Hello, I m disturbed, my heart is in turmoil, I don t know how to talk about it, I can t get calm, w

When I saw this, I found that you were indeed very entangled, and I felt very entangled when I read it. Your traditional education is very similar to mine, your own parents want their daughter to have a good home, and from your literal meaning, you keep mentioning the question that your family's economic conditions are better than his, you know what that means? If you feel it so obviously, then he must know it, and this will make him feel that he has no confidence in the future.

So you have to tell her that you love his people.

He has been chasing you for so long, and you have finally fallen in love for a long time, and you are about to get married, and you have found a problem.

It's a good sign to have a problem, solve it early. so as not to cause a tragedy.

I hope you can find an opportunity to have a good talk, communication is the best way. Without communication, things can get even harder.

Also, you should let him know that your feelings for him will also be insecure for men. Therefore, you have to understand that while you are working hard, he is also uncomfortable.

Besides, he is busy, but you have to talk to him about it, this home is where you will live together in the future, and what things are discussed.

Although I am not married yet, I have learned from other people's marriages that marriage is a matter of two people, and if two people cannot tolerate each other, they will not be happy in the end.

In fact, marriage is very simple and difficult, it is to tolerate and support each other.

You are about to get married, this matter has not been resolved, and you will be even more uncomfortable after marriage, so say your love for him and how much courage it takes to say that you want to marry him. Hehe.

The matter has come out, don't be afraid, solve it well, it will definitely be possible.

After reading your question, I feel that your boyfriend is still someone to be trusted. You said you wanted to find a man who loves you, and I agreed. But if you expect to treat you like you did when you were in love after you get married, I'm afraid there are only a handful of such men in this world.

If your boyfriend is busy snubbing you, then you can find something to do by yourself, you can't be so clingy, love is all a woman, but definitely not all a man. Parents are definitely thinking about their children, but no one can guarantee that their decision is the most correct, and no one can see the future. Happiness is your own, think about it yourself, don't miss your marriage for such a trivial matter.

If he had money, he wouldn't be able to do anything. He doesn't like what you're making so much money for. Have you ever communicated with him?

This sister, I think that such a boyfriend can't marry him! He will make you entangled, wronged, and painful now, do you think such a boyfriend can give you security and happiness in the days to come! When encountering disagreements and getting married, he can turn a blind eye like this!

True love, you should at least take the initiative to communicate with you about common ideas, and you can't be left alone in a dilemma! What a girl hopes most is to find someone who gives her a sense of security and consideration, but he can't do it! Think again, as your parents said, marriage is a gamble for a woman's happiness for a lifetime!

You should be responsible for your choices!

Listen to it at home**, play with the computer, do a few things that can be relaxed, and you're good to go! I'm like this as usual.

Not interested in what to learn, that's the main reason.

Listen to songs and write a diary. Write down your worries and don't have to look through them later.

Find a time to free your mind and then focus on learning.

Men go to the computer, women go shopping.

Please, if there's anything else to say, I'll say it all at once.

Distract yourself and hang out.

Try to do this, and slowly it will get better:

1. The corners of the mouth are habitually raised by 15 degrees.

2. Be good at discovering small happiness.

3. Appropriately lower the standard of living.

4. Properly forgetful mind.

5. Choose your favorite profession.

6. Pressure resistance and blow resistance.

7. Be blunt to negative emotions.

8. Vent stress anytime, anywhere.

9. Thanksgiving.

10. Relaxed rhythm of life.

11. The mentality of mutual praise.

12. Be passionate about life.

13. Discover the good side of things.

14. Good at self-deprecation.

15. Appropriate Spiritual Victory Method.

16. There is sustenance beyond eight hours.

17. Don't have much ambition.

18. Both internal and external.

Dictation** It's okay to smoke a cigarette to relieve boredom.

Find more work to do, time will ** everything.

I'm also out of love. My boyfriend doesn't want me anymore. But I'm still cheeky and hit him every day.

He didn't even want to connect. But I really can't control myself. Ay.

It's sad. Why did he become so fast? He said we weren't suitable.

Ay.

Time will dilute everything, and it will be fine

Men can't fall because of women Men should be self-reliant You must always remember that no matter how much suffering a man has in his heart, he can't show it You can't let women look down on you

There are several ways to distract yourself and forget about her

The first is to find something to keep yourself busy, and the second is to spend more time with friends and find happy things to do.

