88 years old, female. Isn t it abnormal that I haven t been in a relationship until now?

Updated on society 2024-02-26
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, I'm older than you, but I don't either, never bothered by this problem, it's not that I don't want to or no one chases, but I haven't met one that can make my heart move, you don't take this problem too seriously, and often see a sentence, which probably means "you have to make yourself better first, pamper yourself more, so that you will meet a better one" "No matter how old it is, no matter how urged by your family, don't treat marriage casually, marriage is not playing cards, and reshuffling will pay a huge price." Don't marry for the sake of being responsible, you know, it's the most irresponsible thing to marry each other without loving each other. Even if it makes the other party very sad at the time, it is better than making him sad for the rest of his life.

    Sometimes, being single is a form of confidence and honesty....This has always been my concept, the so-called "marriage is predestined", isn't it?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's so normal. Take our class as an example, there are 20 girls in the class, and there are only three of them who introduced me, no, now it's a matter of who to talk about, serial...Now it is advocating late marriage and late childbearing, so the time of love is postponed. It's all fart. It's true that I didn't find the right one.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not that it's abnormal, many people's first love is a marriage partner, maybe you are like this. So don't think it's abnormal, what if you haven't been in love, just be happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's nothing, anyway, if you get married, or bondage, we've decided, we won't marry for life, we have to fight for our careers, and when we get old, we'll go to a nursing home, and if you die anyway, it's a handful of ashes, hehe.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There's nothing out of the ordinary, because the half that attracts you is a little far away from you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's a little, but maybe I didn't find the right one!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's a little bit, but it's nothing, and I haven't talked about it in '88.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not abnormal.1 Everyone is different.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then take the bold first step!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you don't meet your heart, can you settle for you?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When you meet someone you like, you should take the initiative to chase it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There are more than 30 people who have never been in love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't worry too much about it, because everyone's focus is different. If you feel that you need to talk about it now, you must find someone who is good for you, and find someone who feels good. It's better not to talk about it, it's better not to talk about it, it's for yourself to fall in love, not for others to see.

    You can participate in more activities, get to know more people, and maybe you will find your own happiness in any meeting.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In love? I'll talk about myself.

    I didn't understand it when I was in elementary school.

    When I was in middle school, I didn't know that liking and waiting for it was not the same as love.

    I wanted to love in high school, but no one dared to love.

    I finally got to college, and I played games all night, and I was more impulsive than looking for a daughter-in-law, and I always thought that I still had four years to go, and some time to develop.

    When I finally graduated, I found myself twenty-four.

    I also found that I was not normal, and it turned out that it was still chunan, and he bluntly said, "I've been working for almost two years, and love is really a luxury for me."

    Seeing those guys in their early 20s really feels old!

    You say I'm looking for a few years younger than myself People say I'm an old cow eats tender grass You say I'm looking for someone my age I can't give people a Mercedes-Benz BMW You say I'm looking for my own big One people say my child hasn't taken off the fart curtain yet.

    Ay! Love! How to love, or calm down, let it be.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You're thinking too much - = what's wrong with not being in a relationship? That's a hot commodity If you really want you to say you're very good Why do you always compare yourself with others I'm 17 years old and I'm in love at the age of 24 I'm still heartbroken Maybe I'm pursuing perfection I haven't talked about it until now It's also that my external conditions are too poor No way We men need to work hard to fall in love and get married You women don't need - = believe in yourself You're cute Or let's talk As long as you don't think I'm different from most people.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Actually, it's not a failure, it's because you haven't met what you like. It's good to be alone, free and easy, although you will envy when you see others holding hands in pairs, but you have to believe that there is someone you love waiting for you behind. If you don't fall in love, you want to be in love, and when you're in love, you know what troubles are and what headaches are.

    You're still in school, and when you go out to work, the environment changes, and you come into contact with more people, you'll understand and you'll know what kind of people you like. If you work and socialize, you will meet people you like. I think it's a failure for you to say that you haven't been in love at such an age is a failure to understand love, love is not a toy, and you don't have to have it at that age.

