Marriage problems, help my friend come up with an idea, high IQ people in

It's so miserable, let's get a divorce, I feel that the woman's responsibility is a little bigger.

Because they will all think about other interests.

Because they know how to look at the big picture.

should be able to sincerely pay for the other party.

They think about solving problems.

Maybe it's because they're still in love with each other.

Find a suitable opportunity, when you are alone with the leader, say that the ** who picked up my friend just now, specifically told me not to tell anyone, is this matter particularly confidential? Next, let's see what the leader says. In any case, you've actually tactfully told the leader that you can't spread the word.

Since he is a big leader, I believe he will not pass this matter on casually, you can rest assured. Unless your friend leader has a particularly strong relationship with your leader, but if the relationship is particularly good, you won't need a driver to pass it on.

So, don't worry, your leader won't talk nonsense.

Fate is in your own hands again. In marriage, the other party's choice, I think 90 is my own vision, and 10 is fate. Try to live your life the way you want it to!

There is a degree of life, and many people can't grasp this degree well.

At the right time, I met the wrong person.

That is, you chose the wrong person, isn't it just not right?

You've missed your fateful opportunity.

I think it's the following:You don't need to preach your happiness all the time. Just like rich people don't make people hate them, however, people who like to show off everywhere and are very rich can be hated by other people.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. In love and marriage, we encounter all kinds of problems. When something unpleasant happens to us in our marriage, we want to tell someone about it.

However, there are some things that are always between husband and wife and should not be publicized everywhere. It's not a good thing to talk too much about yourself and your husband

Men's shortcomings. No one is 100% perfect. In marriage, we are two people who are close to each other.

Naturally, we know the shortcomings of the other half. Sometimes, we get angry because of each other's shortcomings, and even lead two people to fight. At this time, women will be especially angry and will want to tell outsiders if they are not careful.

The image of the husband and the wife complement each other, whether it is the image of the husband or the image of the wife. This is especially important for a family. Throughout the day, he advertised his husband's shortcomings to draw ridicule from outsiders.

Quarrels between husband and wife. It's normal for every couple to have a fight. But don't tell someone every time you fight.

My husband and I quarreled again. First of all, these things may become the topic of conversation after dinner. Secondly, how do you want your friends to understand you?

Would you scold with your husband? Or is it advisable that you not get angry? These quarrels between husband and wife have been revealed.

Friends are embarrassed now and will be embarrassed in the future, so try not to say anything if you can.

Because no one else likes you, talk about his shortcomings and make him aware of his own corrections. I don't show off too much in front of others. Then you may be jealous of others. This is the secret of the highly intelligent woman in the marriage who does not mention a word.

It's the information of the exes between each other.

The secret that women don't mention is their former boyfriends.

The only secret they don't know is money.

Personally, I think it's because they have too high emotional intelligence.

You should be more concerned.

In fact, it's not a secret, it's mainly a matter of closing one's eyes, thinking that it's not the main thing that damages the family, just get by, don't be too entangled, if the loss is too big, stop it immediately.

Husbands and wives should respect each other and be honest even if they cannot be together for various reasons. Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, and if you insist on divorcing your wife, you should consider a lawsuit instead of transferring or concealing property during the relationship, even if the property is purchased by way of a loan, it is also the joint property of the husband and wife.

Your information shows that you are a young woman, and this is often used, not a random new number. can be used to ask such a private question, it can be seen that the relationship between this man and the hostess of this is extraordinary, and the hostess of this is likely to be the junior of this man who asks questions. I thought you were stupid just now, but now it's not just stupid, it's still very bad, draw a circle and curse you dog men and women.

Persuade your wife to sue you quickly. Also, an extramarital affair like yours can be regarded as the fault that led to the divorce, and you will be liable for compensation.

Even if the down payment does not reach your wife's account, as long as the property obtained during the marriage relationship is considered joint property, your wife can still divide it according to law when she divorces. Your wife is also a stupid hat, how did she find such a bastard as you. She doesn't divorce because she wants to drag you down.

Let's put it this way, since you are already attracted to another person, it means that your feelings for your former boyfriend are starting to fade, although that boy is very good to you, it's just that your previous dependence makes you reluctant. And now you have begun to get used to seeing the gentle eyes of that colleague and rely on his care and care. Appreciating that a person can be captured easily, the natural weakness of girls and that strong desire to be protective, for those men who are both stable and mature, it is difficult to resist.

I think you were a person who had a vague concept of mate selection when you were in school, and even now, you are not emotionally determined, and you may be very emotional, but you should be a girl with a good connotation. If you can, I suggest you spend more time with your current colleague, but you have to know that you have to break up with your boyfriend, but I would remind you that you will regret it, but then maybe you will not be nostalgic for this boyfriend again.

Choose someone who is a few years older than you, if he is willing to hide all his weaknesses and shortcomings in your reluctance, if he is willing to shed tears for you, if he is willing to be selfish with you, if you feel free, happy and secure with him. If you feel pressured to be with him, don't be together, and one thing to remind you is that you may not be able to last long with your current boyfriend, because your heart can no longer fully belong to him. I'll say it by example.

The needs of a man in his 20s are not the same as those in his 30s.

But there is a problem with it, and 20-year-old men like it.

A 20-year-old girl, a 30-year-old man likes a 20-year-old girl, a 40-year-old man still likes a 20-year-old girl, when this 30-year-old man reaches the age of 40, will he find another 20-year-old to replace you?