Third, try to avoid being lonely, you can get a good girlfriend temporarily, in fact, the best medicine to forget a person is time, time can forget everything, I also came over like this, the best method I have used is the second one, you can try

There are two kinds of external and internal causes**. External factors**: listen to some light**, drink a cup of weak tea, etc., subject to your own interests; What's more important is the internal cause, the internal factor**:

Determine your life values and goals, and work towards them,—— so that you don't have time to pay attention to the distractions of the external environment.

Go to a wider place and look up at the sky (when the sky is blue). Breathe deeply.

Take a look at the Heart Sutra in the Buddhist scriptures, you will love it.

Buy critters and kill them.

Quite simply, according to the Law of Attraction, follow these steps:

1.Be clear about yourself and calm down.

2.I thought to myself: my thinking is up to me.

3 I thought to myself: My mood is very calm.

And so on and so forth.

Remember, you must not think of things like "I don't want to be in a mess of mood").

Inhale a lot, spit it out, think about more happy things, and feel the beauty of life

It's a good way, I've tried.

Hit yourself on the head 100 times with a brick, and if you can hit it, you should be calm. If you can't knock ......It is estimated that it has also calmed down.

Well, if you already think that there is no possibility of a combination, or that there is no need for ......Then I'll teach you the easiest way, ......That's how I learned to lie to myself!

Whenever you think of him, tell yourself, "I don't love him at all, what is he?" I didn't feel any pain at all when I lost him, I never loved him, everything was just play, and I wouldn't be sad."

And so on and so forth, just say a little bit more to yourself.

It doesn't take long for you to really believe.

My friend has also used this method, and it really works.

However, it's best not to use this method too much......If you tell too many lies, you will even believe yourself, and one day you will not be able to tell whether you are telling the truth or a lie......

Understand, empathize.

Find things to do and don't let yourself get carried away. Tell yourself that it's useless to think crankily, no one can predict what will happen in the future, and it's better to go with the flow. When you are together, you have to be happy and don't let yourself regret it.

Just read more good books and figure it out.

Love needs two people to run together!

Bedside fight and footing! As long as two people truly love each other, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome! No matter how ruthless she is, she will love you the same!

But if you don't love it, it's a different story!

Don't think of love as the most important thing in life! It won't be so painful! Find something to do!

Keep yourself busy and tired! Naturally, the troubles of love are left behind! Of course, you yourself have to treat the other person as a dispensable person, and if you lose it, it will only be a temporary pain.

After a long time, forget it! And maybe when you don't rely on his feelings. He will be better for you in turn!

And you have to think of yourself as the most important, sometimes it doesn't hurt to be selfish!

Emotionally unhappy??? Because there are so many things in love.

When you are alone, try to sort out your emotions, find out the factors that disturb your mood, and then prescribe the right medicine, if you know why you are annoying, then try to let go of the things that upset you, think of something happy, do something that can relax your mood, good luck...

I hope you don't look at everything too pessimistically, there will always be a good side to everything, it just depends on how you look at it! Let go and appreciate everything in this world, you will be happy, you will always see the sunshine after the wind and rain, not everything in the world is absolute!

Listen to the ** do sports, go out for a walk with friends, or find an open place to shout a few times, maybe it will be better.

Listen to the very quiet **, watch comedies, do light exercises.

Do something that will keep you focused.

You can listen to the light **, go out for a walk, etc.

As the saying goes, the bell needs to be tied to the bell. I feel that my heart is in turmoil, why do I let my heart be chaotic?You can't calm down because you've been thinking about it, adding chaos to chaos, chaos to chaos.

Do something that you don't think about. All kinds of things in life come one after another, and we must face them with an optimistic attitude and defeat them. We can only give you what we think is good, but the action is all up to you, come on.

If you want to do more things that make you happy, you shouldn't be too old, right?What is there to make yourself like this?

There is no need to lament the injustice of the world, no need to complain about the rush of time, no need to be sad about the impermanence of the years, and no longer regret the hesitation. In ordinary years, it is inevitable to hear ugly words, it is inevitable to encounter troublesome things, it is inevitable to meet unlucky people, don't think that you have been hurt, just like the breeze through the bamboo forest, the top of the mountain flying white clouds, the past is over, then your heart is also liberated. The south and the north go to the west and the east, but in the end it is just empty.

Listen to the light**, you can relax yourself, learn to let go, and be able to start again....If you live your life to the fullest, you won't be confused...

Live in your heart, don't think about it, and don't think about the future. It's good to live this second.

Find something that interests you, research it, and divert your attention.

Find something you like to do, sip tea, look at the scenery, and stay alone for a while.

Go on a trip, sing K, confess to the person you like, and do something you want to do but are afraid of losing face.

Find something you love to do and forget about your worries.

Go talk to a friend, complain, don't always be alone, that's it...