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Anonymous users2024-02-06I think it's like an ordinary friend, you just want to open a little bit, in fact, it's impossible for everyone to have no friends of the opposite sex around them, and then you may think that this kind of friends of the opposite sex is very difficult to treat. But I think it's okay to know that we girls will have male girlfriends around them, and I think there's nothing wrong with boys having some female friends who are similar to female girlfriends. I'm willing to turn my boyfriend's female "brother" into an ally.
A lot of times there are a lot of words, in fact, the guy doesn't want to hear it directly from his girlfriend's mouth, so we can tell him directly through the boyfriend's female "brother", and then I think that this kind of words can sometimes solve a lot of conflicts, and I think the probability of quarreling will be much lower. <>
And I think we should treat female "brothers" who are boyfriends a little better than ordinary friends. Because we can tell our boyfriend a lot of things through her, such as what we think at this time, such as some thoughts that we can't say directly in front of our boyfriend. I think this is a very beneficial help, and I think there is nothing wrong with having an extra friend, it is better to be able to convert the boyfriend and female "brother" into your best friend, and if you have a united front, then it will be better.
However, it still depends on the person. If you find that your boyfriend's girl "brother" has some thoughts about him, I think we should let those of us who are girlfriends make it clear to her at this time, because some problems can only be understood between girls, and boys are reflex arcs.
It's a long time and it's not possible to understand the problem at all. I usually ask the girl out at this time and tell her that now I am her friend's girlfriend, and then I hope that even if she has thoughts about him, she will not ruin our relationship, but I will still treat her as a friend. Because I think this person is still my boyfriend's friend, I just hope that she doesn't do anything out of line, and if this person does something out of line, I probably think I'll confess this to my boyfriend, and then let's all three of us face this problem together.
In short, I have one rule for my female "brother" with my boyfriend: treat her as my own friend. But I still have to divide people and things, I don't blindly treat her as my enemy or my ally, but to see if she has any effect on my relationship with my boyfriend.
As long as it doesn't have a big impact, I think it's good to have another friend, but if she seriously affects my relationship with my boyfriend, I won't let it go, and I still have to solve the problem strongly when it's time to be tougher. <>
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Anonymous users2024-02-05After falling in love, many boys will bring their girlfriends to meet their brothers. So what kind of psychology did my boyfriend take me to meet his brothers? I think there's a show-off, a warning or just a desire to bring you into his circle of friends.
First of all, let's talk about the psychology of showing off. After a guy has a girlfriend, if the girlfriend is beautiful and has a good figure, she will wear makeup and dress up. Then the boy will feel that it is very face-saving to bring such a girlfriend out.
Especially if your brother doesn't have a girlfriend. The hand code is used by boys to bring girlfriends to meet brothers, and there is no lack of showing off psychology. Because I want my brothers to see how good they are, to be able to find such a beautiful and beautiful girlfriend.
Looking at the envious eyes of my brothers, I think my boyfriend's heart must be very proud at this moment.
Secondly, let's talk about this, there may also be a warning mentality. Maybe your boyfriend has had a girlfriend many times before, and bringing you to his brothers is also to make it clear to his brother that you are now his girlfriend. Let his brothers not make a mistake on any occasion and at any time, so as not to cause you misunderstanding.
Again, maybe your boyfriend is taking you to meet his brothers just to bring you into his circle of friends, and has no other special meaning. Because he feels that your feelings are to the point where you can declare them to the people around you. He wants you to enter his circle of friends, his social circle, he wants you to know more about him, maybe he wants to go to the end with you.
So the boyfriend goes to take you to meet his brothers, there may be all kinds of psychology. But no matter what, as long as he is willing to take you into his circle of friends and meet his brother, then it means that he recognizes you to a certain extent. He thinks it's time for you to go public, and at this time, don't think too much, don't hesitate, dress up beautifully, and go with him to meet his brothers.
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