About oneself and what kind of one should choose him

...Hehe, isn't that high, not low?

I have also had such a conflict, when I walked with my boyfriend for the first time, he didn't hold my hand, I think he is very bad, but on the other hand, if he pulls my hand, I will feel that he does not respect me, in fact, this is the stage that needs to grow.

As long as you correct some value orientations yourself, don't go to the tip of the horns, everything will be fine!

As for what kind of boyfriend, this one needs fate, you will understand it when you meet it! Don't put too much pressure on yourself, be careful not to think about being sick.

Don't think about it alone.

When you meet something that feels right, it means that love is coming.

Don't think about it that much beforehand.

Love is not something that can be obtained with preparation.

Actually, you don't have to worry! It may be that the god of love has not yet come to you! Maybe you haven't met a boy you like yet! Love is instantaneous! I'm sure that in the near future, you will meet the boy you like in an instant.

Not all boys are the same! Are boys your age all naïve? I guess you're too little contact with boys!

There are many kinds of love, carefully selected, arranged by God, you like the kind!

Dear, do you mean how to choose your other half, if yes, I suggest considering the following: Sun Yuyu Mutual Respect: The partner chosen by the reed should respect your feelings and thoughts and help you grow.

Mutual understanding: There should be a genuine understanding and inclusive relationship where both parties can support each other and help each other grow. Common Goals:

Both parties should have common goals and visions that will help build a stable relationship. Mutual trust: Trust is built on sincerity and transparency, so you should focus on mutual trust when choosing a partner.

Love and respect: Choose a partner who you truly love and respect so that you can build a healthy and happy relationship. In short, choosing your other half is a very important thing, and you should seriously consider and choose someone who is really suitable for you.

I hope my answer helps!

In life, although we can't give up easily, there are some things that need to be given up. For example, between learning and entertainment, between emotion and reason, between classes and surfing the Internet, between beautiful clothes and reducing the burden on parents......We all need to learn to choose and learn to give up.

There are many decisions in our lives that are made by our own parents, and we have to follow them. But what do we do when we don't want to do it? But my parents said it was all for your good, and I had to do it.

Why can't we choose? Why can't our parents ask our opinions?

I remember that when I was about to graduate in the third year of junior high school, I wanted to come to vocational high school because my grades were not good. But the parents said: "What's in the vocational high school, it's not good, what can you learn from Youqin, so it's better not to read?"

My mom wouldn't let me read it. However, I know that my mother is good for me, and I am afraid that I will have no job and no knowledge when I come out in the future, but I know it, but I hope that my mother can listen to what I say, but my mother is unwilling, and in the end I can only quarrel with my mother. That time, my mother was so sad; She was still crying, I wanted to stick to my choice, but I didn't want to quarrel with my mother, so I wanted to talk to my mother, and my mother agreed.

What I want to tell my mother is: there is my sister going to school at home, the burden of the family is very heavy, I know that my mother wants me and my sister to be admitted to high school, but my grades are not very ideal, my sister's grades are better than mine, I hope my sister will study in general high school, although it is not very good to study vocational high school, but I don't think that vocational high school has its benefits, not worse than his god Wang Bi his school. Mom nodded.

Mom said, "The work that came out later was very hard and not very good. "I know all of this, but I believe in myself.

We must start from the low level and lay a good foundation before we can climb high. If you want to do everything so easily, then life is over, and you don't know how hard it is to earn money. Everyone has to try to work hard, so life will be perfect and life will be interesting.

So I stuck with my choice. Mom finally agreed.

The voices of the people are boiling, the lights are bright, the colors are colorful, etc., probably a city can be roughly summarized in this way. Who knows the pressure of living in this city, the family is counting on your Weibo salary to get by, and the pressure is supported by one person, and if you fall, the world will go into darkness.

The front may be a little pessimistic, you must know that you have to be optimistic in the present, but the choice is different. When we choose a different life, there will definitely be different friends who will appear around you to help you tide over the difficulties with you.

Love is always hard to fathom, getting married in the 70s is just to have a home, and then supporting each other, tolerating each other, and working together to create a better life for this home. Got married in the eighties, got up early and greedy for life together, worked hard for the children together, and contributed to this family together. Got married in the 90s, worked hard to make money together, worked hard to move into the city together, and cheered together to make others look at them with envy.

It can be seen that people of different generations have different ideas, and people of different generations have different goals of marriage.

In fact, people have choices, no matter what kind of era you live in, you can choose the life you want, the reason why people are different from other animals, is because the brain development is relatively higher than other animals, in this case, why don't we choose the life you want, whether it is quiet or bright, you have your own choice, you can have your own way of living.

I wish you all the best in the life you want.

Three years after graduation, I found that some of my classmates around me have already lived the life they dreamed of, and their common feature was that they knew exactly what they wanted, or they were obsessed with a certain city, or they left their hometown for love, or they knew what they wanted to do, and most of them realized their original dreams or were on the way to their goals.