    You have the idea of trying to fall in love, not the love you really want. You'll know when you actually meet someone you like. I hope you end your singleness as soon as possible and meet a happy lover who suits you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Try online dating, come quickly. Go fast, too. Think of it as practice, as long as you don't mess around.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    So it's normal for you to say that a boy your age hasn't been in love? I've never been in a relationship either, so it's normal, and I want to find someone to fall in love with but I just don't know how.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hehe, it's so normal Another reason is that you are closed off for fear that others will cheat on your feelings You can talk about love as much as you want As long as you don't dedicate yourself to him What kissing Hug Holding Hands I think it's okay Come on, I hope you can find your other half.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you haven't been in love, your fate has not yet arrived, and when fate comes, you will naturally fall in love, some people say happiness.

    I strive for it on my own.

    Genus... But there's one thing you can do on your own, but you can't force it too much." You can try it, and take the initiative to take the initiative if you like. . . I hope you find your own prince, come on!!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I'm bai24 this year, and I haven't talked about it yet.

    It's nothing, isn't it?

    Many girls talk about zhi

    It's over, not dao

    It's because I met it.

    And just because I can't endure the loneliness.

    A male friend of mine told me.

    My classmates knew that I had always been single, and they didn't believe it or think I was hypocritical.

    In fact, if you don't get along, you never know that you will love someone so much, most of the girls are in love, and they start to love more and more (this is different from boys) If it doesn't end, you will never know, how can there be an end to so strong love, I don't want to mislead you, the key is to decide for yourself. If you decide to persevere, but sometimes you can't hold on, then listen to Liang Jingru's "Belonging", listen to SHE's "Far Away", I hope to give you strength.

    If you decide to give up on this insistence, then, remember, don't regret it, don't just hold hands, but don't let go after holding hands.

    One of my psychology students said that in fact, if you have never been in a relationship, you will be more cautious about dealing with a partner for the first time, which is normal. You should also be a more stubborn girl like me, although you can't see it on the surface, laugh

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    After reading your article, I am really depressed, and it is really sad that my college time is spent on falling in love here! It's best to work hard to enrich yourself in college, men should focus on their careers first, and when men's careers do well, there will naturally be many people who love you. It's not too late to talk.

    You don't have anything now, falling in love delays other people's youth, and if you have everything, you're thinking about it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Why is it not normal, you have this kind of thinking is not normal,,, just find a suitable one, can go to the end,, school and love a few can do it to the end,,, school love is love for love,,That's not what we want,,Isn't it,,The student's love leaves a memory,Leaving the most is still pain,,Why do it,"Since you don't want to talk about it, why bother to add wounds to yourself" Just do it yourself,,, the current era. How can a woman be without a husband?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I haven't been in love, it's just that your fate hasn't arrived yet, and you can't stop it if you really come Don't worry so much, your him may be waiting for you not far away

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Actually, I've never been in a relationship either! I'm '91. It's 20, but I don't have to worry, it's okay and I'm with you, let's look for it together!!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Don't worry, according to my observation, those who are in a hurry to fall in love at school are not in good condition, boys also want to practice in school first, and when they go out to mix in society, they have the experience to cheat on their wives, and he doesn't dare or want to work hard to get ...... when the conditions are goodAs for you not seeing what you like, it's normal, the boys in the students are relatively naïve and unlikable......When you arrive at the unit, there will be a lot of people chasing you, so keep your eyes open and pick ......

