I like to be alone and feel very calm in my heart

Everyone's personality is different, it is difficult to find people with similar personalities, it is with dissimilar people that in today's society, some people like to be lively, some people like to be quiet. I'm like you now, I like this feeling very much, sometimes I even want to stay in this place for the rest of my life, how nice it would be, but this is unrealistic, how much you love quiet people, you will have to contact with people you don't like, places you don't like, things you don't like, so that you will feel that you are different from them, you are not suitable to stay in this place. There is no need to spend your whole life in a place that you think is good, so that you will not find a place that could be better than this, and you love this place because it brings you peace.

I also love having this place and walking when I'm not happy. I would love to have such a place, I walked alone on the road full of maple trees on both sides, a gust of wind blew, the maple leaves on the trees fluttered down, I walked slowly, I really wanted to finish my life like this, but when I came to the end, I hoped that my life would also come to an end.

Boss, teach me quickly, how to deal with it calmly like you...

I'm just the opposite of you now, and I feel like I need someone to keep me company...

Congratulations. You've reached.

The realm of solitude and defeat.

There is no dispute with the world.

It's almost like a flying immortal.

It's normal, and I like it because it's stress-free and relaxing.

If there is such a good place, I also want to go for a walk, I don't know that there is such a good and beautiful place. Now the city is too noisy.

Are you in trouble or have you lost something?

Normal, I also like this kind of life.

Introverts are very withdrawn, I myself am such a character, sometimes I feel lonely, but I don't like to be busy.

It doesn't have to be an introvert.

People who like to be quiet are not as cold and arrogant as others describe them, but one thing is true - they are hard to please. It is also due to the strict screening of voices. Silence is just a state that hasn't been turned on yet, because you don't want to accept too much garbage to wear out on you, and you don't want to pour out too much to show yourself to irrelevant people.

That barrier has always stood in their hearts, a pure rotten and impenetrable wall to outsiders, and it only takes a few words to break it for their own kind. After all, when meeting confidants, wise people, or people or things that interest you, the desire to communicate is much stronger.

When they don't encounter a voice that is heart-wrenching, they are willing to listen to their own inner voice. It's also a rare feeling in a crowd, where the voice heard by others is often confused with the noise and panic that I hear through my own blood in the depths of my life.

After thinking about it, the most important thing that quiet people have in common is probably this - the standard of accepting sound is strict. As for habits, traits, and interests, they are just personal preferences.

How so? It's just a bit of an introvert. Don't worry too much about it.

Try to change, make more friends, talk more. Reach out to other people and you'll get better. Don't put pressure on yourself, don't worry too much, and don't take other people's opinions too seriously.

Just be yourself, o( o.Hope you're happy!! Bless you.

As long as it's not autistic! Autism means not talking to other people! I guess you just like to be alone and don't like to be noisy! Make some friends! Actually, I'm also alone when I'm not at work, and I don't like to go out!

No, it has something to do with personality, but in fact, being alone is also a kind of beauty. Adopt it.

Being is lonely, don't be afraid of being alone, this is the pure enlightenment that life gives us, it doesn't carry any meaning. If you mend the relationship with yourself, learn tolerance, and know how to respect each other's freedom, there is not much difference between two people and one person, and one person can live better than two people. If you believe, it will be a little better and understand the happiness of self-sufficiency.

The biggest knot in people's hearts is that they only see the fault of others, and identify themselves as victims, but the unfortunate poor people can't see through them, and the victims are often self-harmful, using the existence of others to harm themselves, and thinking about living a bad relationship, I don't know what to do. Can you take love seriously? Let go of yourself a little bit and love yourself a little more?

A person who loves himself does not allow himself to live in the shadow of self-pity and hurt is a sign of cowardice. It is necessary to distinguish the difference between love and harm. This is true for loved ones, for lovers, and even more so for self.

When you are still you and I am still me, you know how to respect and love each other, and we walk together for a period of care, which is the gift of fate, and it is too late to thank you.