Girl, in fact, you are very simple, your simplicity lies in believing in the love of a 30-year-old man, and believing that you can control a 30-year-old successful person.

This 20-year-old man has a lot of plasticity and the future is unpredictable, but this 30-year-old man is basically stereotyped.

Girl, you are very anxious, you are telling others between the lines, I am only in love for marriage, so how can you be sure that the other party's promise is true? 20-year-olds and 30-year-olds have the ability to lie and hide deeply, but they are not on the same level.

In short, it's your life.

What are the beauties doing these years?

1.is a wife for a rich man, which is generally a beautiful woman with good material conditions in itself. Those who don't have money generally can't get a long time when they find a rich family, but even if they get divorced, they make a lot of money.

2.Be the second and third mothers.

3.Be a junior.

Anyway, B is for people to, and it's definitely better to a poor husband than to give it to a rich person.

If you are willing to transfer, there are guaranteed to be a lot of people to grab.

Kindness. Man is fickle. When you don't love this du, leaving zhi is good for you and good for him!

Although this is cruel, it is necessary to answer it in return.

True! Feelings are like this, I love you today, and I may not love you tomorrow! Absolutely for no reason!

Because feelings are very delicate! It doesn't matter if you fall in love with this man because of conditions or people. Anyway, you're in love with it.

Since you are in love, choose what you want. Love is a matter of two people, and there can be no more than one person! You won't get either of them!

Kindness. People are fickle. Leaving this person when you don't love him is good for you and for him!

Although this version is cruel, it is necessary to face reality! Feelings are like this, I love you today, and I may not love you tomorrow! Absolutely for no reason!

Because feelings are very delicate! It doesn't matter if you fall in love with this man because of conditions or people. Anyway, you're in love with it.

Since you are in love, choose what you want. Love is a matter of two people, and there can be no more than one person! You won't get either of them!

If your boyfriend wasn't that poor, would you still fall in love with another person if he was as wealthy as this man later? Everyone is realistic, what kind of person you are is best known in your own heart, don't emphasize to others that you are not in love with the latecomer because of his good economic conditions, this does not show how noble you are.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, and you can't afford the consequences of making choices with a hot head.

How much do you know about the real situation of that latecomer, whether what you hear and see is what he lets you see and hear, as you described, his social experience is more than yours, then his scheming must be deeper than yours. He is a very nostalgic person, so he will not easily forget his ex-wife. I don't think you're a woman with a big heart, would you tolerate your husband having other women in his heart?

If you want to live comfortably materially, then you will marry a latecomer, but mentally you will be more tired. You can't control such a man, and it seems that you can't play with him. A career-oriented man will not care much about women, men have a strong desire to conquer, after having a small achievement, he wants a big achievement, and if he has a big one, he wants to be bigger, and the desire pushes him to want to stand at the peak of his career.

Man's mental power is limited, and what do you think he will give up at that time?

If you want to live a comfortable life mentally and emotionally, then you marry the first one, because in his heart you are the first. His family conditions are not good, but what about yours? You can work together, you are not a waste, and then ask your parents to help you, so that he will care more about you (of course, this person must have a conscience).

The choice is yours, you have to figure it out for yourself. I hope you are happy.

I haven't seen it, but there is one.

What others say is nonsense, and what you think is the most important thing. Calm down and think about it.

From the length of your writing about your boyfriend and your co-workers, you should know what you want and ask someone else.

Maybe for bai, you and the person you love are in du

It is fortunate to be together. Zhi Fu's matter, but you don't want to only take care of yourself, you are dragging on both sides now, if you are discovered, won't you be dead? It's better to think carefully before making a decision, so as not to end up hurting both of you. As for who to choose, you have to feel that this kind of thing is not something that outsiders can end by saying "choose him".

I hope you think about it.

The former may be what you talked about in the early days of the lonely system, while being alone for a long time

It's bland, it's like the first time someone ran home to cook for you.

dao, and then send it to your unit for you to eat, you will definitely be very moved, but if it is like this every day, it will be normal for you, but have you ever thought about it, the word every day, the concept of persistence, pet for two years, although the brother loves to cry, but it is also more persevering, support him, in fact, there is no love and no love, this word can be used by parents to their children, many times it is to defile this word, love, the shelf life of this thing is very short, not long, Your heart should be biased towards that mature and steady man now, and even if you have lost your mind a little, how long have you known him, how much do you know about him, how do you know that everything about him is so beautiful, so ideal, how do you know that everything is his ex-wife's fault, maybe, on his ex-wife's side, this story has changed again, because your heart is now biased towards him, everything about him is right, I don't know if this is the case, you now look at your former uncomfortable, There is no heartache anymore, only guilt, you don't love him anymore, because you have another choice, you should give up that poor boyfriend, he will have to accept your departure sooner or later.

I suggest you take a look at the dwelling.

Yes, but you have to think clearly, can be with you to persist in love until the end, the last is the boy's personal advice, don't give up on the past and present, anyone who has a curiosity about new things, so that there is a good feeling, worship is love, not love.

Choose a colleague! First, you have graduated from college, your boyfriend is still in high school, he may not know how to love you in high school, and he can't give you a future, although his colleague has been divorced, but because of this, he will cherish it more, and he will know how to love more, and he has a car and a house, and he has already achieved success in his career, so I think he can give you a future more! I hope you will adopt my answer.

Thank you, sister.