Is love really great? Is it true that if you love someone, you don t care about her past?

It's been given to you for the first time, what do you care about?

Does she have 3 firsts?

Don't care if it's over.

Don't be memoristic.

Faint to death, are you still a man, it's not a feudal period, people will go through some things to grow!!

You are too open-minded to be a man Where to find the first time you said that you haven't given the other party a hungry family You still won't go to the people who are looking for death and life Be content Don't be in the blessing and don't know the blessing You must know how to cherish it.

You're already good, it's all given to you for the first time, what more could you ask for? Hey...

It's already good, I don't even need to live with your thoughts.

My boyfriend had sex with his ex-girlfriend, and I knew that a man could never forget the woman he had for the first time, so I chose to give up!

A: Well, will someone who really loves you care about your past? I have to tell you, of course it will.

Because he really loves you. Your good and your bad, he must care. His past, your present, and your future are all known to him.

Moreover, there is also the right to know.

So, don't think that caring about your past is distrustful of you. When you really love someone, you want to know everything about them. This is very easy to understand.

But what if you really have something in your past that can't be said – what if? If he dislikes you and despises you because of this. That's certainly not true love.

If so, he will only feel sorry for you, and he will only blame you for why you are doing this. At the end of the day, I still think: why, I didn't come to you earlier.

Let you endure so much hardship and take so many detours. Do you still have any questions about such true love?

So, see how much he loves you and how much your past makes people "care". Don't overthink anything else.

Q: Would you not divorce for the sake of your children? How to minimize the impact of divorce on children?

A: Well, that's not a problem for me. First of all, I'm still single. Secondly, I don't have children. So, you ask: not divorce for the sake of the children? I don't have much say in this.

However, I can only talk about the common understanding: many people think that if you can, you should never get divorced. After the divorce, the children are very pitiful.

You see, either there is no father's love or no mother's love. However, do you think that in a family that does not divorce, children will definitely be able to grow up healthy and happy? If you're not happy, can't the child feel it?

Isn't growing up in a repressive home the biggest impact on children?

You say, how can divorce minimize the impact on the children? You don't shy away from the issue of divorce yourself. It is important for the child to know that it is not his fault that his parents divorced.

However, it is really a matter of feelings. The child is very innocent, but no matter what the situation, this father and this mother will treat him as their favorite treasure. Look for them at any time, and they will be the first to appear.

The promises that can be given must be done in the word. Otherwise, there will be a crisis of confidence.

After all, what couple thinks about divorce when they get married? If it is true that being together is also painful, then the long pain is better than the short pain. Although children don't understand, they will also hope that their parents are truly happy.

Just to get to know her better. I just want to know before they met me. The current situation of her life and work.

But I don't care about his past. It doesn't matter what kind of person she's been in love with. There have been several relationships in the past.

I don't care about any of that. Because what I care is. His now.

and his attitude towards me. and for everything I have done. That's what I care about the most.

The reason why I don't care about her past. That's because? I think in the process of growing up.

The things you experience are different, and the things and people you encounter around you are also different. He used to live without me. So I don't care about her past.

What I care about is what I have now. All I care about is my future and her. It's because I love him.

I love her, the person now, and the future of him and me. That's what I can grasp now. As for the past, let it pass!

In fact, in real life, everyone will pass. If people are always concerned about the past. Then he will not get real happiness.

It's all because of love. This is also something that loving someone should do. Grasp the present.

Cherish the people in front of you. Let's look to the future together. That's what I should be doing right now.

This is also what only one who truly loves can do. That is to say, when a person truly loves someone, he will not care about her past. What she cares about is the present, the person, and the future of him and the person.

At the same time, it will also do its best for the future of two people.

There's a good saying: I care about your past, but I don't want to know anything about your past!

If you really love someone, you don't care about the other person, whether it is in the past or in the future. It's just that many things can't be forced, so we retreat to the next best thing, selectively make ourselves less concerned about the other person's past, just don't care so much, can we really do it less caring?

What has never been experienced, the promise made at the beginning, many times is just a kind of groundless blind confidence!

The so-called love, the most important thing is acceptance, that is, to forget each other's past, that is: I don't mind what kind of past you have, I don't mind your so-called black history, what I care about is the present, and the future we will have together. It's just that when fantasy and reality collide, anyone can helplessly see their own narrow side, and can't help but condemn me in my heart for not being tolerant enough, and on the other hand, questioning:

Am I not loving him enough?

No, no, no, I believe that most people's love is thick and sincere, and there is no need to question yourself. It's just that growth itself is a fantasy, reality shines into fantasy, breaking illusions, hesitation, hesitation, and then the process of being truly firm, so my advice to friends who are in confusion is:

1. At the beginning, saying that you understand and pretend not to mind must be a manifestation of true love, there is no doubt about it;

2. As long as you don't hurt the other party, then let the other party know your past as little as possible, as well as many details of the past, after all, it's one thing to know, but it's another thing to witness the whole process of things and not care about it.

3. If it's the other party's past, you don't have anything to do to investigate the other party's past, it's okay to block yourself, it's enough to support yourself, as long as you are sure that the other party loves you now, you don't care about the rest.