I m depressed, can anyone help me pay attention?

First of all, when your husband comes home, you have to make him feel very happy and warm, so that he feels that there is a big difference between having a wife and not having a wife, for example, you often make dishes that he likes to eat, even if you don't like to eat, you have to do it, or if he is interested, you go to echo him, in short, let him feel homesick, let him think that there is someone he expects at home, let him feel extra relaxed when he comes home, anyway, no matter how you think of more ways, you can tie your husband's heart, to be honest with my wife, She often makes delicious food or other things, she first thinks from my standpoint, which I honestly am very touched, although I don't show it, but I remember it in my heart. And don't be a little bit tempted to separate that idea at every turn, what to suffer and not suffer, you still think you are procrastinating, break up and break up. Life is like this, there is no perfection, as for whether you are happy or not, it depends on whether you will tie the man's heart, and when you have time, you can sit together and have a good chat, remember to say calmly, he is angry, you just endure it, and if you don't admit it, it will backfire.

And if your husband is really afraid of disturbing you, then I think both of you have problems, that is, there is too little communication, as if he still treats you as a girlfriend stage, for example, your husband said that he is afraid of disturbing you, you can say that we are both husband and wife, what is there to disturb or not bother, saying warm words Your husband will definitely be moved, on the contrary, you are good, you are not considered this home, don't you increase the contradiction, if your husband is sincere is afraid of disturbing your rest, Then how much he feels sorry for you, what do you say!

Because I have a lot of people around me who do engineering, one of the situations is: the nature of his work is like this, he has no way, he also has to support his family, he also has to work hard to earn more money for you, in this case, you care more about your husband from the emotional and life aspects, and actively communicate with him in all aspects, so that he can feel your deep love for him, pay and get are mutual, he gets a strong care and love, and naturally will work harder to love you and work for you, this is a virtuous circle, It is conducive to the management of marriage.

The second situation is: your relationship is not very deep, maybe he has someone he cares about (of course, the possibility is very small), how not he makes mistakes, his wife must learn to understand and be tolerant, there is nothing to pay a little more love, he can marry you, prove that you are still very good, and he still cares about you very much.

So I think that the wife should learn to understand and tolerate, after all, marriage is a very long process, don't give up easily!

He doesn't accompany you, and you also know that he should be busy, so you don't have to worry, what you have to do now is to be more considerate and considerate of him, let him feel your home, let him feel at home, feel that this home is warm. Be more concerned about him in life, preferably in details, such as when he comes home, you give him a cup of supplements that you have prepared for him [preferably you cooked for her], or when she doesn't tell you that he is not coming home, you wait for him, so that he knows that there is always a wife who loves him at home. Make him feel that he is less with you, but don't say it, love him to the fullest, be considerate of him, and make him feel guilty.

You should give him a feeling of appreciation. How to do it. It's up to you. There are many ways. There are also many introductions online. You can go for it.

Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that suffering losses, being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall, is the most valuable experience in your life

What you have to do is accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity, even the most painful thing.

Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.

Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much.

You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm!

I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself! In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely.

So, isn't it a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened? Is that right?

For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.

Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?

So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired!

In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life?

In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it.

Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life! ~

Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired.

There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made! ~^

So much to the point. You should work harder to face life.

Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!

May you shine every day! Happy and healthy :)

Maybe you can try to talk to your dad about your own thoughts and tell him about your struggles. There is nothing that the father and daughter can't say, the important thing is that you tell him sincerely and well. If your dad really can't do it, then you can make your boyfriend change, and wearing good clothes shouldn't be a bad thing for him.

Tell your boyfriend to try to put yourself in your dad's shoes. After all, it was also his father after that, and he should be filial. Give each other a little time, and give yourself a little time.

There's nothing that can't be solved. Believe in yourself, believe in your boyfriend, and even more so in your family.

Finally, I wish you a happy and happy marriage.

Don't think too much, everything has its own ending! No one can change it!

It may be that the ever-accelerating pace of work or life has brought you great mental pressure, feeling psychological troubles, and need to be adjusted.

Adjust the time of work and rest appropriately, set a time for exercise, take a break often, relax the tense nerves, and you will forget your worries.

How to relieve and eliminate mental stress?

Stress relief: Roar loudly when you get home.

5 minutes to vent the resentment in your heart; Then sit on the sofa and listen quietly to the light**.

15 minutes, and after that, you'll feel much more comfortable. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved. Hopefully, through psychological adjustment, you will be able to deal with similar situations correctly and make yourself physically and mentally happy.

You should listen to more ** and let the beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often.

You should also consciously slow down the pace of life, deal with all kinds of complicated things calmly and calmly, and do not blame yourself even if you do something wrong, which is conducive to people's psychological balance and also helps to relieve people's mental pressure. Be brave and face the reality, and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly.

You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in people from the bottom of your heart can not only enhance people's friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries are eliminated.

Have a good mood!

If you love.

Learn to wait.

I love her with all my heart.

So that you will have no regrets.

It wouldn't be sad not to get it.

I can only say that she does not have this blessing!!

Maybe she still has.

Reasons outside the order.

For example, the opposition of your family.

and so on for a deep communication.