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Sister, calm. The younger brother is 22 juniors, and he is definitely not ashamed of his appearance, not to mention his long face, he has never talked about it, and the reason has been fruitless for six years. Recently, I thought that I didn't fall in love when I was young, and I was a bit of a failure.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This situation is normal, don't think too much, you will meet the right person.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Normal very! I didn't! The conditions are not very bad, maybe you are too demanding? Or maybe you're a bit of an introvert? In short, the boat is naturally straight to the bridge, so let it be! Now it's not just that fate hasn't arrived, and fate can't stop it!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You're good, brother, my demeanor is biased....It doesn't matter if I read that I haven't even touched a girl's hand in my freshman year (except for my biological mother), I should contribute to China's family planning!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Quite a few! Now the most pitiful is the post-80s, the girl is too realistic, there is no Li Gang's father, how can we live after the 80s, we will be almost thirty soon, career, love, savings, very few?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    At the age of 22, you feel like a leftover girl? It's early, right? It's normal to never be in love, this thing depends on fate, and it has to be eye-catching, if you fall in love for the sake of success, it's very troublesome.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    What's wrong with this I haven't met the right one How can I talk about it I'd rather lack than abuse Besides, isn't it good to be yourself.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Now it seems that "leftover women" are no longer a distinction in age, and adult unmarried women will be labeled as "leftover women" if they have less company around them. In order not to be labeled, for psychological balance, for life to be less stressful, for emotional, life and other reasons are not boring, boring and so on to make friends is very realistic and blameless, after all, people can't be separated from society, sometimes they are also weak and fragile, and men are more realistic than women.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    So what do you do? You can find one yourself... You're beautiful! Ha ha..

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Let's be honest - 7 points are normal, 3 points are not normal.

    As we all know, Chinese students' love has almost become a flood since elementary school, junior high school and high school, and college love is the spiritual pursuit and "compulsory course" of many people.

    Times are changing.

    It's not too late or too early for 88 years. If it is, I'm afraid it's a bit of a problem, but 88, it's understandable.

    Sometimes you can't find the right one.

    Sometimes it's not open enough, and if you miss it, you miss it.

    Sometimes the time and place are not in harmony.

    And sometimes it's the subconscious.

    Or the requirements are relatively high.

    Or more traditional.

    Or maybe it's hard to find.

    There are many reasons, and there are a lot of reasons.

    But it's never been talked about.

    It is recommended to try networking or take the initiative.

    Now the blind date show is so popular.

    It is because finding a suitable one, whether married or not, is a difficult thing, and the increasingly materialistic society and cruel competition.

    No one can afford to wait.

    No one is afraid to miss out.

    Maybe you've taken a step further today.

    Love is yours.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you don't take the initiative to fight for it, love will never be attached to you, and happiness is in your own hands.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It depends on whether you have a job now, if so, it's normal not to talk about it now, if not, then you have to hurry up and find one now! What's more, the girls nowadays are very anxious, and it's a bit difficult to find, but they still have a job and are relatively stable!

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's normal.

    I've never been in love in '89.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It's normal, because the material and spiritual of the current society are not on the same channel, plus the whole background is anxious, time fragments, and spiritual desolation, many people don't know what they want. I don't know myself, and I'm not excellent, let alone them, some people choose to be together because of loneliness, and then they are still not satisfied, because in fact, they don't really need it in their hearts, they understand you, and they complement you, this kind of person has always existed, and whether they can meet it is another matter. Recommend a small program, Xiaoxi psychological assessment, there are a lot of psychological tests here, if you don't know yourself, then go and take a look.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    If you don't want to talk about it, don't talk about it, and if you don't find a suitable one, don't talk about it There's nothing normal about it, just be happy with this kind of thing. Why listen to other people's opinions, it's my words, I'd rather be single for the rest of my life than compromise.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's normal, many young people want to start a business first and then start a family. But that doesn't mean you don't fall in love! If there is a suitable one, let's talk about it quickly!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It's normal, but now society is materialized and impetuous, and there are more people who have never been in love.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Normal, may not have met the right one.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Big brother, this is a very normal thing, don't you have money, you earn money first, I'll tell you how there will be a group of people who like you.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Poverty is normal, other reasons are unforgivable.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Specifically, you can chat with me privately, and I will teach you!

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