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Be kind to setbacks The long years, the vast sea of people, and the road of life are full of ups and downs. For example, life difficulties, failure in the college entrance examination, failure to change jobs, no hope of promotion, poor physical fitness, no way to borrow, obstruction of work, unwarranted control, and other natural and man-made disasters. Whether you like it or not, whether you like it or not, setbacks can come at any time.
How should we view setbacks and how should we deal with them?
Since ancient times, heroes have suffered many hardships". Historically, many people with lofty ideals have made extraordinary achievements in the struggle against setbacks. After Sima Qian was tortured by the palace, he wrote a book in anger and wrote the famous book "Historical Records", which was praised by Lu Xun as "the swan song of the historian and the rhyme of the separation".
**Home Beethoven, the setbacks of his life are indescribable. He lost his mother at the age of seventeen, became deaf at the age of thirty-two, and then fell into the agony of a broken love. For a ** family, what a blow this is!
But Beethoven was not depressed or discouraged, and he wrote in a letter: "I want to take fate by the throat, and it will never be able to bring me to its knees." "He has always lived tenaciously and created with great difficulty, becoming the world's immortal home.
Although setbacks bring pain to people, it can often temper people's will and stimulate people's fighting spirit; It can enable people to learn to think, adjust their behavior, and achieve their goals in a better way to achieve a brilliant career. Scientist Beveridge said, "People's best work is often done in the face of adversity."
Therefore, it can be said that setbacks are a special environment for cultivating talents.
Of course, setbacks don't make talent on their own, and not everyone who experiences setbacks can make a difference. The French writer Balzac said: "Frustration is like a stone, it is a stumbling block for the weak, it makes you intimidated; And for the strong, it is a stepping stone to make you stand taller.
Only those who hold a lofty purpose in life, establish lofty ideals of life, and consciously temper in setbacks, rise up in setbacks, and pursue in setbacks, can hope to become strong in life.
The French writer Balzac once said: "Frustration is like a big stone, it is a stumbling block for the weak, so that you can not move forward; And for the strong is a stepping stone to make you stand taller. "Only by holding a lofty purpose in life, establishing lofty ideals, constantly tempering and rising up in the midst of setbacks, can it be possible to obtain a taste of victory and joy like a sweet spring.
So don't gnash your teeth in the face of setbacks, it is precisely because of setbacks that we can better reap success.
To be kind to setbacks is to be kind to life and life.
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When Armstrong stepped on the moon, he became a household name for the phrase "I took a small step personally, but humanity took a big step", but there was also a man named Aldrin who landed on the moon with him, although it is strange to us, but it also makes us admire.
At a press conference celebrating the success of the moon landing, a reporter suddenly asked Aldrin a very pointed question: "Do you feel a little sorry that Armstrong became the first person to land on the moon as a fellow traveler?" The relaxed atmosphere of the scene froze all of a sudden, and under the somewhat embarrassed gaze of everyone, Aldrin said very humorously:
Guys, don't forget, I was the first to step out of the capsule when I returned to Earth! He looked around and smiled and said, "So I'm the first person to come to Earth from another planet." In the midst of laughter, everyone gave him the warmest applause ......
There was a wise man who went on a trip with a friend. As he traveled through a valley, the wise man slipped and fell, and his friend tried his best to hold him to the bottom. When the wise man was saved, he insisted on carving it in stone.
His friend asked: Is it really necessary to do this? Said the wise man
Of course. So, he carved on the stone: On a certain day, a certain year, a certain month, while passing through a certain valley, my friend so-and-so saved my life, and after the carving, they continued their journey.
One day, on the beach, two people quarreled over an incident, and the friend was angry and slapped the wise man. The wise man covered his feverish face and said, "I must write it down!"
His friend said, "Remember me, I'm not afraid!" The wise man then found a stick and wrote on the stall after the tide receded:
On a certain day, on the beach of such and such a year, my friend such and such slapped me. After reading it, my friend asked him puzzled: Why don't you carve it in stone?
The wise man laughed and said, "What I have told the stone is what I am afraid of forgetting, and I will let the stone remember it for me; And the things I told the beach are things that I can't forget, and I'm going to let the beach forget for me. Friends are ashamed.
A smart person knows how to be kind to others, he will not hold on to each other's mistakes, and he will use his own way to get out of the story of no results. Decades later, people may have forgotten Aldrin, but they can't forget his virtue of sharing the happiness of his friends. Let's leave all the things that are not worth remembering to the beach, let the sea sweep away those unpleasantness, and with the birth of a new round of sunrise is your carefree smiling face and flawless heart.
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Be kind to setbacks. It is inevitable that there will be some setbacks in people's lives waiting for us to challenge and meet. But what you leave behind is success and joy.
Setbacks are our friends on the road of life, motivating us and making us strong and persevering. Let us have direction.
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