When there is no fear of loneliness, there is no need to divide one person and two people, women and men, tenderness and violence, loyalty and betrayal, love and hate.

The human energy is such that when you internalize the feelings and emotions that have gone bad and let yourself bear and bear it alone, sooner or later you will break down.

Theoretically, people are bound to be lonely, and no one can live for you, but emotionally, if you can't find a point to rely on, you will easily collapse if you are helpless. When the energy is exhausted, the strongest man in the world will fall.

When we are tired, our energy falls to the bottom, our emotions are traumatic, we encourage negative imagination, and everything suddenly becomes gray and meaningless. You must remind yourself that this feeling is just an inertial loop of cranial nerves that tend to negative reactions, not a reflection of life, so don't identify with it.

When the energy declines, don't hold on to it, people are lonely animals, but don't cling to loneliness. Find an emotional point to rely on, such as a lover, such as a pet, such as yourself, like God, put it in your heart, love him, and then smile at yourself and say thank you. Don't care whether this reliance point is real, people are people, and you have to rely on emotional pillars that are stronger than yourself to survive.

Don't mind relying on it, don't care about saving face or anything, people are originally group animals, and there is no reason and need to cling to loneliness. Grasp a point of reliance that allows you to be centered, calm yourself, and then surpass yourself, if you can improve, you can realize the meaning of life!

Only one's own suffering is best known in one's own heart, and it is useless for others to say anything. People live in this specialty.

The lonely in the world comes, and the lonely goes. So don't be desperate for the happiness you don't get in the depths of your heart. Although God has unfairly given you such a life, He will also arrange the happiness you deserve for your future in the dark.

Perhaps, you will live an ordinary life in the future, but it doesn't matter, the important book is that you will meet someone who cares about you in the future. Do you really love your current friend? You are really still young, and sometimes the success of your career does not depend on your academic qualifications, but on your own hard work.

Learn skills, learn life, work hard. If your life is in the circle of life of someone you don't like, as long as you live in this circle for a day, you will not get the happiness you hoped for. What you need is to be enterprising, to leave the life environment you hate, and when you get out of the bad life circle and into the life circle you like, happiness will follow.

Happiness comes, won't it still be happy?

There may be many injustices in a person's life, but we cannot complain about it ourselves. Heaven will not listen to our weeping. The winners have a thousand mothers, while the losers are orphans. In society, people gather together, and strong people are born. Hopefully you'll be stronger, stronger.

Only you know...

Maybe you like a quiet friend to keep you company, but you haven't been able to find that person

Quiet is not synonymous with solitude. You can also be quiet with friends. But loneliness is just one person.

Like you, I want to be alone, but when I'm alone, I want someone to talk to.

Most of the people who like to be alone are quieter, and being alone is an alternative to group life, in fact, everyone likes to be alone, and everyone likes to socialize, but some of the socialization is no longer the social that it used to be, and slowly more people prefer to be alone.

Pan Howard said something I like very muchThere is no solitude, it is difficult to enter the group; There is no group, beware of being alone.

A person who is good at being in a group likes to be alone is really alone, and a person who has been alone is not called liking to be alone, which is inferiority complex and social phobia, on the contrary, if you are not good at being alone, then you must also be cautious about being alone.

I actually like to be alone, because I have a lot of hobbies by myself, such as reading, watching movies, watching TV series, playing guitar, etc., each of which I think is more meaningful when I do it alone, plus my usual way of decompressing is also to think alone.

So there is nothing wrong with liking to be alone, everyone has the right to be alone and like to be alone, the most basic feature of being alone is not to hurt others, the best point is to enjoy loneliness, the reason why some people are curious about being alone is because some people can't enjoy this loneliness of a person, always thinking that there are more people to not be lonely, in fact, it is not, lonely people are also lonely in the group, and people who like to be alone are not lonely at any time.