I graduated from a normal university directly under the Ministry of Education, with a non-normal bachelor's degree, and I was sent to this school as a graduate student, and I can choose to be a teacher after graduation, and I also have a business background, and I can enter the enterprise. At that time, I was confused, I didn't know how to choose. And around me, many people's goal is to be a teacher, asked why they are so determined, the answer is two categories, one is that they feel that they can't do anything but be a teacher, and the other is that they really have a passion and dream for education, no matter what the reason, they are determined to participate in the job fairs of schools and education bureaus, some will sign a good school very smoothly, and some will be more twists and turns, but in the end, those who insist on being teachers have now become old teachers for three to six years.

There are also some undergraduate students who choose to enter the enterprise after graduating from the bachelor's degree, and now they have become the mainstay of the enterprise, and there are some who love academics and choose to continue their studies, and have begun to study for a doctorate.

And I, a person who has been with his fate since he was a child and has no plans and goals, chose a school and major in a daze, and sent a graduate student to this school as he pleased, and then changed jobs repeatedly after graduation, and now, three years after graduation, I am still trying and making mistakes in the workplace. It is only now that I understand that planning is not an ornament, planning is not useless, people, you must know what you want, it is possible to get, otherwise you may spend your whole life exploring and end up mediocre.

Life flavors, there is always their own blindness, suitable for themselves, is the best life, do not have to envy others, maybe others still envy you, you are upstairs to see the scenery, the people who see the scenery on the boat to see you, the things that life has experienced, the wind that has blown, the scenery that has been seen, will always fade away with time, the memory is blurred, the past can not be chased, take the road ahead, let your life be firm and soft, confident and humble, sunny and transparent, a person only has a strong heart, in order to be truly strong, and not to forgive setbacksIt is the best choice in life to move forward bravely, overcome obstacles, help open the fog in your heart, and find a life that suits you!

You don't have to live in the eyes of others and other people's worlds, choosing your own way of life is the best policy, more important than anything, what suits you is the best life, what is suitable for yourself?

For example, people get along with others, communicate if they are happy, don't say anything if they don't get along, just don't communicate, relatives are the same, no one owes anyone, there is no need to make him or her happy, endure it yourself, how to be happy this year, but you can't forget your roots, I will be doubly good to you if you are good to me.

At any time, don't judge a person by your own standards, and don't let your emotions involve innocent people.

Everyone has their own habits and ways of living, don't impose their own wishes on others, barely will not be happy, to know how to respect other people's choices, lifestyle, are suitable for their own good, just right for their own hearts, just the best, no best, only better, no better, only the best, suitable for yourself is the best life.

Then if it were me, I would choose the life I wanted. Take boys as an example, I think you still have to focus on your career, choose the life you want, work hard for your choice, and finally achieve a career. If you're a girl, I also think you should choose the life you want, because we girls can easily fall into the whirlpool of feelings.

Sometimes the other party has already come out, and we are still stuck in the same place. In the end, it is only yourself who is hurt.

If you choose to be emotional, then you will encounter a lot of difficulties on the road of affection. Maybe you can't go hand in hand to the end, then the relationship will abandon you. But life won't abandon you.

There is a career in life that you want, as well as the family affection that you rely on. Even if you can't achieve great things, then at least you will gain a lot along the way, and you will not end up empty.

And in the life you want, you may also receive unexpected surprises, maybe you will meet a new relationship in this life, this relationship may be in line with the life you want, there is no conflict between them, and you do not need to make a difficult choice between life and feelings. Be brave and choose the life you want.

Emotional emptiness, in fact, many things can be used to make up. For example, shopping sprees. For example, enjoy your current life.

Although there will be some regrets in retrospect. But sometimes what you get can often make up for these regrets, and no one's life is perfect. For an inappropriate relationship, it is better to choose a desired life.

Give up the relationship, maybe as time goes by in your life, you will faintly forget that relationship.

If you just choose feelings, then you will always yearn for life. Feelings can be a part of life, but life is not a part of feelings. So I would choose the life I wanted.

Some people say that if you do your best to live, you may use too much force and lead to a lack of stamina; Some people say that a step-by-step life is more secure.

Actually, there's nothing wrong with doing your best. The mistake is not to consider the individual's personality and characteristics.

Everyone is different. Everyone has a different attitude towards life. Some people will back down when they are under pressure, and some people will forge ahead when they are under pressure. Some people try their best to run out of stamina, but there are also people who try their best and keep going until the end.

In fact, it doesn't matter which way you choose, what matters is whether you have been working your own path. Is your self a little better today than you were yesterday?

Some people keep exercising themselves in the process of running hard, and some people keep consuming themselves in the process of running hard.

No one dictates that there is only one pattern in life, just as no one dictates that success is only money. Some people seek to see the mountains at a glance; There are people who pursue contentment and happiness, and small wealth is peace.

Everyone's vision of success is different, and everyone's harvest is different. Only when a hundred flowers bloom can there be a great atmosphere, and only when a hundred flowers bloom can we experience a different beauty, if there is only one color in the world, it is too monotonous.

We must be able to understand the differences in beauty, but also be able to appreciate all kinds of different beauty, and seek common ground while reserving differences!

So no matter what way you choose, it's important to keep trying. Even if there are inevitably twists and turns in the process, this does not affect the overall situation.

History moves forward in constant twists and turns, and life can also harvest a better future in constant twists and turns.