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Disagree. If our friend is not doing well in school, we can't stay away from her and try our best to help him.

There are good reasons for agreeing and disagreeing.

Be influenced by what one constantly sees and hears. I often walk by the river, how can I not get my shoes wet.

Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black.

In reality, people's interactions constitute complex social relationships.

Everyone who is in this situation is affected by various circumstances. When it comes to this issue, we naturally think of Fu Xuan, a thinker in the Western Jin Dynasty.

once said: "Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black." This sentence is now often used as a metaphor for often associating with excellent people, and you will develop in a good direction, and vice versa.

Indeed, in life, we will inadvertently accept some subtle influences from the environment, thus unconsciously changing our behavior. There are many real-life examples of this throughout the ages.

Ouyang Xiu. He was a famous writer and politician in the Northern Song Dynasty. He is in Yingzhou.

When he was the chief, there was a young man named Lu Gongzhu under his command. Once, Ouyang Xiu's friend Fan Zhongyan.

Passing by here, he visited his home, and Ouyang Xiu invited Lu Gongzhu to entertain guests together. During the banquet, Fan Zhongyan said to Lu Gongshu: "It's great that you can do things by Ouyang Xiu's side, you should ask him more about the skills of writing essays and poems."

Since then, under the teaching of Ouyang Xiu's words and deeds, Lu Gong's writing skills have improved rapidly.

This example well illustrates the truth of "those who are close to Zhu are red". "The Analects of Liren" cloud: "See the sages and think together."

If a person is surrounded by some moral people, then this person will also work hard to catch up with them. In the same way, if a person is always associating with people with low moral qualities, his character will become bad over time, and we will look at one such example.

Before liberation, a young writer named Mu Shiying wrote a book "North and South Pole" that exposed the darkness of the old society, which caused a sensation in the literary world. But when he arrived at the Ten Mile Ocean, he was affected by that decadent lifestyle, and he even sang the praises of the life of a drunken gold fan, which can be said to be the best interpretation of "the black who is close to ink".

At this point, we can already see how much the environment has an impact on people's character. In ancient times, Meng's mother moved three times, precisely because she was well versed in the truth of "those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black". Even now, we are still teenagers in the growth stage, our eyes are not bright enough, and our hearts are not mature enough, and "close to ink" will inevitably become "black", so why not "close to Zhu"?

Therefore, in our interactions with others, we should learn to distinguish between right and wrong, and try our best to "make good friends without making bad friends".Let us continue to improve our self-cultivation, increase our talents, and be a person with both ability and political integrity through exchanges with our friends.

There is such an old Chinese saying"Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. "。It mainly emphasizes the impact of the environment on people, but ignores people's subjective initiative, which is actually biased. Because some people are "those who are close to Zhu may not be red, and those who are close to ink may not be black".

"Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black" is just an extreme statement, although there are such cases, but not all people are like this. Whether "the one who is close to Zhu is red, and the one who is close to ink is black" depends on the person's own ability, if he is "close" to "Zhu" and does not study, then he will not be "red"; If he "closes" to "Mo" and does not get into bad habits, but instead helps "Mo", then both of them will become "red".

A bad guy and a good guy together. So will both of these people become good or bad? If it is the former, then wouldn't everyone in the world become good people? If it's the latter. Isn't that all the people in the world going to be bad people?

For example, the police, they deal with thieves and thieves every day, does every policeman become a thief and a thief? And those thieves, thieves, they deal with the police every day, can every thief become a good person like a policeman?

The one who is close to Zhu is red, and the one who is close to ink is black" itself is a self-contradiction, everything will not be absolute, and no matter how certain the facts are, it may be distorted, or it is better to say that "those who are close to Zhu may not be red, and those who are close to ink may not be black".

The so-called close to Zhu is red, close to ink is black.

It's just a general statement, a cautionary statement. Its original intention is only to point out to us an attitude of making friends and neighbors, and an additional criterion for knowing people.

But real life often doesn't go your way, and an excellent person is the so-called red one. It is impossible to come into contact with people close to them throughout your life. But the good ones are still bright red.

In other words, what about the close friendship between a red person and an ink master?

Therefore, those who are close to Zhu may not be red, and those who are close to ink may not be black.

Nothing can be done in one fell swoop.

The so-called black is the one who is close to the ink, which means that being close to the bad guy can make people bad, which means that the objective environment has a great impact on people. For example, Meng's mother moved three times, why there are three moves of Meng's mother, is because Meng's mother feels that the environment will have a great impact on people.