It s been nearly half a year since the breakup, how can I not want her?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-26
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you and a person don't want to continue, then in fact, there can be a very convenient and concise reason to break up, you say that through such a long time of knowing and understanding, I found that there are actually a lot of contradictions between us that cannot be resolved, and even there are many differences in the three views, so we should break up, don't delay each other's time anymore.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

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    I want to tell you something. I think we might really not be a good fit between us, and I've been struggling lately. I think I'm a little depressed because I always feel like I'm going to have a lot to do with you.

    None of them quite match my point of view. To put it bluntly, our three views may really be a bit incompatible, and I think I need to rest for a while. What do you think?

    Maybe it's time for us to calm down for a while.

    Questions. We had a couple of fights, all because of him, and the relationship became weaker and weaker, and no matter how I messaged, he replied um or oh The last time I asked to break up, I deleted him, and then he sent me a friend **, and when I broke up with him, he self-harmed, and it made me very difficult to figure out how to get him to let go of me completely and not hurt him.

    You don't care if he hurts himself or not, I'm going to say to you that a man who is mature enough will not hurt himself. A man who can harm himself, he won't let others know, so for now, in terms of the man you meet, he is not the kind of mature man, nor is he the kind of man who can hurt himself. He did all this to show you, just to keep you.

    Questions. So what the hell should I do?

    Judging from your description, he doesn't like you anymore, because he has become less and less affectionate towards you after you are arguing. So he started to perfunctory you, and you also said that he started to reply to you uhh or oh or something. So now you can make it clear to him directly, you say that since the two people don't like each other anymore, why do you have to hang it?

    You said you must break up, you don't care what he does, you just delete him. You don't have to worry about him.

    Questions. But don't hurt him, it's very euphemistic to break up. What to say?

    As soon as you say this, you know that you still love him.

    Well, since you asked, then I'll get back to you. You can tell him that your family is forcing you to get married. You're going back on a blind date.

    Now I can't spend the rest of my life with him. Please don't be sad and don't be sad. Find someone you love and spend the rest of your life together.

    Questions. It doesn't fit with me, and he knows that my family won't let me go on a blind date, and that can't fool him.

    Then you tell him that you are already in love with someone else. Let him stop doing useless things. This will only delay him, and it will not lead to any results for you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't want to continue in the face of your relationship, you can tell each other about this bad side of each other, see how to solve it, don't think about breaking up, breaking up is very hurtful.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can talk to the other person directly, say that you don't like him anymore, and see what he thinks. I don't have any thoughts about you anymore, so we might really be able to break up. She won't listen to it for you anymore.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello friend, I don't know why I don't want to continue, if you really don't want to continue, you can just say it. There are many reasons for this to make it more and more clear to you, there are some factors that hinder you from continuing, you can communicate honestly, and break up peacefully when it is no longer suitable to continue, thank you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you don't want to continue, you have to find a reason to break up with each other, don't delay other people's lives, live your own life well, and let each other no longer bother.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't want to continue and want to break up, since you want to break up clearly, then you should resolutely and decisively break up with the other party, this kind of thing must not hesitate to be indecisive, and you must quickly cut through the mess, which is a relief for both parties.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because I may work in other places, I can't bear to live separately in the future. When you euphemistically ask yourself to break up, you should be soft and steely. Try not to leave the other party room for renegotiation or maneuver to avoid causing more trouble.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can put it forward directly, after all, the relationship is a matter of two people, you don't want to continue, there is always one party who is suffering when those two people are together, everyone is an adult, and you can do things according to your own wishes.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't mention breaking up, you should pay attention to it when you were together, and then explain the reason for the breakup to the other party, and try to break up peacefully.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Straightforwardly, when you say you don't love it. The more direct you are, the less damage you will do to the other person, and the more you twist and pinch and drag, the more damage you will do to the other person. Follow your heart and speak boldly.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Let's just talk to him! Since there is no hope for him, why cling? Don't let yourself be too tired, and don't let yourself be too sad. If you can't continue to go on, you won't be happy if you are barely together, and the reluctant ending will only make you sadder.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you don't want to continue, just like today, you can just talk to the other party about the breakup.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you want to continue, you will directly propose to break up, and I feel that the personalities of the two parties are not compatible together.

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