In fact, most of the time when you are alone is troublesome, for example, someone has made an appointment to go out to eat, but if you want to go out, you have to prepare, you have to meet a lot of people, you have to talk a lot, you have to eat a lot of things, many reasons add together, think about it, in fact, it is better to be alone at home.

If you are good at being alone, you will be good at socializing.

What does it feel like to be alone? This one is a personal habit. People tend to think of communication as a kind of ability, but ignore that being alone is also a ability, and in a sense it is a more important ability than communication.

On the other hand, it is a pity not to be sociable, but it is also a serious defect to be intolerant of loneliness. Being alone is also an ability that is not something that anyone can possess at all times. When I was a child, I was a left-behind child, my parents were in other places, I was at home with my grandparents, and there was very little communication with my grandparents at that time.

Anyway, it should be a habit that I developed at that time, when there is something annoying, I like to be alone, and I prefer to be alone to talk to friends, I prefer to be alone and slowly reminisce and think slowly. Sometimes I sit quietly on the floor-to-ceiling window in my room at home, turn off the lights in the room, and shine in the room by the moonlight outside, quietly and quietly, only with the moonlight as a companion, such an environment is most suitable for being alone, and it will make me feel very comfortable. It was probably when I was in high school, I had a quarrel with my mother, in fact, I can't remember the specific reason now, but I remember that it was very serious at that time.

The heart is very irritable. I shut myself in my room without eating, and everyone else knocked on the door outside, but I just didn't want to pay attention. A few hours later I was back to normal.

Now that I'm working, I'm the same, sometimes I don't want to go out shopping, I like to stay at home alone.

The first type: look down on the sophistication of human feelings.

The communication between people is important in the heart, but after experiencing the warmth and coldness of human feelings, I found that sincerity is the most rare.

Too many people are just superficial friends, and it seems that they have a very good relationship with you, but once interests are involved, the relationship will immediately fall apart, and people's hearts are far from being as pure as we see.

When you were young, you felt that "many friends and many roads", in fact, at this time, each other was just a kind of friendship, and it was not until middle age that you found that you could really help you in trouble, not as much as you think.

Even between relatives, there is jealousy and deceit, for people who look down on the world, rather than associating with such a person, it is better to be "alone" in the potato hall alone.

People are sophisticated, in exchange for what you don't want to have, after all, you will be relieved.

You don't need to get involved in other people's Vanity Fair, you don't have to worry about flattery, you don't have to easily communicate with people, and it takes a lot of courage to be able to be honest and "alone".

Second, I want to stay away from comparing myself.

Sometimes, you will find that you have become vulgar, but isn't this what you have ever hated the most?

When I was young, whether it was with friends or a dinner party between classmates, I always left something nostalgic, because at that time, everyone would not compare, so I would leave good memories in my heart.

But after middle age, when you go to class reunions or conversations between friends, you will find that there are always people who like to flatter, and there is no shortage of comparisons with each other.

If you mix well, you can be looked at differently, if you don't mix well, it is easy to be ignored, and even some people will trample on your dignity and have become a vanity fair in society.

When a person wants to get rid of this kind of life of mutual comparison, he can only be alone, since he can't change the attitude of others, he can only comfort himself through "solitude".

To be honest, with those who like to compare, you can't say a word at all, and you don't have that friendship with each other, rather than wasting your youth in vain, it is better to make life better through "solitude".

The third type: self-improvement in solitude.

Being alone can make a person stronger and more effectively promoted.

When a person is used to being alone, he will have a lot of private space, whether it is for meditation, reading, or some more leisure activities, life will become better and better, and at the same time, he will become stronger.

Compared with those who like to be "alone", they often participate in various social activities, but they waste their time on flattery, and the most important thing is that people don't take you seriously at all, and no matter how sincere your feelings are, they can't get back a sincere emotion.

Especially after people reach middle age, time and energy become more and more precious, and then consumed in vain for unnecessary socialization, will only make life more and more depressed, and they will not be able to break through.

When you get used to living alone, you will experience what life brings.