to quit and you don't like someone very much, you can try to talk to her, and if you're a couple, I think you can talk to him and say that I might be in the habit of liking you now. What about you? If you like me too, then let's keep this good habit alive.

In my opinion, liking someone becomes a habit, and if that person can bring you something good and positive, then why should we choose to quit it, and we can completely base ourselves on this to become better and better. If I like to be a person and become a habit and make myself worse and worse, then we need to reflect on ourselves deeply. What do you live for?

For yourself or for others.

I think it's a good habit to say that if you like someone as a habit, and of course if that person also likes you, I think it's a good habit, that is, you can slowly try not to be as centered on him as before, but sometimes think about yourself more, don't lose yourself in love, and don't lose yourself in love.

When liking someone becomes a habit, this is a phenomenon that many couples in love will have. If, in the process of falling in love, we can all change ourselves for each other and make ourselves very good, then this habit, I think, is a good habit, and we should not quit it.

In fact, we have also heard that many people say that love is a journey, and marriage is a practice, so in fact, I don't know if you are in this state of love or marriage, so I think that no matter which state you are in, you must let yourself find what you really like, you can give up some things for her, but you can't give up everything for him.

Like one thing, like to eat something, as long as it is the kind of liking in the bones, it will make you have an endless aftertaste and a long aftertaste.

Like a person too, from the heart of the like, often rooted in the bones, infiltrated into the blood, if you are lucky enough to be able to love all the time, just taste the afterglow of love, will make you feel very happy.

In the same way, if you have loved someone deeply, but in the end you have not been able to love all the time, then the afterglow of your heart will not bring you enjoyment, but torture.

It's a habit, and when love becomes a habit, it's not so easy to suddenly get you to quit.

Therefore, if you want to get out of the shadow brought to you by feelings, you have to start from the root and think more about how to quit the habit of love. Many times, after a relationship has come to an end, you still can't forget what you can't forget is the feelings you gave to him, not him.

Here's a woman who felt the same way, and let's hear how she uses her experience to enlighten her colleagues.

The colleague had just recently gone through a breakup, perhaps because that relationship was once important to her, and she used to love each other deeply, so she has been thinking about it since the breakup.

I listen to it every time she confides, and I listen to it every time she complains about her ex-boyfriend, and some of her sleepy but other colleagues are impatient, and feel that she has been unable to forget her ex-boyfriend, which is a manifestation of irresponsibility to herself, "Since you still cherish him, you still love him, just go back to him." I keep complaining but I can't forget him, what's the point of burying it? ”

I can't hear such words, and it seems to me that people who say such things often do not experience unforgettable feelings. So, I gave that colleague this comfort:

You can not care about other people's gossip, but you have to be clear in your own heart: what you can't forget is the feelings you gave to him, not him.

If it was him that you couldn't forget, and you didn't need to be reminded, you would have gone back to him a long time ago. Since you don't have the will to get back together, you deny him in every way, and keep talking about the previous relationship, which shows that you are unwilling, and you feel that all your previous efforts have been in vain.

Since what you feel sorry for is the feelings you give, it is equivalent to feeling sorry for yourself. Since you feel sorry for yourself, then love yourself well, slowly quit the habit of love that you developed before, and make it a habit to love yourself, and then find someone who really loves you, and you won't be so painful. 』

Summary. How to quit liking a person? Focus on your career or work and have less time to think about this person.

In addition to liking a person, there are more beautiful things in life that are worthy of our attention. If the person likes you, and you like her, you naturally have to treat the person well. If this person doesn't like you, you like this person, and the two of you don't have the possibility of being together, then why be amorous?

Wouldn't it be nice to find happiness that truly belongs to you, because the other person is also happy? Like is based on both sides, one-sided likes are just amorous, you will find that you come to this world, you always like a lot of people and things. We must be brave to look forward, since the present is not the best, there must be the best in the future.

If you have the best now, you must cherish the present. Feelings are the strong backing and motivation for career success, and at the same time, the brilliance of the career is the umbrella of good feelings.

How to infiltrate and quit liking a person? Focus on your career or work and have less time to think about this person. In addition to liking a person, there are more beautiful things in life that are worthy of our attention.

If the person likes you, and you like her, you naturally have to treat the person well. If this person doesn't like you, you like this person, and the two of you don't have the possibility of being together, then why be amorous? Wouldn't it be nice to find happiness that truly belongs to you, because the other person is also happy?

Like is based on both sides, one-sided like is just amorous, you will find that you come to this world, you always like a lot of people to take things together. We must be brave to look forward, since the present is not the best, there must be the best in the future. If you have the best now, you must cherish the present.

Feelings are the strong backing and motivation for career success, and at the same time, the brilliance of the career is the umbrella of good feelings.

If you don't understand something, please feel free to consult me, be satisfied, give a like, and wish you a happy life.

Summary. Hello, based on your question, I found the following answer:

You know the other person's habits, and you think they are better. And if you care about each other very much, you will want to be on par with each other in your heart, learn some of each other's habits to become your own habits, and make the two of you more similar, which is also a manifestation of love. If you don't love, you won't think like that.

I hope it can help you, give it a thumbs up.

If you like someone, you will turn his habit into your own.

Hello, based on your question, I found the following answer: you know the other person's habits, and you think such habits are better. And if you care about each other very much, you will want to be on par with each other in your heart, learn some of each other's habits to become your own habits, and make the two of you more similar, which is also a manifestation of love.

If you don't love, you won't think like that. I hope it can help you, give it a thumbs up.

I must like to chat frequently.

There is definitely an element of liking in frequent chats, and another aspect is that you are more speculative in chatting, and what you say makes each other comfortable.

What kind of performance does it mean to like?

Hello, liking a person is to think of him from time to time, repeat what he said from time to time, remember some of the words he said about care, be very happy, haven't contacted him for a while, feel lost in my heart, and so on.

Improve yourself, strengthen yourself, find something for yourself, keep yourself busy, have no time to think about him, and slowly let go of him.

In fact, Yan Ku thinks that I should still divert my attention, or let myself have other things to enrich my life of respecting dates. In this way, you can let go of some things that used to be bright.

In fact, I think that if you want to put down a person to touch the sedan chair, then you should devote yourself to your work, let the busy work occupy most of your time, and slowly forget the other party.

Don't deliberately forget, believe that time will dilute everything, find more things to do, immerse yourself in work will make you forget a lot of things.

Try to observe some of his flaws and tell yourself that he is not that good either. Then try to turn your attention to yourself, or to something else that is good.

Look at that person from an objective point of view, find out more about his shortcomings, so that you will slowly find that he is not so good.

Then divert your attention, distract more, hang out with friends more, and listen to more songs. Or maybe it's putting your career first, and you forget a lot of things as soon as you're busy.

I think you should pay attention to others, and soon you will find that there are many excellent people in the world, and there are many people who are better than him, so you will slowly let go.

I think it's okay to keep your distance from each other, it's best to stay away from each other, and don't contact each other again. However, the most effective way is to go straight to someone you like more.

Don't let your time be free to quit liking someone, such as learning a skill again and making your life full every day.

Throw away everything about that person and start another relationship, dilute the liking for a person with the sweetness of another relationship.

Find yourself an emotional sustenance again, this sustenance can be a person, a thing, or something, such as a cute pet, graduate school entrance examination or other goals.